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Wildstar22

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PostPosted: Sun Nov 18, 2012 4:32 am


Alright guys I do not do this often. I prefer to give people advice and keep myself locked away. But that is not the reason for this.
9 months ago a person whom I loved dearly decided to stoped talking to me and I haven't heard anything from her since. Friends in common inform me of things that go on in her life though so I'm not left out of the loop. I have learned that she has done something truly horrendous with herself as of late and I intend to make that stop. I feel that I am the only one that can bring her out of her stupor. The only problem is how to get her to talk to me. I don't know how. Therefore I am asking for help. She does not answer my texts or calls (I have only called her twice in the last 9 months and only texted her on her birthday).
PostPosted: Wed Nov 21, 2012 3:33 pm


Try and meet up face-to-face?
(Although this seems kinda creepy...) Perhaps try asking friends in common if she is planing on going out (for coffee, to eat, anything) and "coincidentally" meet her there. Spot her and act as if it is a surprise ("Hey ___! Let's catch up it's been a while hasn't it?"). Then subtly bring up the subject.
This seems like a (slightly) creepy idea but it might be the only way to help her out since she won't answer your calls, texts, etc. It's a bit difficult to avoid someone when they're standing right in front of you!

Overall, I wish you luck with whatever you plan to do and hope all ends well~

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PostPosted: Sat Nov 24, 2012 10:45 pm


XD Actually this was just to make sure that at least someone was still paying attention to things!
PostPosted: Sat Nov 24, 2012 11:29 pm


Wildstar22
XD Actually this was just to make sure that at least someone was still paying attention to things!

ahh I see XD
clever clever clever
well I am still here~
I'm not so sure about the others though...
and it's good to know you don't actually have a problem x) hahaha

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PostPosted: Sun Nov 25, 2012 9:21 pm


Lol yeah it's cause no one has said anything in about a month and it was weirding me out so I had to do something.
PostPosted: Sun Nov 25, 2012 11:25 pm


Wildstar22
Lol yeah it's cause no one has said anything in about a month and it was weirding me out so I had to do something.

yea makes sense
i was kind of thinking of doing the same thing actually XD

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