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I know, lame title.

Here is the summary:
My sister in law and her husband live about an hour away. Awhile back, my hubby and I made a trip out to them to help them move. They have never once been to our house, and they refuse to try come out. They say it's too far. We went out there to help them move, but they can't come over just to sit and chat?
My grup of irl friends don't ever come over when they say they are going to, yet they tell me that if I ditch them, I'm on "friend probabtion" which is no calls or visits for 90 days. They assume I wasn't going to show up a few weeks ago, when I have never once been a no-show. i even begged my hubby to have them over for dinner when they had money troubles! But then they tell me they don't like my house.
My sister in law, uncle in law, aunt and uncle, another aunt, and a few others are trying to convince me to wait to have a child, when it's what I want. I have no support, no one wants to come see me, and my sister who hasn't even graduated yet is pregnant.
This is truely a test of my will, I guess.
The good lord must think I'm strong but I feel so weak.
Is there something wrong with me?
Why do I just naturally drive people away?