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PostPosted: Mon Nov 07, 2011 10:53 pm


There's this girl I've liked for the past 5 years now. We'd always been pretty good friends. We would keep contact here since we were both gaia users and she was one of the few who didn't quit. Anyway last year she moved away to Ohio due to the cost of living here. Now I find out that all this time she liked me in the same way I liked her. She's hesitant to get into a long distance relationship since she doesn't want to be "one of those girls that waits around forever". So I'll need some arguments as to how a long distance relationship can be advantageous. Yes I've already listed how we could keep contact through letters, email, skype, etc. and how having a non-physical relationship would ensure that the relationship wouldn't be all about sex.
PostPosted: Thu Nov 10, 2011 11:05 pm


Well I really can't say any advantage to a long distance relationship having never been in one myself. But I've seen a few work. My ex being a good example seeing as she is engaged to the guy she left me for. We live in Alberta and he is in England. I dunno how often you would get to visit each other either but if you are that close of friends I'm sure you can find a way.

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PostPosted: Fri Nov 11, 2011 2:04 am


Well I'm still here on this island and she's in the middle of Continental USA. Neither of us have much money to our name so we probably won't get to see each other again for some few years now unless she decides to come back for vacation or something.
PostPosted: Fri Dec 02, 2011 9:34 am


I'll be honest, it won't work unless it's true love and you are both older and mature. I mean since you've liked each other for so long I would give it a shot. You have to have trust. Just write letters and make sure to still plan dates via webcams. Try to see each other at least once a year. If it's true love it can work out. I've been in one and we're sill happily together.

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PostPosted: Fri Dec 02, 2011 9:52 am


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I'll be honest, it won't work unless it's true love and you are both older and mature. I mean since you've liked each other for so long I would give it a shot. You have to have trust. Just write letters and make sure to still plan dates via webcams. Try to see each other at least once a year. If it's true love it can work out. I've been in one and we're sill happily together.
Not sure if she has a webcam. Even if she did, there's no way her parents would let her use it. Her parents are very strict and protective. As per writing letters, I feel the same thing applies. Hell she's not even supposed to be on sites like gaia and facebook but she kinda sneaks on when no one is looking lol. Still we will see how things pan out.
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