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Akiko-infinity
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PostPosted: Sun Jun 01, 2014 1:27 pm


So...our banned guild member just PMed me and started insisting they were wrongfully banned and to be reinstated. As if I had the power to do so even if it was the truth! rolleyes

And the fact of the matter is, if the punctuation were even present in any of their posts, it would be a lot easier to understand them.

Just wondering if anyone else got a PM like this?
PostPosted: Sun Jun 01, 2014 1:37 pm


I have 5 of them now. And counting.

It is getting extremely annoying. I tried to be patient with him, especially when he said that he has a disability, but I am at my wit's end.

EDIT:
[Album Link] with all the PMs.

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PostPosted: Sun Jun 01, 2014 1:37 pm


I did and below also contains my reply.

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black butler 9
quote 6th post:k ty for ur time hopefully there will be contest for them in guild or i can earn them cheaper if i can but ty for ur time smile


i said that if u look in theared i though she was selling i first post i did not explain 2nd post i explainded and third post i made in baning was saying i understood she wrongfully banned me k i will report guild for this for not looking thuroghly and for seeing my whole resons i was being nice and only asked about it once first was not explained fully second i explained my self third i said ty nd i understand


First, for the love of my innate rudeness and arrogance I do solemnly swear you have to fix your spelling and English grammar. I myself am not perfect at the language but it is my second language known.

Second, I do not know fully how everything happened. I have no authority or say with regards to the decision the guild leader or crew members have made.

Third, if you were banned, then you did something wrong. If you did something wrong, you can pm the guild leader Maclaumo. If you already did pm maclau and have failed to persuade her good side then appeal to the people whom you might have offended without intentionally doing so. Namely, Yami no Sakura, Larkadroid, Vinagal or anyone who was present on the thread that have mistaken what you did as a violation to the rules.

Fourth, why the hell are you private messaging me with these kind of concerns? since when did I became "that" ideally approachable character from the guild.

Fifth, The only hope you have if you want to return to the guild is appeal to their good side and apologize and say you won't do it again and if you are in doubt just ask. That is IF they decide to give you a chance again. Their judgment is none of my concern.

Sixth, even if you report the guild, your argument would not hold as much weight as the witnesses who read your posts. How so? I have read them and have personally thought of what you did as annoying. Only a bit anyway. You are wasting your time if you do so.
PostPosted: Sun Jun 01, 2014 2:00 pm


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You two have more patience than I. I didn't bother to reply, and simply slapped them onto my ignore list. I have very few people on that list, but I can't see how dealing with this person will do more than give me a headache. Nice job in dealing with it, though.

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PostPosted: Sun Jun 01, 2014 2:09 pm


Akiko-infinity
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You two have more patience than I. I didn't bother to reply, and simply slapped them onto my ignore list. I have very few people on that list, but I can't see how dealing with this person will do more than give me a headache. Nice job in dealing with it, though.


My line of work entrails dealing with people with different attitudes and personalities. Sometimes I meet nice people to make the workload less heavy, but most of the time I feel like murder would be the best course of action. ninja
PostPosted: Sun Jun 01, 2014 2:12 pm


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You two have more patience than I. I didn't bother to reply, and simply slapped them onto my ignore list. I have very few people on that list, but I can't see how dealing with this person will do more than give me a headache. Nice job in dealing with it, though.


My line of work entrails dealing with people with different attitudes and personalities. Sometimes I meet nice people to make the workload less heavy, but most of the time I feel like murder would be the best course of action. ninja


I hear that. My thoughts exactly, although I'm not sure how healthy near constant thoughts of homicide actually are. XD

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PostPosted: Sun Jun 01, 2014 2:33 pm


Akiko-infinity
You two have more patience than I. I didn't bother to reply, and simply slapped them onto my ignore list. I have very few people on that list, but I can't see how dealing with this person will do more than give me a headache. Nice job in dealing with it, though.
I have this bad habit of always needing the last word, so I'm not good at ignoring things. xP

Now that I've had time to calm down, I do feel a bit bad for him because his disability makes it so that he has trouble understanding written communication. He is basically playing Gaia with the difficulty level set to "Extremely Hard" since all we do here is type.

I still don't know if I'd want him back in the guild because he has made many people feel uncomfortable.
PostPosted: Sun Jun 01, 2014 2:46 pm


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Akiko-infinity
You two have more patience than I. I didn't bother to reply, and simply slapped them onto my ignore list. I have very few people on that list, but I can't see how dealing with this person will do more than give me a headache. Nice job in dealing with it, though.
I have this bad habit of always needing the last word, so I'm not good at ignoring things. xP

Now that I've had time to calm down, I do feel a bit bad for him because his disability makes it so that he has trouble understanding written communication. He is basically playing Gaia with the difficulty level set to "Extremely Hard" since all we do here is type.

I still don't know if I'd want him back in the guild because he has made many people feel uncomfortable.


Sucks to have that disability, really. But yeah, what he was doing was blatantly begging. I mean, if it was one post, and then he was like, 'oh, okay, I misunderstood', that would make sense. But especially if you already have trouble understanding written things, you need to pay extra attention to it and not 'skip' things like he did, and then keep on begging when you've already been told no. That's the part that got me. Most places on Gaia don't tolerate begging at all, so I'm not sure why it was supposed to be acceptable here.

It still COULD have just been a misunderstanding, but it's not our decision to make and we have no power in that department, which makes PMing us pointless. =(

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PostPosted: Sun Jun 01, 2014 2:51 pm


Akiko-infinity
Sucks to have that disability, really. But yeah, what he was doing was blatantly begging. I mean, if it was one post, and then he was like, 'oh, okay, I misunderstood', that would make sense. But especially if you already have trouble understanding written things, you need to pay extra attention to it and not 'skip' things like he did, and then keep on begging when you've already been told no. That's the part that got me. Most places on Gaia don't tolerate begging at all, so I'm not sure why it was supposed to be acceptable here.

It still COULD have just been a misunderstanding, but it's not our decision to make and we have no power in that department, which makes PMing us pointless. =(
Yeah, I agree that he should take responsibility for skipping things and not reading the thread properly. It's why I'm on the fence about whether or not I'd support letting him back into the guild. That and how he sends PMs nonstop until he gets a reply. =/
PostPosted: Sun Jun 01, 2014 3:08 pm


I'm really sorry for this guys, i did not want to create any inconvenience to anybody, i did not expect them to react like this, but on the positive side, i guess this person likes/admires all of you, so, there's that 3nodding

I don't like being rude with anyone, i'm sure there's something positive i can do for this person, but i don't think I'm changing my decision.

i apologize to all again, specially Yami, i'm gonna clarify that you never brought the incident up to me, this was my own decision when i was reading the thread.

i'll keep you updated, thanks for all your kindness and patience!


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PostPosted: Sun Jun 01, 2014 3:20 pm


MaclauMo
I'm really sorry for this guys, i did not want to create any inconvenience to anybody, i did not expect them to react like this, but on the positive side, i guess this person likes/admires all of you, so, there's that 3nodding

I don't like being rude with anyone, i'm sure there's something positive i can do for this person, but i don't think I'm changing my decision.

i apologize to all again, specially Yami, i'm gonna clarify that you never brought the incident up to me, this was my own decision when i was reading the thread.

i'll keep you updated, thanks for all your kindness and patience!
No worries, Maclau. I don't blame you. =)

I knew he would be messaging me because I was involved, and it was the logical assumption that I reported him somehow.

Thanks for taking care of everything, though! I feel kinda bad that I had to almost shove him towards your poor inbox. sweatdrop
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