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PostPosted: Mon Nov 11, 2013 6:30 pm


Can We Be a Friend of God?
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"Thus the Lord used to speak to Moses face to face as a man speaks to his friend" Exodus 33:11.

Read: Ex. 33:9-17; Num. 12; Isa. 41:8-10; II Chr. 20:7;
James 2:23.


What Is God Saying?

God spoke to Moses in a special way, as a man speaks to his friend. This was not a scattered Incident for the expression In our text, "The Lord used to speak" suggests that It could have happened many times. Moses was very special in the plan God had for His people and Moses, a man of constant prayer, must have often listened for the Lord's voice to give him directions in carrying out his singular responsibility. There is a sense in which this makes a general reference to spiritual communication. It speaks of the relationship that is possible between God and man that can be best described as friendship and "friend" is the word that is used.

In Jeremiah 3:19 it is the relationship of Father to children. In II Chron. 20:7 and Isa. 41:9 it is the relationship of Friend with friend. In Psalm 123 2 It is the relationship of Master to servant, but It is all a matter of communion with God in prayer. God, in Christ, is very approachable. Jesus taught us to think of God as Father, and never addresses the Father by any other name, except for His cry of desolation on the Cross. As our Heavenly Father, we should listen to Him and talk With Him.

How Does This Apply To Us?

We must not bring the total otherness of God down (as many do in our careless society) to the level of a "pal in the skies" or "the Man upstairs". If we want to distort reality and, indeed totally miss the message of God, we have only to bring Him down to our level and down to our size. That's akin to making God in our own image. If ever there was a blind alley, that is It.

God wants us to be as children to an infinitely loving Father. Jesus came to show that He is just that, and to get hold of that fact is life transforming.

There is also that awesome Otherness, that total Transcendency, that incomparable Majesty. Lose that and all communication breaks down lsa.55:8-9. Still our relationship with God has other aspects. He wants to communicate with us as a Friend would communicate with a friend. Abraham is called "the Friend of God". Let us assume that God wants that kind of communication with us. It will be the purpose of our prayer today to explore those areas of "Friendship with God" which can make our daily lives rich with meaning and steadfast in purpose.

Pray With Me


Cleanse me, 0 God, in heart and in desire, in hand and in deed, in mind and in thought, until, with every barrier down, You can talk to me "as a man speaks to his friend".

A man speaks to a friend and does not have to weigh his words carefully for fear of offending. Speak to me, Lord, as One who neither takes nor gives offense apart from the truth-and only then in love.
A man speaks to a friend and knows that the friend needs no persuading to see things from the speaker's point of view or for the speaker's advantage. Speak to me, Lord, as One who seeks first and only the kingdom of God and His righteousness.
A man speaks to a friend and trusts that he will understand. So I would dedicate myself to the yearnings of Your heart as it is burdened for mankind.
A man speaks to a friend and trusts him to bring his message to others. So I would bring to others the facts of your judgment on sin and your love for the sinner.
A man speaks to a friend and trusts him with his dearest plans and highest hopes. So I would have a mind to grasp Your will and a heart that responds with obedience.

Then I shall see Your face, and seeing Your face, I shall see Your smile ... the smile of a Father forgiving, a Master approving, and a Friend that will never forsake.

Through Him, whom having not seen, yet I love. Amen:

Moving On In The Life Of Prayer

Without assuming that we can come to Him with easy familiarity, we may come to the Lord freely and spontaneously. Let us hear what He has to say in His Word and then resolve that our lives will become adjusted to His purpose. Prayer then becomes far more than a way of persuading God to change His mind. It becomes God's way of persuading us to change our lives. Try it. You'll like it!
PostPosted: Sun Jan 05, 2014 6:32 pm


Honestly, I didn't read the whole post but I have a question. If you think it is possible to have a friendship with God, then wouldn't you need to use his name? I'm not sure which translation of the Bible you are using but Psalm 83:18 gives us God's name, Jehovah. When we want to introduce ourselves to a new friend isnt our name the first thing we give them, and isnt that what we normally use to refer to them?

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PostPosted: Mon Jan 06, 2014 4:22 pm


Technicolored Eyes
Honestly, I didn't read the whole post but I have a question. If you think it is possible to have a friendship with God, then wouldn't you need to use his name? I'm not sure which translation of the Bible you are using but Psalm 83:18 gives us God's name, Jehovah. When we want to introduce ourselves to a new friend isnt our name the first thing we give them, and isnt that what we normally use to refer to them?


You should read the whole study. 3nodding

But when it says"friendship" that word represents out actual relationship and spiritual walk with God. We achieve this with prayer, fasting, seeking the word, repenting, and striving to be Christ-like. And we do this by keeping Christian friends and community, sharing the word with one another, showing our friends what God has shown us. Growing with Christ.

I have heard God called many things...
Jehovah, God, Father, even "daddy"...
I feel that the only acceptable names for him are Jehovah, God, and Father.
Because that is what people in the Bible call him.

This is what this study is about, the common names that man give God.
When we refer to God as "the man upstairs" "pal in the sky" "invisible friend' we are taking away from his glory because it's like we are dumbing down his glory with earthly views.
It's disrespectful.
PostPosted: Mon Jan 06, 2014 5:51 pm


I feel as if people refer to God in that way mostly because they haven't yet become aware of his true power. I guess the thing about today, as opposed to yesterday (referring to generations of course xD), is that most people are taught solely on God's love and not of his anger.

I mean, if you think back to the flood, that is pretty scary.

