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 Posted: Thu May 10, 2012 2:19 pm
If you're not a big fan of big rants, I suggest you do click the nice big backspace button now.
So there's this kid at school. He and I have been friends since the seventh grade, but we met in the fourth grade. He's a rather good friend, and he'll defend his friends to the death.
Ever since we got into high school, he's kind of just... disappeared. Whenever people got mad at him, or left him alone, I've always been there for him. I'd defend him, or entertain him when he was alone. I've always been there for him, and I guess it was stupid of me to think the same. Lately he's had this belief that I'm being really mean to this one kid in our class. (story explained in next post) He decided to take this other friend, who's actually not a friend of his, but a friend of mine, and confront me about it, cornering me somewhere and just announcing that I was being too mean. I got mad at him, and walked away.
And then this morning, he just showed up at school mad at his twin sister. (because she wouldn't let him play on her guitar) She told my boyfriend, who laughed about it, and then he believed that they were making fun of him, so he got mad at my boyfriend. And then when I showed up for school, I was talking to his twin sister about this trip we're going on next week, and how we'd have food in our room and how he wouldn't get any food. We laughed about it, and he thought we were making fun of him, so he got mad at us. Being a really petty person, he decided to draw these pictures of these three really ugly and mean-looking people (depictions of me, my boyfriend, and his twin sister) making this one really short, sad kid unhappy. And then he later drew this picture of him surrounded by a bunch of other people with a big sign saying 'Stop the Stigma'. He then proceeded to stick these pictures on his locker, where when his twin sister and I got back from lunch, we ripped it off and threw it out.
He got mad, and tried to find out who did it (obviously he thought it was me, because I always challenge what he does) and when that same guy who confronted me with him last time ratted us out and told him that we'd done it, the twin sister pointed out that she was the only person that did it, and that I was just standing there, but he blew up at me. He decided to pick on me for my imperfections (I have a lazy eye), I decided to attack him back by telling him to pick on someone his own size (he's only about four feet tall), and he got mad and just hid with his friends.
I mean, I understand that he's really self-conscious, considering he's only four feet tall, but he's the kind of guy who's extremely power-hungry, and if someone challenges his opinion, he decides that that person (and all others who are friends with them) is against everything he does and he tries to make them feel like a pile of crap, but he really cares about what other people think of him.
He's really well-known around the school because he's the shortest, but he's not the youngest, and people always take his side in arguments, and only see the bad side of him when he's mad at them. No one can see the problem from our side except us, and all we can do is endure it. And he's really mean to us. For example, the drawing he drew of us, they were depictions of me and my friends, but to try to make him innocent, he called the three people Neb, Anirbas, and Agemo, which are our names backwards.
What can we do about this?
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Posted: Thu May 10, 2012 2:23 pm
So this other problem...
There's this really creepy guy at school who's liked me since the seventh grade. I really don't like him because he creeps me out, but lately it's been really weird. He's been pulling out his phone (which has really good camera quality) and he's been pointing it at girls in his class with the camera app open. We don't have any proof that he's actually taking pictures, but we know he's had the camera app open.
I've told the vice principal about it, and they did a search of his phone, but they found nothing. We really can't do anything about this, but I've been trying to avoid him. Is that wrong to do?
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Posted: Thu May 10, 2012 2:54 pm
Hey! I’m talking! cat_scream
not sure what to say about the first one, beyond ride the wave out, but the other guy is more than creepy. why does no one take his phone? that has me confused, especially since he's pointing it at people that don't want him to have pics of them. If he keeps it up, get all the girls he does this to, tell the principal (or superintendent if you can) as a group and tell them to take his phone away, period. that's not right, and it seems like he's trying to become a stalker/***** to me.
Ok, I’m done. Go back to your babble
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Posted: Thu May 10, 2012 2:56 pm
Thanks~
I've tried putting up with him, but he keeps trying to poke at our imperfections and pushes me to my limit.
As for the other guy, the teachers don't really notice that it's happening, and the students don't always catch it. Some are aware of it, but others are not, but there's no proof. There's nothing to prove our side of the problem.
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Posted: Thu May 10, 2012 3:04 pm
Hey! I’m talking! cat_scream
you guys talk to the principal or anyone abut the first guy?
(i was not aware that 'omega' could be a name)
and see if you can get them to notice with the second. or just take his phone yourself and find a way to hide/destroy it. if anyone asks, say that you don't know. i don't recommend the second way except as an extremely last resort
Ok, I’m done. Go back to your babble
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Posted: Thu May 10, 2012 3:16 pm
About your first post, regardless of the topic...one of your friends' name is Omega? Pretty awesome, if it's true. But back to the topic at hand, you should maybe lay off him a while, ignore him, don't interact with him too much. Or as girls call it, 'the silent treatment'. Perhaps you should just sort of lose contact with some of the bothersome ones, like your boyfriend and that short kid who's always antagonizing you. Tell someone about it if it bothers you so. But he really needs to (WARNING: BAD PUN) be brought down to size!
And your second post, you should just watch yourself, maybe snag his phone while he's 'fake-picture taking' or just watch yourself! I mean, let every girl know that there's a...oh help me, a pervert on the loose. even if he hasn't actually taken a photo, you'd better stop him before it gets serious.
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Posted: Fri May 11, 2012 3:54 am
Well, for the creepy guy, we've talked to the principal, they found nothing on his phone, and told him to stop taking it out in class, but he's resorted to shoving his phone under his desk and trying to take pictures of really any girls that go by.
