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 Posted: Sat Feb 18, 2006 10:20 am
From now on, all would-be threads about virginity and losing one's virginity are to go here. So if you have any questions, comments, ideas (etc) about virginity, then please post them here.
All future threads about virginity will be locked, since they will now be considered repeat topic threads.
Please follow the Gaia ToS and rules when you post, as always, and treat everyone with respect.
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Posted: Tue Feb 28, 2006 10:40 pm
Hello there, its pretty cool to be the first to post....WHOOPPEE whee sweatdrop
anyways. I have many quest but I don't know where to start sweatdrop
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Posted: Tue Feb 28, 2006 10:42 pm
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Posted: Thu Mar 02, 2006 6:53 pm
hi i have a question im sort of a virgin and what will happen when i would first have sex like would i feel weird and guilty or what?
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Posted: Thu Mar 02, 2006 7:18 pm
It varies from person to person. We can't really say "oh you'll feel ____" because you might not when the time comes.
Hopefully you'll have sex when you are comfortable with it and when you feel ready. Thus you should have no need to feel guilty when you lose your virginity.
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Posted: Fri Mar 03, 2006 3:50 pm
underworld_deathdealer hi i have a question im sort of a virgin and what will happen when i would first have sex like would i feel weird and guilty or what? It depends on the person, like what Nikolita said. Some say it gives them great pleasure, some say it can be a pain in the butt but it varies from person to person. Only have sex when you are ready todo so.
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Posted: Wed Mar 08, 2006 11:07 pm
Ever wonder why people use the term "lose your virginity?" Why does everyone keep on saying that you "lose" your virginity... It doesn't make too much sense. I mean, alot of people "give" it per-se, and losing usually refers to misplacing, or losing something physical.
Anyone care to discuss why the vitginity is "lost?"
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Posted: Fri Mar 10, 2006 10:24 am
I'm yet still a virgin. I was thinking about having sex with my boyfriend..loosing my virginity.
I'm seeking pleasure, with protection.
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Posted: Sat Mar 11, 2006 11:17 pm
Not a virgin....and I regret it. Oh well. I'll get over it, I have a new boyfriend who wont rape me. biggrin
Wow, that sounds really awkward! sweatdrop
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Posted: Thu Mar 16, 2006 2:08 pm
i am 15 and my friend is 14 and she isnt i want to wait more!!!!!!!!!
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Posted: Thu Apr 06, 2006 3:34 am
I'm also still a virgin. Hell, I don't even have a girlfriend yet... to me, it is still too a little consider a relationship and I sure don't want to engage in such intimate stuff with a girl I'm not serious about.
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Posted: Fri Apr 21, 2006 4:04 pm
I'm a virgin and so are all my friends... not many people have sex in early high school around here, which I guess is a good thing. Of course, not many people talk about it either so I guess that's sort of a bad thing... Anyone read "The Canterbury Tales" I swear the wife of bath was the first feminist ever... she goes on a rant about how's she agaisnt virginity... it's so wierd, it was hard to get my brain wrapped around someone being against something your born with.
Well, that's my pointless input for this sticky xd
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Posted: Fri Apr 21, 2006 7:36 pm
underworld_deathdealer hi i have a question im sort of a virgin and what will happen when i would first have sex like would i feel weird and guilty or what? I think that if you had sex with someone you loved and were loved by in return and you were both truly comfortable with having sex, you would feel great about giving someone that once in a lifetime gift. If having sex was something that was something you didn't entirely want to do, and you didn't love the person...you would feel guilty later on once you do find that special person.
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Posted: Fri May 19, 2006 11:55 am
I'm 14 and lost my virginity a couple months ago. I don't feel bad about it. My issue is though the people that don't understand and label me as a slut. In the dictionary it says that a slut is a promiscuos (sp?) woman or a prostitute. I don't think sleeping with one person qualifies you as a slut. The other week I was on a fishing chat and someone asked if I was a virgin. I said no and I got bombarded by hate mail from some, excuse my bluntness, old-schooled little Christian girl that needs a slap in the face with reality. The guy I lost my virginity to is one of my childhood friends. We decided to give our virginity to each other after the first year of going out. We have safe sex always and we love each other more then we love life itself. Yet when little girls like the one mentioned above ask that stupid question, I get messages like this: "OMG! U SLUT! I can't believe u did that! ur a dirty whore!" I feel like loosing your virginity is a wonderful thing as long as you are ready for it. I just get frustrated by those who like to make you feel bad about it.
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Posted: Thu Jun 01, 2006 11:11 pm
One thing I want to know is, for the first time, is it better for the female to be on top or bottom??
To be on the top, the female would have better control, but be more exposed
To be on the bottom, the female wouldn't have a lot of control, but would be less exposed and more comfortable.
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