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 Posted: Wed Mar 08, 2006 8:47 pm
hello, i feel kinda dumb asking this, but in december i had unprotected sex, but he didnt c** in me, but yeah i got my period that day, and then the next time i got my period it last for like 20--sumthing days, and i didnt go to a doctor cause im stupid like that and i fear doctors. and yeah this month so far i havnet gotten my period, but i think i remember a spot in my undies, but it was like kinda brown, (sorry for disturbing neone) and ive ben haveing to pee alot, and i was wondering if there is nechances i might be pregnant. oh by the way i took a pregnancy test wen last month wen i thought i was bleeding to death and it was negative but a friend of mine said i had to do it wen i wasnt bleeding, and i do plan on doing another one as soon as possible, so please help i will greatly apreciate it.
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Posted: Wed Mar 08, 2006 9:50 pm
First, go to a doctor ASAP. Obviously, you know something isn't right. Fear of doctors is very common, but your health is more important than that issue.
Second, you can get pregnant from unprotected sex, even if he didn't ejaculate inside of you. Frankly, why are you having unprotected sex if you don't want to get pregnant? Withdrawl is not a very reliable form of contraception.
Third, if you ever wonder if you are pregnant, test. I don't know where your friend got that myth you can't test while you're pregnant. Blood is irrelevant. The pregnancy tests test for the HcG hormone in your urine. Of course, if you are reading the instructions and performing the tests properly, it will tell you that as well most of the times.
Also, there is something called implantation bleeding and there is the possibility of miscarriages, which should ALWAYS be checked out by a dcotor. But I'm not a professional by any means, this is something serious to be checked out, even if you are not regular, 20 days seems a bit much.
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Posted: Wed Mar 08, 2006 10:52 pm
Go see a doctor. Ask them what you asked us. If you have to ask random strangers you can't even ask your doctor/gyno, then perhaps you shouldn't be having sex (ESPECIALLY unprotected sex) at this point in your life.
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Posted: Thu Mar 09, 2006 10:25 am
thank you, ill make an apointment soon,
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Posted: Thu Mar 09, 2006 1:39 pm
One other thing to keep in mind is that if you're young (14 to 1 cool , your period can easily be all messed up just because it's your period. Yes, see a doctor because this is weird, but it could just be an odd period.
And yeah, word to Nikolita. Talk to doctors and use a condom.
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Posted: Fri Mar 10, 2006 2:35 pm
lunashock Withdrawl is not a very reliable form of contraception. I would actually go so far as to say that withdrawl is NOT a form of contraception at all. A man cums a lot during sex, not only when he orgasms. Fear of doctors is the most ridiculous and stupid fear to have. It's like fear of breathing. It's something you have to do to be healthy. So suck it up and do it. I agree that it could be a natural growing up thing. Periods are notoriously unreliable at your age. But bleeding for 20 days is NOT healthy. If nothing else, you may consider getting on the pill to control your periods. Speaking of which, you need to start seeing a gynecologist every 6 months or once a year as soon as you become sexually active.
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Posted: Tue Jun 27, 2006 7:35 pm
Hello, You may be pregnant, or had a miss carage. Did you have any sickness on the long days you were bleeding. Simptoms of being pregnant are: sickness any time of day (throwing up), diarea or constapation, lower back pain, constant urniation, hot flash's, cramps, more headaces, and bloting or gain and then loss of waight and gain it back more. If you have any of these simptoms you need to go to the doctor ASAP.
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