@Wuppa: The problem is, I can ignore him all I want, but he'll never leave me alone. If I give him the silent treatment, he'll do the other girl thing where he'll announce to everyone who passes that I'm a (insert swear words here) because I lied to him about who threw his 'pictures' out. (which, by the way, wasn't actually me) And I think he does need to be taken down, but not by me. Someone else needs to see our side.
@Both: By the way, the short kid who's bothering me, he's the twin brother of Omega, conveniently named Alpha.
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Posted: Fri May 11, 2012 11:56 am
Hey! I’m talking! cat_scream
none of the teachers believe you on the guy with the phone? if he's a jock or something, talk to his coach. at the college my mom used to work for, the jocks in her ASL class would not pay attention, so she spoke to their coaches. Verdict: she gives their coaches their grades, and if they're below a 95 (which is almost impossible to obtain [and the grade she meant was 85/B, which is easier to obtain]), they couldn't play any games. i really hope the twit is a jock now...
Ok, I’m done. Go back to your babble
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Posted: Fri May 11, 2012 2:38 pm
iiFrozen Hot Chocolate
Well, for the creepy guy, we've talked to the principal, they found nothing on his phone, and told him to stop taking it out in class, but he's resorted to shoving his phone under his desk and trying to take pictures of really any girls that go by.
@Wuppa: The problem is, I can ignore him all I want, but he'll never leave me alone. If I give him the silent treatment, he'll do the other girl thing where he'll announce to everyone who passes that I'm a (insert swear words here) because I lied to him about who threw his 'pictures' out. (which, by the way, wasn't actually me) And I think he does need to be taken down, but not by me. Someone else needs to see our side.
@Both: By the way, the short kid who's bothering me, he's the twin brother of Omega, conveniently named Alpha.
Ah, but still...you should ignore him! Roll your eyes whenever he's insulting your name out loud. Heck, even talk bad about him behind his back.
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Posted: Fri May 11, 2012 2:45 pm
Wuppa Wuppa Heck, even talk bad about him behind his back. Hey! I’m talking! cat_scream
...and that would make her as bad as him. not a good idea
Ok, I’m done. Go back to your babble
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Posted: Fri May 11, 2012 3:02 pm
About the second guy: That is beyond creepy. Its borderline stalking. If you talk to the principal again and they don't do anything about it, you could mention Cho Seung-Hui (the Virginia Tech shooter. He stalked girls and took pictures of them in class) to help them realize that its scary and potentially threatening..
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Posted: Fri May 11, 2012 3:11 pm
Shannon Kyra Liannanon Wuppa Wuppa Heck, even talk bad about him behind his back. Hey! I’m talking! cat_scream
...and that would make her as bad as him. not a good idea
Ok, I’m done. Go back to your babble I'm running out of options. I, being the quiet one I am never have to face such fears. But being bad is somehow good for some reasons. How about you come up with something?
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Posted: Fri May 11, 2012 3:38 pm
Wuppa Wuppa Shannon Kyra Liannanon Wuppa Wuppa Heck, even talk bad about him behind his back. Hey! I’m talking! cat_scream
...and that would make her as bad as him. not a good idea
Ok, I’m done. Go back to your babble I'm running out of options. I, being the quiet one I am never have to face such fears. But being bad is somehow good for some reasons. How about you come up with something? Hey! I’m talking! cat_scream
i'm like you a lot, but i go to a small school, too, which probably makes a lot of difference. gossipers that make up stuff get ignored, unless it's really bad, in which case it's the teachers that do the back talking X'D
i would love to see a gossip out in the real world. see how long they last
Ok, I’m done. Go back to your babble
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Posted: Fri May 11, 2012 4:07 pm
Shannon Kyra Liannanon Wuppa Wuppa Shannon Kyra Liannanon Wuppa Wuppa Heck, even talk bad about him behind his back. Hey! I’m talking! cat_scream
...and that would make her as bad as him. not a good idea
Ok, I’m done. Go back to your babble I'm running out of options. I, being the quiet one I am never have to face such fears. But being bad is somehow good for some reasons. How about you come up with something? Hey! I’m talking! cat_scream
i'm like you a lot, but i go to a small school, too, which probably makes a lot of difference. gossipers that make up stuff get ignored, unless it's really bad, in which case it's the teachers that do the back talking X'D
i would love to see a gossip out in the real world. see how long they last
Ok, I’m done. Go back to your babble That should be a new TV show...
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Posted: Fri May 11, 2012 4:23 pm
Wuppa Wuppa Shannon Kyra Liannanon Wuppa Wuppa Shannon Kyra Liannanon Wuppa Wuppa Heck, even talk bad about him behind his back. Hey! I’m talking! cat_scream
...and that would make her as bad as him. not a good idea
Ok, I’m done. Go back to your babble I'm running out of options. I, being the quiet one I am never have to face such fears. But being bad is somehow good for some reasons. How about you come up with something? Hey! I’m talking! cat_scream
i'm like you a lot, but i go to a small school, too, which probably makes a lot of difference. gossipers that make up stuff get ignored, unless it's really bad, in which case it's the teachers that do the back talking X'D
i would love to see a gossip out in the real world. see how long they last
Ok, I’m done. Go back to your babble That should be a new TV show... Hey! I’m talking! cat_scream
a gossip in the real world? totally
Ok, I’m done. Go back to your babble
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