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PostPosted: Mon Jan 06, 2014 5:53 pm


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Technicolored Eyes
Honestly, I didn't read the whole post but I have a question. If you think it is possible to have a friendship with God, then wouldn't you need to use his name? I'm not sure which translation of the Bible you are using but Psalm 83:18 gives us God's name, Jehovah. When we want to introduce ourselves to a new friend isnt our name the first thing we give them, and isnt that what we normally use to refer to them?


You should read the whole study. 3nodding

But when it says"friendship" that word represents out actual relationship and spiritual walk with God. We achieve this with prayer, fasting, seeking the word, repenting, and striving to be Christ-like. And we do this by keeping Christian friends and community, sharing the word with one another, showing our friends what God has shown us. Growing with Christ.

I have heard God called many things...
Jehovah, God, Father, even "daddy"...
I feel that the only acceptable names for him are Jehovah, God, and Father.
Because that is what people in the Bible call him.

This is what this study is about, the common names that man give God.
When we refer to God as "the man upstairs" "pal in the sky" "invisible friend' we are taking away from his glory because it's like we are dumbing down his glory with earthly views.
It's disrespectful.

Ah ok I completely agree. I just think people should be more open to using God's personal name, Jehovah. Jesus said so many times to sanctify his fathers name and to make it known, yet so many don't even realize he has a name gonk It kills me. But yeah, he is not the big man upstairs or anything disrespectful like that.

Btw, sorry if I offended you by not reading the whole post. I was tired and skimmed it, but wanted to state I didnt fully read it in case I missed something.
PostPosted: Mon Jan 06, 2014 5:56 pm


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I feel as if people refer to God in that way mostly because they haven't yet become aware of his true power. I guess the thing about today, as opposed to yesterday (referring to generations of course xD), is that most people are taught solely on God's love and not of his anger.

I mean, if you think back to the flood, that is pretty scary.

Scary, but only because they wouldn't listen to Noah and turn away from their sins. Look at Ninevah, they turned everything around and were spared. I think people are just lacking respect for any type of authority figure today. Or actually lacking respect for anyone, even themselves half the time.

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PostPosted: Mon Jan 06, 2014 6:22 pm


Technicolored Eyes
Lady-SnowMan
I feel as if people refer to God in that way mostly because they haven't yet become aware of his true power. I guess the thing about today, as opposed to yesterday (referring to generations of course xD), is that most people are taught solely on God's love and not of his anger.

I mean, if you think back to the flood, that is pretty scary.

Scary, but only because they wouldn't listen to Noah and turn away from their sins. Look at Ninevah, they turned everything around and were spared. I think people are just lacking respect for any type of authority figure today. Or actually lacking respect for anyone, even themselves half the time.


I think self respect should be it's own topic. There are many factors in today's society that attempts to drown out the voice of God. upbringing, propaganda,etc. It would certainly make for a good discussion.
PostPosted: Mon Jan 06, 2014 6:47 pm


I've heard a lot of different names for God, a lot of them in the Bible as well. Abba Father, Jehova, Father, Jehova-Jireh, El Shaddai, Elohim, the list goes on.

I think that all of those are acceptable, especially since many of them are biblical.

As for me, I tend to call him God, Daddy, or Father. I call him God when I am talking to him as a friend, Father when I am talking to him as my father in Heaven, and Daddy when I am deeply hurting and need that level of intimacy in my father/daughter relationship with him.

I'm not sure how I feel about 'pal in the skies' or 'my invisible friend', I think those are too often used by people who aren't really believers to refer to God. 'The Man Upstairs' I don't see as too offensive...depending on how it's used. I have heard it used in ways that isn't meant as disrespect, nor as a way to undermine God's power. But I do know it's also been used pretty casually by people who don't actually believe in God, so...I can see how it could also be offensive to some. I know I don't really use it myself.

I think God desires a true and intimate relationship with us. He desires to be our friend and our father, our everything, really. He is the only one who can fill that God-shaped hole inside all of us and he strongly desires for us to come to him so he can fill that space in our hearts that so often many try to fill with earthly things, only to be let down time and time again when it doesn't work.

...And now I'm rambling, so uh... -shushes-

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PostPosted: Mon Jan 06, 2014 7:13 pm


Technicolored Eyes
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Technicolored Eyes
Honestly, I didn't read the whole post but I have a question. If you think it is possible to have a friendship with God, then wouldn't you need to use his name? I'm not sure which translation of the Bible you are using but Psalm 83:18 gives us God's name, Jehovah. When we want to introduce ourselves to a new friend isnt our name the first thing we give them, and isnt that what we normally use to refer to them?


You should read the whole study. 3nodding

But when it says"friendship" that word represents out actual relationship and spiritual walk with God. We achieve this with prayer, fasting, seeking the word, repenting, and striving to be Christ-like. And we do this by keeping Christian friends and community, sharing the word with one another, showing our friends what God has shown us. Growing with Christ.

I have heard God called many things...
Jehovah, God, Father, even "daddy"...
I feel that the only acceptable names for him are Jehovah, God, and Father.
Because that is what people in the Bible call him.

This is what this study is about, the common names that man give God.
When we refer to God as "the man upstairs" "pal in the sky" "invisible friend' we are taking away from his glory because it's like we are dumbing down his glory with earthly views.
It's disrespectful.

Ah ok I completely agree. I just think people should be more open to using God's personal name, Jehovah. Jesus said so many times to sanctify his fathers name and to make it known, yet so many don't even realize he has a name gonk It kills me. But yeah, he is not the big man upstairs or anything disrespectful like that.

Btw, sorry if I offended you by not reading the whole post. I was tired and skimmed it, but wanted to state I didnt fully read it in case I missed something.

Lol you didn't offend. It's all cool, and yeah some of these posts can be pretty big. XD
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