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 Posted: Tue Mar 20, 2012 2:18 pm
Why is that i solve one situation in my life to have another arise? Its like people in my family can't leave the hell alone. *Mutters unintelligently under my breath* I swear people have no concept of the idea of privacy.
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Posted: Sat Mar 24, 2012 1:50 pm
Huntress_Alistriona Why is that i solve one situation in my life to have another arise? Its like people in my family can't leave the hell alone. *Mutters unintelligently under my breath* I swear people have no concept of the idea of privacy.
I'm not sure whether to reply to this or not. Would it be evading your privacy if I do? If so, I apologize severely.
The trick with human relations is to generate an adequate amount of fear to gain respect. Thus, they dare not take a peek in your private matters. When it comes to family, though, it's a whole other story. Since you are stuck with them for the rest of your life, you should be cautious not to damage the bonds that makes blood thicker than water. I fail to find a comparison to state my case, the best I can offer you is to advise you to be patient. If it's parents mingling with your love affairs, tell them you appreciate their concern, but you'd rather do up your own experiences. We learn the best that way, believe it or not. Though, in some extreme cases it is wise to follow the advice of an elder (or more experienced figure than yourself). If it's your little brother intruding your room on untimely hours, agree to play games with him if he discontinues (with annoying little guys like that, you scarcely win a fight by using threats or blackmail).
If you need to talk, you can PM me (or you can reply right here if you don't mind exposing your personal life over a public domain).
Either way, good luck!
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Posted: Mon Mar 26, 2012 12:04 pm
Thanks ruri! I love my family to death but i feel like they're afraid to let me grow up and be my own person. Plus its an issue of control as well. But thanks for the offer, I'll eventually take you up on it.
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