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You're right that squirting is not weird or freaky. But squirting is rare. Most women do not squirt. And even among women who do squirt, it's often only an occasional thing. Sometimes even just a one time thing.

We still don't know for sure whether all women are capable of squirting but just never figure out how, whether more women squirt than they realize but it's such a small amount that it often goes unnoticed, whether only some women are capable of squirting, etc. It's something that's kind of hard to study properly, and more studies need to be done before we can really say for sure. Neither side is proven as of right now, and there are some good doctors and researchers on both sides of the debate.

Notice how the guy in the video you posted goes on and on and on and on about how his technique is amazing, but he never tells you what it is. Notice how he says that he will tell you his technique for $103.95. Notice how he sites no studies whatsoever. Notice how a lot of the things he says are generalizations (like when he says that women talk to their friends about sex, or when he says that a woman will become addicted to a certain guy if he can make her squirt, or when he says that if a guy can make a girl squirt he's automatically better than her previous partner(s), etc.). Notice how he implies that all women will respond to the exact same stimulation, techniques, and positions. Notice how he tells you that he will demonstrate his technique for you with a "barely legal" girl who will tell you all about her turn ons on his 18+ "hardcore" DvD. Notice how he says his videos contain "no science mumbo jumbo." Those are all clues that this video is not actually educational; it's just a guy selling something. Porn from the sound of it.

Now, don't get me wrong, I am not knocking squirting. I'm not saying that it doesn't happen. I am not saying that people shouldn't try different kinds of stimulation to see if they or their partner can/will squirt. I'm not even saying that this guy's techniques are bad. I am just saying that the squirting debate is still ongoing; there is still a lot about squirting that we don't know for sure; and that video is far from being a credible, reliable, or educational source.

If it's something you're interested in and you want to do more research, I would recommend looking for actual studies, reputable websites, things written by real doctors, sites that are not 18+, and sites that are not trying to sell you anything. Scarleteen is a pretty good sex and body website. Here's a little of what they have to say about female ejaculation (squirting):

"Not all women ejaculate, and even for those who do, most do not ejaculate all the time, with every incidence of sex, or with any given kind of sex, even when they have several orgasms or have a great orgasm. Not all women are comfortable with or enjoy ejaculating, regardless of how their partners feel about it....This is one of those areas -- like many when it comes to women's sexuality, alas -- where the research is still ongoing, and where we can't draw too many conclusions just yet: there remain some disagreements between researchers and the research done so far has been seriously tiny.....in porn, ejaculation is often faked. When it is, like most things in pornography, they go over the top, showing a lot of fluid, rather than the more variant amounts we see in real life with women who ejaculate. (Porn actresses can easily fake ejaculation by just drinking a whole lot of water and then urinating.) Not every woman who ejaculates will have giant gushes of fluid: sometimes it's just a little spurt, sometimes so small a partner may not even know it happened. Some women who ejaculate may never have a big "gush," while others often will.....Why can some woman ejaculate while others cannot? Again, this is something we don't yet have a definitive answer for. As of right now, it seems like a minority of women ejaculate, even though it's thought most have that capability. Some sage theories about that discrepancy are that a) not all women have/get the kind of sexual stimulus they need to do so, b) not all women feel comfortable doing so or purposefully hold back when they're going to because it feels like they're going to pee, c) not all women are getting sexually aroused enough to get there, d) the size of these glands in women vary, so women with smaller glands may be limited in doing so and/or e) more women ejaculate than they think, it's just in smaller amounts that often go unnoticed."
http://www.scarleteen.com/article/advice/squirt_on_female_ejaculation