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 Posted: Sun Jul 01, 2012 7:53 pm
ok, so we've been goin out for about 2 weeks and we've known each other about a year. she liked me for quite a while before she asked me out, and i liked her for a few months before then, but we started goin out a few hours after school got out for summer and we've only seen each other a little since then- like 40 minutes in 2 weeks. but we texted until i went past my limit and then we talked on tumblr, but yesterday, after 3 days of not answering anything or getting on, she sent me a message telling me to stop sending her stuff... she went through a few times before we went out when she had these weird moods where she didn't talk to me, but she always had a reason, but it's summer, and she, like me, never goes anywhere because she's not allowed to leave the house except to go to the store, like me... so i know there isn't anyone else or anything, so it has to be some other problem, and i don't wanna think what it is, but i have been... and it's driven me back to cutting, which i do which a dull knife so i don't do too much, but i quit cutting a few months back, for her, because she stopped talking to me last time i cut, and now i'm cutting cause she ain't talking to me... idk, i want this to work, i don't wanna cut it off, but i was having my doubts before she quit talking to me, because i needed to see her and be there with her, but i couldn't... i can't... and that hurt
please help. and i'm also sorry i post stuff like this every year or 6 months or whatever, but i trust you guys more than anyone else
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Posted: Mon Jul 02, 2012 10:54 am
Well, first things first. Stop cutting.
You said she stopped talking to you after the last time you cut yourself, so the only thing you're doing is giving her a reason why she shouldn't talk to you. You want her to talk to you, yes? It doesn't matter that it's a dull knife and won't do as much damage (which is wrong, by the way, since dull knives can make extremely jagged cuts that remove a lot more skin. A sharp knife makes a neater cut and heals faster), the fact is that you're doing something she obviously doesn't like.
Secondly, you say you talk a lot online. What kinds of things do you talk about? How much is a lot?
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Irako of the Desert Vice Captain
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