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 Posted: Wed Feb 15, 2006 7:53 pm
My life had been great, I had fantastic friends, and I even had a boyfriend (which is rare for me). So all of the sudden my field of happiness catches fire. One of my friends (we'll call her #1) just randomly desided she hated me, well she said that she had always hated me, but she never showed her hatred or told me. Well she ditched me at lunch and my other friend (she'll be #2) who I've known since 3rd grade, followed her (she loves her but #1 doesn't return the feelings) and my last friend (#3) went too because she knew #1 before me...
Well so at first I figured #1 just needed space so I left her alone for about two days then one day she finally told me how much she hated me. After about a week or two I desided I was okay with it and I tried to make the best of my situation. Oh and by the way my boyfriend and I broke up at that time so I wasn't very happy. Anyway so then I drew a pic for an art contest and the main pic on it had brown hair on it (#1 has brown hair) and I didn't put brown hair because of her. And she's like "Why the hell did you put me in it?!" And I was like "I didn't" and she freaked out I don't know why.
Then after I had been happy with how everything turned out she's like "Why are you so happy, I hate you!" and then after that she's been really mean to me telling me off and stuff. Then here on Gaia I found the perfect guy I was so happy! then after about a month of talking to him I found out that it was actually #1 the entire time. She had played a cruel and sick joke on me and I almost cried. She had been laughing about it every day. And now she thinks if I wear eye liner I'm copying her and she thinks of me as a poseur (as she likes to spell it). I don't know what to do about it I feel like pulling my hair out!!
What should I do?
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Posted: Thu Feb 16, 2006 12:48 pm
I whouldn't consider her friend a friend anymore. Probably not my place to say it, but she's a total b***h. hopfully "#2" will come to her senses, I whouldn't recommend saying much to her untill she does or she may take it the wrong way, you can only hope the same for "#3". As for your online relationships you shouldn't be afraid to do a little digging, there are many tiny nooks and cranny's which one can use to find the real identies of users on Gaia and if you can't find them then person must be a shady character and probably has somthing to hide.
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Posted: Fri Feb 17, 2006 10:10 am
She sounds like such a horrible person!
My advice is just to stay as far away from her as possible. She is making you miserable and you don't deserve it. She sounds like a bully. Hopefully friend #2 and #3 will realise how nasty she is but if they don't then they're not worth having as friends.
If you have other friends you could hang around with them. If you don't then try talking to some new people. If this seems hard then start off with small talk and then it will build from there over time.
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Posted: Fri Feb 17, 2006 1:12 pm
Arg. this one is tough. It sounds like you've tried to ingore her and get past everything, but then this friend #1 of yours finds just pleasure in torturing you so much. My advice now would be to go talk to a guidence counciller or parent or adult that you trust. Seems like you have a bully after you now. You can keep on ignoring her, but it seems like you're getting to the point where it's hard to get past what she's doing, which is why I think you should get some help from someone else.
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Posted: Sun Feb 19, 2006 6:34 am
That's a sick joke to play on someone, you had the right to feel hurt!
As for the rest, what the hell is her problem? Have you tried asking her or one of her close friends what you've done?
A similar thing happened to me in my old school, it's best to ignore her and make other friends, pretend you don't notice her and if she keeps bugging you, you can tell the head of your grade, if that doesn't work you should pretend her insults aren't upsetting you.
I hope that was of any help.
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Posted: Fri Mar 17, 2006 5:18 pm
i would totally b***h slap here right then and there
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Posted: Sat Mar 18, 2006 2:44 pm
last time a friend blew up randomly and started being a b***h to someone (my close friend)
She was a lesbian, and it turned out she had this huge crush on her and was VERY resentfull for her not returning the feelings-because she was straight.
Maybe take that into consideration? Those people don't seem like great friends, if they drop you like that.
The only thing you can do for no is to tell friend1 to stop bitching about you 'copying' her and tell her to get over it.
You can either let these events take the better of you and make you feel like crap for a LONG time, or just think about how stronger you'll get over this and to stay out of her way. FAR away from her.
And seeing as how much effort she put into trying to ******** you over on the internet like that to you, she must obviously care enough about you to do that. This girl has issues.
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Posted: Mon Apr 10, 2006 10:22 pm
Okay I know most people aren't looking at this thread anymore because its kinda old, BUT some of it got a little better #3 isn't friends with them anymore and she never hated me its just that she knew #1 for longer than me so yeah... she said that #1 and #2 started calling her a "fat b***h" and said that they only hang out with her because they were sorry for her. And now for the bad news... I found out that my friend is friends with #1 and so anything that I say to her can go directly to #1(apparently she knew about that sick joke) so I can't tell one of my best friends ANY of my secrets. I know most of you are going to say that I should stop being friends because of that but she's REALLY nice and she was the one who stayed with me when #1 ditched me.
*sighs*
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Posted: Thu Apr 13, 2006 4:06 pm
eek ...Wow...That ...exact thing happened to me too....OMG ....ok..Well. I got through that same tough issue. Give them allspace..just step away from the whole problem for a while then look at it with new eyes. And always remember that "this too shall pass"
Im so sorry I suck at advice...
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Posted: Fri Apr 14, 2006 2:02 pm
Seigest I whouldn't consider her friend a friend anymore. Probably not my place to say it, but she's a total b***h. hopfully "#2" will come to her senses, I whouldn't recommend saying much to her untill she does or she may take it the wrong way, you can only hope the same for "#3". As for your online relationships you shouldn't be afraid to do a little digging, there are many tiny nooks and cranny's which one can use to find the real identies of users on Gaia and if you can't find them then person must be a shady character and probably has somthing to hide.
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