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 Posted: Sat Nov 19, 2011 12:31 am
I first want to say that what I write below has happened to me by pretty much ALL of my friends.. and I didn't really care up until now, because most of my "friends" are bastards, and it's really hard for me to consider someone my "friend" because it's so hard to trust anyone these days..
But anyways, this was finally starting to get to me when it happened to a very close and sweet girl friend of mine.
Long story short, she has been completely avoiding and ignoring me.. I lived in the same town as her, but moved a few miles away over the summer, so we haven't talked all that much, but I haven't done anything to her at all.
We used to get along so well, and she was practically the only person I felt close to (besides my partner) but now, she is purposely ignoring me. She never answers back my messages or texts [which aren't too often, so don't think i'm a stalker and I'm blowing up her phone]
and we made plans to hang out on halloween, but she ignored me the whole day, and i texted her, but she didn't say anything back, but I saw online that she had just posted something from her mobile, so she was obviously ignoring me.
She has a new boyfriend now, and idk if that has anything to do with it. I'm just hurt because all of my friends do this to me, and they're supposed to be "friends." I don't want to sound whiny or anything, I just want to know if anyone has an idea to what might be wrong with her? Thanks..
Sorry this was so long... .-.
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Posted: Sat Nov 19, 2011 12:41 am
wiccan_sk8er I first want to say that what I write below has happened to me by pretty much ALL of my friends.. and I didn't really care up until now, because most of my "friends" are bastards, and it's really hard for me to consider someone my "friend" because it's so hard to trust anyone these days.. But anyways, this was finally starting to get to me when it happened to a very close and sweet girl friend of mine. Long story short, she has been completely avoiding and ignoring me.. I lived in the same town as her, but moved a few miles away over the summer, so we haven't talked all that much, but I haven't done anything to her at all. We used to get along so well, and she was practically the only person I felt close to (besides my partner) but now, she is purposely ignoring me. She never answers back my messages or texts [which aren't too often, so don't think i'm a stalker and I'm blowing up her phone] and we made plans to hang out on halloween, but she ignored me the whole day, and i texted her, but she didn't say anything back, but I saw online that she had just posted something from her mobile, so she was obviously ignoring me. She has a new boyfriend now, and idk if that has anything to do with it. I'm just hurt because all of my friends do this to me, and they're supposed to be "friends." I don't want to sound whiny or anything, I just want to know if anyone has an idea to what might be wrong with her? Thanks.. Sorry this was so long... .-. honestly i do not know. its ver possible tat she is just ignoring you. the only real way to tell from the info u gave was to just ask. maybe you did something to offend her and you didnt realize it?
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Posted: Sat Nov 19, 2011 8:29 am
*hugs* Dude I've had a lot of friends do this to me. Sometime its just a misunderstanding and I have bad timing always calling when they're busy but some really do ignore me. I'd say that your best bet is to go talk to all of them or maybe just her and see what's up. Hope this helps.
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Posted: Sat Nov 19, 2011 9:06 am
Silver Sage-General *hugs* Dude I've had a lot of friends do this to me. Sometime its just a misunderstanding and I have bad timing always calling when they're busy but some really do ignore me. I'd say that your best bet is to go talk to all of them or maybe just her and see what's up. Hope this helps. I agree considering i've had that happen numerous times before where I thought I was being ignored and they never even got my mail. but it could also be possible that something's up at the same time. I'd ask her about it and give her the opportunity to bring up any problems there might be. if there is one try to work it out, if there wasn't then that's great, but if she still doesn't answer in about a week or so then i'd say she's not worth the effort because for whatever reason shes clearly written you off by then.
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Posted: Sat Nov 19, 2011 6:18 pm
There could be a lot of things happening with her. Lemme think of a few...
1. You're right and she's trying to avoid you for heaven only knows the reason why.
2. She could have a sick or dying relative, and she's trying to spend as much time with them while she has the chance.
3. She could be getting distracted by spending time with her boyfriend.
4. She got a new phone, lost contacts, and doesn't recognize your number.
Just to name a few reasons why... but anyway, the guys in this guild are here for you if need anything! So don't be sad.
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Posted: Sat Nov 19, 2011 9:57 pm
Thank you so much everyone! smile I'll give it a shot and ask her...
I had that plan since the beginning, but never wanted to because every time this has happened with other friends, I would ask if they were mad at me, and they still just ignored me.. >.<
But thanks so much everyone. =]
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Posted: Sun Nov 20, 2011 8:04 am
I hope she isn't just ignoring you because thats really rude. If she does I am sure you can find some friends on here that won't do that to you.
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Posted: Fri Dec 09, 2011 12:23 pm
Perhaps she was walking home one night when she was abducted by aliens and sent to Neptune. But then they realized people would notice her absence so they sent back an exact copy but she doesn't know how to talk to guys and she's just focused on her mission to destroy the planet
...................................Omg, that could happen! :O
It seems legit to me
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Posted: Fri Dec 09, 2011 2:44 pm
Guild MasterX2 Perhaps she was walking home one night when she was abducted by aliens and sent to Neptune. But then they realized people would notice her absence so they sent back an exact copy but she doesn't know how to talk to guys and she's just focused on her mission to destroy the planet ...................................Omg, that could happen! :O It seems legit to me Haha, I love this xD
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Posted: Fri Dec 09, 2011 3:21 pm
wiccan_sk8er Guild MasterX2 Perhaps she was walking home one night when she was abducted by aliens and sent to Neptune. But then they realized people would notice her absence so they sent back an exact copy but she doesn't know how to talk to guys and she's just focused on her mission to destroy the planet ...................................Omg, that could happen! :O It seems legit to me Haha, I love this xD lol always willing to provide comic relief razz
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