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 Posted: Sun Dec 11, 2011 9:48 am
I currently have a bf but I want to keep it secret (he doesnt go to my school and we have a healthy relationship.) I dont want people to know because I look like a 6th grader when im really 14 and people will think im a kid and blah blah blah.
Anywayyyyy
Yah there is this one guy who I believe is a softmore or a junior and we talk on facebook sometimes but I can tell he likes me. He asks me "what do you do for fun?" in those exact words and he says he has similar interests.
There's also this other guy in my grade who CONSTANTLY flirts with me: he calls me names and throws gummy bears playfully at me.
Thing is, the guy in my grade can be a bit of a jerk sometimes and the softmore or junior guy, he kind of is.. special (trying not to sound mean) and, well I have a BOYFRIEND.
I can say my mom wont let me date if they ask me out its just that,
Ive had my heart broken before and I dont want to hurt anyone else. Im open to talk to all people and I guess that's why they like me.
Help?
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Posted: Thu Jan 12, 2012 3:32 pm
Well, some people are just completely incapable of taking hints though. If they're making it any more obvious, you might want to tell them to step off. Typically, there are two things you can do. You can tell them you have a boyfriend, or you can lie and just say that you're not interested in making the friendship anything more than what it is.
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Posted: Thu Jan 12, 2012 5:53 pm
^Ditto.
... and if the other guy doesn't go to your school and such... I doubt saying "I have a boyfriend" will be cause for "Who is HE?! I'm looking him up... I know him! SHAME!" or be the end of the world... Well, unless the 'jerk' is the kind to make a scene about such... and if someone asks who's your boyfriend and all, you could always just say "You wouldn't know him, he doesn't come to this school." because honestly... I doubt people will pry into finding out who your dating or anything... and I doubt people will look down on you or anything for having a boyfriend... and if it does become too much, you could always say it was a lie to get them to stop without crushing them or some bull.
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Posted: Thu Jan 12, 2012 8:18 pm
Sorry but this is bothering me, it's spelled sophomore. And two I still think 14 is a little young to be dating, especially a guy at another school. You can't even drive. How are you going to spend time together? Ever? You should really focus on strong friendships because high school is complicated and you need good friends more than you'll need a boyfriend. Plus you don't want to miss anything in highschool because of a boy or because a boy broke your heart. My advice is to hold off until Junior year!
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