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Lately I've been noticing that when I'm in a public place and there's guys and girls that I'm usually checking the guys out. :s but then there's this 1 girl I like that I can't take my eyes off of. Any help? I so confused right now...

I'm bi-sexual. I am attracted to both boys and girls. But Same as her ^ I'm in a relationship with my boyfriend. I toned down the way I look at girls cause I'm not single anymore.

You can not go by what you see that attracts you. That is worthless, there are visual markers on the body that both men and women can share making them attractive. I'm 100% gay but I've thought some women were attractive before, I know straight men who have thought some boys were cute before.

The only way to know for sure is dating, not online dating crap that doesn't prove anything for sexual security. Real physical dating, you'll know after a few dates with both genders which you gravitate towards. The more you date and explore the more you'll know about who you are sexually, otherwise its speculation.. which is virtually worthless. You either are gay or you arn't "thinking I'm gay" doesn't really mean anything to anyone. You're Bi, Gay Straight or Lesbo, if you don't know for sure that is normal but by the time you're in college you should at the least know if you're gay with certainty because beyond that point everyone else will not be experimenting anymore they'll be looking to settle down with long term relationships and you'll lose the opportunity to get to know your own sexuality if you wait too long or only date online until then...