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Posted: Sun May 06, 2012 4:38 pm

Ever since I came to terms with my sexuality, I just get so flustered around girls and turn into such a stammering mess that I can't talk to any girl that I'm even remotely interested in. I can talk to guys just fine now, but around girls I get so shy...any advice?

Posted: Sun May 06, 2012 4:50 pm

I'm similar, except I can't talk to anyone. I suppose the first thing would to be able to not focus on them and speak as if they weren't there. A simple hello or something, then to become friends. Things are easier if you're friends.

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Posted: Sun May 06, 2012 5:04 pm

You're thinking too much. Stop seeing them as potential relationships and view them simply as friends. Remember that the best relationships (whether platonic or romantic) stem from solid friendships. Progressively build up your friendships with these girls and let the rest fall into place. In regards to your shyness, don't worry about it. It goes away the more you become accustomed to your own, personalized LGBT lifestyle.

Posted: Sun May 06, 2012 5:06 pm

Oh, you guys are right, I do think too much. I should probably work on making more friends, too. Thank you for the advice! 4laugh

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Posted: Sun May 06, 2012 6:09 pm

Now if only I could follow the same advice I've given. ><

Posted: Sun May 06, 2012 6:28 pm

~ for me I just go for it and try to talk to them. If I like them then I get weird. If not then I try to get to know them before anything happens~

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Posted: Sun May 06, 2012 7:05 pm

I don't know. I always feel more uncomfortable and awkward around other girls.

Posted: Sun May 06, 2012 7:56 pm

Hmm, I find it easy to talk to anyone as long as they aren't super intimidating or half naked biggrin
but other days when I feel ugly... I kill anyone who talks to me.. burning_eyes

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Posted: Mon May 07, 2012 6:32 am

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Ever since I came to terms with my sexuality, I just get so flustered around girls and turn into such a stammering mess that I can't talk to any girl that I'm even remotely interested in. I can talk to guys just fine now, but around girls I get so shy...any advice?

Aww... I used to have this problem...
But im so damn friendly it stopped being a problem real quick.

So my advice is: Just ignore nthat shy feeling in your stomach and tell it to go to hell. Just smile and say "Hello!" wave, be nice and friendly...

just done invade bubble space... it creeps people out! ^.,^

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