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 Posted: Sun Jul 01, 2012 12:48 pm
I moved into my new apartment with Tom today. Well not really moved in, just picked up the keys and did the inventory check.
And idk if it's just because it's the first place we really truly have privacy or because we haven't seen each other for a week, but we proceeded to have sex on every surface but the bed (because it doesn't have sheets on it yet). xD
Yeah, so I think we were on the sofa, when I had my first vaginal orgasm. Like I've only ever come from clitoral stimulation before.
And it was awesome. Not sure why I've never been able to come before from actual intercourse. Or what exactly was different this time in particular (maybe just the extra security from knowing we definitely absolutely weren't going to be interrupted?).
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Posted: Sun Jul 01, 2012 8:38 pm
It's amazing what privacy and christening your furniture will do for a girl. xd
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Posted: Mon Jul 02, 2012 2:10 am
Actually I just remembered that we were talking about gossip from our friends. And Tom mentioned how one of his friends said that sex was 'just alright' and how his friend thought masturbation was just as good. Bearing in mind his friend is a serial one-night-stand kind of guy. Tom disagreed with him strongly apparently, and said he felt bad for the guy because he had never got to the stage where he was having 'really good sex'.
So that was kind of a confidence boost. Tom's not very vocal about all things sexual (I really have to push him to talk about stuff) so I didn't really know how things were for him.
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Posted: Mon Jul 02, 2012 6:31 pm
Luckkyy, I still haven't had one yet ;-;
I mean sex is always enjoyable yeah, but I've never had an orgasm just from sex. ONE DAY.
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Posted: Mon Jul 02, 2012 11:39 pm
Raven, you should try an intercourse stimulator with a c**t stim attached. Something like this. (NSFWOK)
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Posted: Tue Jul 03, 2012 10:11 am
Arianah Raven, you should try an intercourse stimulator with a c**t stim attached. Something like this. (NSFWOK) I mean I can have a clitoris orgasm when having sex, but not a vaginal one ;-;
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Posted: Tue Jul 03, 2012 12:50 pm
A lot of people think "vaginal" orgasms are just the result of indirect clitoral stimulation. Don't get upset about not having a type of orgasm that no one can agree even exists. Orgasms during vaginal sex are not the be all end all of sex and I hate to see women feel upset or inadequate because they can't achieve something that 70 to 80 percent of women are incapable of.
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Posted: Tue Jul 03, 2012 2:51 pm
Well I hope I didn't make anyone feel upset or inadequate.
And yeah to be honest I was skeptical it would ever happen with me. But then it just did and it was just a bit of a surprise really! I mean to be honest, it wasn't that intense for me, and it's definitely not going to replace clitoral orgasms anytime soon. It was just cool to finish at the same time as my partner.
Definitely not the be all and end all of sex though.
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Posted: Tue Jul 03, 2012 2:58 pm
Hey, sex still feels awesome, doesn't matter really if I finish or not.
If my partner finishes, I'm generally happy, and he always compensates by taking good care of me before the main event, lolol.
I have a friend who's never even had a clitoris orgasm either, not even from herself.
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