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Posted: Wed Nov 28, 2012 4:06 am

One

This one I guess makes me angry. Sometimes I start to talk to my friends that are male they start to like me. I feel bad because I'm 13 and the guys that start to flirt with me are like 16-19 and I have to go say sorry to them. There was this one guy and he was annoying saying I don't ever talk to him. I used to always talk to him during the Summer but he didn't understand I was starting school and I was being crammed with a bunch of things to do. He made a poem for me and he didn't notice he insulted me. I'm not sure he can see this because I'm on his friends list and honestly I don't want to hurt him. I just wanted to vent. Apparently he did too. Now when someone goes to my profile I like to go to theirs as well. When I saw this girls username on my Recent Visitors list I went to her profile and she was friends with him. So I guess he talked about me =.=

Two

I got a stalker. Last year we we're in the same class and he would always stare at me. He's friends with my other friends. He's kind of a mystery, like we don't know if he's friends with us because he wants to stay close to me or really is his friends friend. I think he trying to stay close to me because he's just so rude to my friend. Like he pushes him off swings, kicks him and such. Last year my stalker was about to beat him up in the bathroom. Now he's not in my class but all our friends sit together at lunch. So he can still stare but he said some creepy things last year.

Posted: Wed Nov 28, 2012 9:52 am

Two is strange. If your stalker ever goes beyond staring, you should talk with an adult at your school.

As for one, it depends on how you talk to these older guys. (In my opinion, they shouldn't really be hitting on a thirteen-year old in the first place. Seriously, 19-year olds should know better than to even think about touching jailbait like you. Are they just so unable to get a girlfriend their own age?) Some things that you have a habit of doing may get misconstrued as serious flirtation. It may be that the older guys you talk to are incredibly inept at telling the difference between flirtation and friendliness. I've had that happen a couple times before.

It's not cool that the guys you know seem to only think of girls as potential partners instead of just friends. The most you can do is to make clear to them your intentions. Beyond that, it's up to them to stop being dense teenage boys.

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Mei Xiaojie

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Posted: Wed Nov 28, 2012 6:40 pm

Annoyances. I had something happen to me like that but the age difference wasn't that big. (15-19) either way the 17-19 should know that is pretty bad. But maybe they're immature for their age. Who knows. Just n** it in the bud as quickly as possible. Don't worry about hurting their feelings. Just me the longer you wait the more hope you give them.

As for the stalked just ignore. If they're just staring at you that'll be fine. If they're following you or trying to touch you tell a teacher or another trusted adult.

Posted: Tue Jan 08, 2013 7:31 am

koalacake

It's nice to see a growing woman with a good head on her shoulder. You're growing up and so are these guys, but you should keep in mind that in general, they don't have a complete grip on their feelings yet. Some will have their attention jumping from girl to girl, and others will focus on one girl until their hearts get broken, but ALL of them are still trying to figure out what it is their feeling and how it is their feeling it. The same could be same for you.

.... Boys will be boys. At the moment the guy sounds like bad news. I'd avoid him at the moment, but keep in mind that he won't be like that after a few years of maturing... hopefully. Make sure to keep your friends close at any moment it would be possible for him to confront you. You don't want to be alone in a situation with a guy who may be a little crazy, young or not.

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