Hey..there the name is Ino..and boy am I having some boy troubles.

My story starts about 10 years ago(not really that long) but that's how long iv known this guy...and we have been dating for about..1 1/2 years. The first six months were great...you know we were getting to know each other..and having fun..and just being in love. Well then the trouble started to hit. Apparently drinking was his number one lader..too the point..he wouldn't even have money to live on the rest of the month. I thought ok..so I weined him down to only the weekends, this only caused him to hide what he was doing. I really loved this guy..but the realationship started to turn abusive and chaotic. I mean we got kicked out of 3 apartment..within a year long period.

So my issue is..I love this guy..I really do..but its unhealthy to be with him. I want to help him in every way that I can, but I just don't feel like I can do it. Then theres this new guy..not so much my type..but he is soo super nice..and its like he hangs on every word I say..like hes afraid of missing one word. Is this because I just got out of a serious relationship...? Is this a rebound..? Do I continue trying to help Jason..my ex..from a far...Its just all so confusing...and YOLO...so iv been struggling on what I should do.

Any suggestions...past experiences...would be helpful at this point..Thanks

INO