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 Posted: Mon Sep 15, 2014 6:19 pm
Maybe it's just me, I know I'm shy and I tend to push people away.
Though once you get pass that I'm a person who just wants love.
I just want someone that I can go "see that beautiful lass over there, yea she's mine."
But I can't since almost every lesbian doesn't want to talk to me because I'm bisexual,
and I can't go to a gay bar yet not old enough.
my love is beyond rough emotion_drool
sorry for my rant
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Posted: Mon Sep 15, 2014 10:20 pm
I thought the same exact thing, but let me tell you a little story that my uncle once told me, forgive me if it bores you.
My uncle once told me that when he was in college he would constantly go after girls, weather they were just a crush or just really cute at first site. Well one day, my uncle was shooting hoops with some friends, and he saw this really girl her liked, but he could never build the guts to talk to her. So one day, the girl see's my uncle in the library and for some reason she legit thinks that my uncle is stalking her, so she confronts him and hes like "stalking you?! alright well forget you." So my uncle completely forgets about the girl, and decides to go to a bar and as he is sitting there drinking his beer away and stuff, he literally looks up at the celling and says, "HEY WHATS WRONG WITH ME! Why don't I have a girlfriend yet!" So from that day on he stopped trying to get girls and stuff. Till today he is married and has two wonderful children.
His word of advice to me was, "Don't go looking for love because it will find you." Believe it or not, I truely believe in his advice aha. I hope that helps you out (:!
P.S Don't think of yourself being shy is a bad thing because in my book it's a perk wink and who knows, it might be for others as well.
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Posted: Tue Sep 16, 2014 8:46 am
Maybe I'm weird...I stopped minding that I was single through the middle of high school.
And I never ever want someone to call me "theirs."
And I will never call someone "mine."
I belong to me.
But anyone who won't talk to you because you're bisexual, isn't worth your time. Dicano is completely right. Love will find you. It tends to happen when you stop looking.
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Posted: Tue Sep 16, 2014 7:30 pm
I know, I tend to tell myself this all the time. I tell my friends that too, I just can't listen to my own advice. Being shy has it's perks, it means I can finish a book before someone tries to talk to me emotion_kirakira
ty though
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Posted: Tue Sep 16, 2014 7:33 pm
I've been single through most of my life, other then the 8th grade when I dated a girl name Mary.
Afterwords I was done.
Now though after a year out of school and almost done with Beauty School.
Well I agree with you, I do belong to me, but I don't mine sharing me who shares themselves.
That's what the beauty of the soul
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Posted: Wed Sep 17, 2014 11:12 am
I could share every fiber of my being with someone being called "theirs" would make me uncomfortable.
I really do hope that you find someone. You seem like you have a lot of love to give. redface
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Posted: Mon Sep 22, 2014 9:53 pm
Being shy is never a bad thing...and as for pushing people away i do to mainly because im afraid i suppose sad i guess being a nervous wreck is attractive to no one
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Posted: Mon Sep 22, 2014 10:48 pm
screaminggemini Being shy is never a bad thing...and as for pushing people away i do to mainly because im afraid i suppose sad i guess being a nervous wreck is attractive to no one
we are bound to find someone who finds us attractive!
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Posted: Tue Sep 23, 2014 7:19 am
I would like to rant about the same thing. Not old enough to go to any gay bars.I'm pansexual, too, so, there's that as well. Gender fluid. It's rough, but you gotta keep going. I don't really have much experience, either, but it'll happen (hopefully). I am quiet and shy, too. It's rough, but funny things happen.
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Posted: Thu Sep 25, 2014 10:55 am
Dicano I thought the same exact thing, but let me tell you a little story that my uncle once told me, forgive me if it bores you.
My uncle once told me that when he was in college he would constantly go after girls, weather they were just a crush or just really cute at first site. Well one day, my uncle was shooting hoops with some friends, and he saw this really girl her liked, but he could never build the guts to talk to her. So one day, the girl see's my uncle in the library and for some reason she legit thinks that my uncle is stalking her, so she confronts him and hes like "stalking you?! alright well forget you." So my uncle completely forgets about the girl, and decides to go to a bar and as he is sitting there drinking his beer away and stuff, he literally looks up at the celling and says, "HEY WHATS WRONG WITH ME! Why don't I have a girlfriend yet!" So from that day on he stopped trying to get girls and stuff. Till today he is married and has two wonderful children.
His word of advice to me was, "Don't go looking for love because it will find you." Believe it or not, I truely believe in his advice aha. I hope that helps you out (:!
P.S Don't think of yourself being shy is a bad thing because in my book it's a perk wink and who knows, it might be for others as well. This is some good advice.
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Posted: Mon Sep 29, 2014 10:44 pm
I dunno.
I'm bi too, so I know the struggle, but it's not as bad when you're older.
Even without me ever being a part of the bar scene.
On one hand, I think that being single is the best thing ever, and relationships are kind of overrated.
On the other hand..
Snuggles.
And having someone who you understand, understanding you.
Sex can be a nice perk.
But mostly snuggles.
I miss the snuggles a lot.
Long story short, being bi isn't the end of the world. Neither is being single.
And the nerd scene, in my experience, is the BEST way to meet ladies.
Like, literally.
I've been going to conventions for maybe ten years now, because gosh I am 24, and I never fail to meet so many of just the loveliest ladies. With probably a 7/10 occurrence of them being queer i n some way.
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Posted: Tue Sep 30, 2014 3:05 am
I'm In The Same,Loveless Boat. Granted Mine Is More The Fact I'm Evil,Psychotic And Scare The s**t Out Of People But Monsters Deserve Love Too Right? ._.
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Posted: Sun Oct 26, 2014 11:24 pm
Just gotta wait for the right person smile
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Posted: Wed Nov 05, 2014 8:14 pm
I have a similar issue. I'm not shy but I'm an introvert and being around people for extended periods drains me. I'm not into bars and such either, since it's too noisy and chaotic of an environment and I don't drink.
Over the years I've learned to be more accepting of people and get to know people that maybe aren't a good fit. If they aren't a good friend they drift away and that's ok. Maybe taking a risk like that is good since you never know unless you try it out.
I have a problem with only ever meeting straight people though, and I've moved a lot, ever few years throughout my 20's so I'm not stable enough to meet anyone, which is frustrating. I wouldn't know where to look anyway, so I too am sort of hoping that one day, if I'm open-minded and willing to get to know different kinds of people, that someone will just appear out of thin air. I tend to think some effort must go into it, but that's never helped yet.
I don't understand why people don't want to talk to bisexual people though...I've heard that before. Maybe people are afraid of getting hurt if someone changes their mind or something, but going into any relationship has that risk there, and trust has to be built so that doesn't make much sense to me...
Being shy/introverted can be a good thing too. Took me forever to not hate myself for it. Some people like to have a quiet companion who doesn't chat their ears off, someone who likes to read and be peaceful and someone who doesn't cling to them constantly and wants time to themselves sometimes. Everyone has their quirks, and shyness or introversion isn't the worst one to have. ^ ^
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