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 Posted: Sun Nov 11, 2012 9:36 pm
Hi! I am Lydia, and I am transgendered! I just decided to post my story of being honest with myself and those close to me online here, so as to get some help!
I am terrified of coming out. Let me just throw that out there. I am scared to lose close friends. I know that if they stop being my friend because of that, they weren't my friend to begin with, but it is still scary!
I am currently out to my parents, my ex girlfriend(Hence her being my ex), and a few close friends. I plan to write here whenever I come out to somebody, and get some updates on my journey here. I hope that I can get some support from all you awesome ladies!
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Posted: Sun Nov 11, 2012 9:39 pm
Yay! You know I love you Lydia! smile I send all the love in the world to you, and I would love to help you with anything you need! (Don't read too much into that, of course.) Rebekah says she is here for you too! biggrin
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Posted: Sun Nov 11, 2012 9:45 pm
Purgatoriah Yay! You know I love you Lydia! smile I send all the love in the world to you, and I would love to help you with anything you need! (Don't read too much into that, of course.) Rebekah says she is here for you too! biggrin Thanks Chello! smile You are totally awesome, and will be the first to know!
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Posted: Sun Nov 11, 2012 10:15 pm
yayayayaya ^^ we all love you ^^ and are excited for when you can be all full time girl ^^
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Posted: Sun Nov 11, 2012 10:23 pm
death on dark wings yayayayaya ^^ we all love you ^^ and are excited for when you can be all full time girl ^^ Thankee sai! smile I want to be! :3 I am hoping to be able to come out easier.
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Posted: Sun Nov 11, 2012 10:43 pm
I'm really glad you're out to your parents.
I don't know if they're the accepting type or not.
But either way I'm still glad.
I'm always glad when people are able to tell at least someone.
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Posted: Sun Nov 11, 2012 10:48 pm
Coming out is definitely scary. I'm also scared to come out. It's great that you were able to come out to your parents. I still haven't done that yet. I hope everything goes well for the both of us when ever we decide to come out to somebody else.
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Posted: Mon Nov 12, 2012 2:16 am
Oh sweetie! Good luck! *hugs* It's terrifying but it'll be good for you long run smile
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Posted: Tue Nov 13, 2012 4:44 pm
Lady-Sanctuary Oh sweetie! Good luck! *hugs* It's terrifying but it'll be good for you long run smile Thank you all very much! If anybody has any tips about it... I am going to try to come out to my best friend on Friday...
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Posted: Tue Nov 13, 2012 6:26 pm
I'm glad you were able to come out to your parents. Thats always been hard for me. I tried doing that but they were very unsupportive. All my friends were though. I hope your best friend is okay with it its much easier.
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Posted: Wed Nov 14, 2012 2:50 am
LydiaOfGilead Lady-Sanctuary Oh sweetie! Good luck! *hugs* It's terrifying but it'll be good for you long run smile Thank you all very much! If anybody has any tips about it... I am going to try to come out to my best friend on Friday... Well I found saying things hard unless I wrote it all down, so that might work for you? Otherwise just tell her and hope for the best.
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Posted: Wed Nov 14, 2012 2:12 pm
Lady-Sanctuary LydiaOfGilead Lady-Sanctuary Oh sweetie! Good luck! *hugs* It's terrifying but it'll be good for you long run smile Thank you all very much! If anybody has any tips about it... I am going to try to come out to my best friend on Friday... Well I found saying things hard unless I wrote it all down, so that might work for you? Otherwise just tell her and hope for the best.[/quote Thank you! smile It's a guy, by the way. I am just... Scared as s**t... I'm worried that he might not accept me...
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Posted: Thu Nov 15, 2012 9:00 am
LydiaOfGilead Thank you! smile It's a guy, by the way. I am just... Scared as s**t... I'm worried that he might not accept me... well >.< i know it's over said, but if it matters he's not really your friend that said i know it's scary *hug* you can do it!
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Posted: Fri Nov 16, 2012 1:46 pm
An angry update. Turns out my friend can't make it tonight. He is sick. So, I will hopefully see him over the weekend... Sheesh... I am terrified.
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Posted: Fri Jun 07, 2013 3:03 pm
LydiaOfGilead An angry update. Turns out my friend can't make it tonight. He is sick. So, I will hopefully see him over the weekend... Sheesh... I am terrified.
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