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 Posted: Tue Apr 22, 2014 2:02 am
I am one, all for this. But i was wondering what you guys thing^^ any thoughts? whee
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Posted: Sun Jun 22, 2014 12:21 pm
A little dominance play/struggle in the bedroom can be pretty hot, but the stuff I'm into is pretty tame by BDSM standards. I have PTSD, and some of that stuff can be pretty triggering for me. But if I'm in the right state of mind and the person I'm with is crystal clear on where my boundaries are (kind of non-issue, as the only people I'd do it with are people I know and trust), it can be a lot of fun.
Also, for some reason, I seem to know a lot of people who are into the BDSM scene, at every level from occasional bedroom play to 24/7 TPE. I could never do total power exchange, but I'm completely fascinated by people who do engage in it.
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Posted: Sun Jun 22, 2014 3:16 pm
SinfulGuillotine A little dominance play/struggle in the bedroom can be pretty hot, but the stuff I'm into is pretty tame by BDSM standards. I have PTSD, and some of that stuff can be pretty triggering for me. But if I'm in the right state of mind and the person I'm with is crystal clear on where my boundaries are (kind of non-issue, as the only people I'd do it with are people I know and trust), it can be a lot of fun. Also, for some reason, I seem to know a lot of people who are into the BDSM scene, at every level from occasional bedroom play to 24/7 TPE. I could never do total power exchange, but I'm completely fascinated by people who do engage in it. well thanks for sharing that^^ i have been fascinated by it for a very long time now (even knoow i have never tryed it) but i do like hearing otheres stands on it, so thank you for sharing smile
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Posted: Sun Jun 22, 2014 11:54 pm
TieMeDownAnd SinfulGuillotine A little dominance play/struggle in the bedroom can be pretty hot, but the stuff I'm into is pretty tame by BDSM standards. I have PTSD, and some of that stuff can be pretty triggering for me. But if I'm in the right state of mind and the person I'm with is crystal clear on where my boundaries are (kind of non-issue, as the only people I'd do it with are people I know and trust), it can be a lot of fun. Also, for some reason, I seem to know a lot of people who are into the BDSM scene, at every level from occasional bedroom play to 24/7 TPE. I could never do total power exchange, but I'm completely fascinated by people who do engage in it. well thanks for sharing that^^ i have been fascinated by it for a very long time now (even knoow i have never tryed it) but i do like hearing otheres stands on it, so thank you for sharing smile No worries. smile What facets of BDSM do you find most appealing? Are you interested in being someone's master/slave all the time, or is it just a sex thing? Or somewhere in between?
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Posted: Mon Jun 23, 2014 2:46 am
SinfulGuillotine TieMeDownAnd SinfulGuillotine A little dominance play/struggle in the bedroom can be pretty hot, but the stuff I'm into is pretty tame by BDSM standards. I have PTSD, and some of that stuff can be pretty triggering for me. But if I'm in the right state of mind and the person I'm with is crystal clear on where my boundaries are (kind of non-issue, as the only people I'd do it with are people I know and trust), it can be a lot of fun. Also, for some reason, I seem to know a lot of people who are into the BDSM scene, at every level from occasional bedroom play to 24/7 TPE. I could never do total power exchange, but I'm completely fascinated by people who do engage in it. well thanks for sharing that^^ i have been fascinated by it for a very long time now (even knoow i have never tryed it) but i do like hearing otheres stands on it, so thank you for sharing smile No worries. smile What facets of BDSM do you find most appealing? Are you interested in being someone's master/slave all the time, or is it just a sex thing? Or somewhere in between? i fine the aspect of being owned and told what to do. and as just like a sexthing. like 100% owned in and out of the bedroom. i have also fantasized about being the owner. telling someone when and what they can do, both just seem to a peek of thrilling to me.
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Posted: Thu Jun 26, 2014 8:44 am
TieMeDownAnd i fine the aspect of being owned and told what to do. and as just like a sexthing. like 100% owned in and out of the bedroom. i have also fantasized about being the owner. telling someone when and what they can do, both just seem to a peek of thrilling to me. Hah, that notion of ownership is precisely what I have issues with, even outside of a BDSM context. Have you had a chance to explore any of this stuff with a partner?
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Posted: Thu Jun 26, 2014 8:46 am
SinfulGuillotine TieMeDownAnd i fine the aspect of being owned and told what to do. and as just like a sexthing. like 100% owned in and out of the bedroom. i have also fantasized about being the owner. telling someone when and what they can do, both just seem to a peek of thrilling to me. Hah, that notion of ownership is precisely what I have issues with, even outside of a BDSM context. Have you had a chance to explore any of this stuff with a partner? no, not yet... D: but i want to. and ive just been scared to talk to them about it. x.x
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Posted: Thu Jun 26, 2014 9:03 am
TieMeDownAnd SinfulGuillotine TieMeDownAnd i fine the aspect of being owned and told what to do. and as just like a sexthing. like 100% owned in and out of the bedroom. i have also fantasized about being the owner. telling someone when and what they can do, both just seem to a peek of thrilling to me. Hah, that notion of ownership is precisely what I have issues with, even outside of a BDSM context. Have you had a chance to explore any of this stuff with a partner? no, not yet... D: but i want to. and ive just been scared to talk to them about it. x.x Don't be scared! I know it can feel a little awkward at times, but it's important to be able to talk with your partner(s) about that kind of stuff. A huge part of cultivating and maintaining a healthy relationship, both in and out of bed, is being able to speak to one another honestly and openly. If you're not comfortable with just coming out and saying it, you could always find ways to sort of drop hints and try to gauge their reaction.
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