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 Posted: Tue Aug 17, 2004 4:13 pm
Honestly, what do you see in you'r self? Not trying to be rude, just rying to find out iwho has a negative self image so I can help.
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Posted: Tue Aug 17, 2004 4:16 pm
I don't feel sexy until Jack starts calling me 'hottie' and telling me I'm sexy. I want to lose a bit of weight before the wedding (what woman wouldn't?!) but he doesn't want me skinny and I love him for it. As far as what I see in myself?
Well... I'm funny, creative, artistic, smart, friendly, kind, giving, caring, loving... supportive... I don't really see a whole lot about myself, short of my health (I have several very minor medical conditions) and my job situation that I don't like.
eek
Okay... am I weird or what?
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Posted: Tue Aug 17, 2004 4:17 pm
Hell yes im sexy! Even if i want to loose weight sometimes I go by the mirrior and think. "wow im looking sexy today." I feel sexy too. Some days when i have slept all day and haven't taken a shower, then I don't feel sexy. sweatdrop
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Posted: Tue Aug 17, 2004 4:18 pm
well when summer first started i hated the way i looked. Then i started to wear more and more black and other dark colors that match so i could make a really cute outfit. Now that i wear a size 18 (i can wear a size 16 but i like to be comfy) I love the way i look ^-^ I want to lose another 17 pounds though but i still love the way i look blaugh
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Posted: Tue Aug 17, 2004 4:20 pm
All is good so fare yes! 3nodding
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Posted: Tue Aug 17, 2004 4:49 pm
TearsofRavens Hell yes im sexy! Even if i want to loose weight sometimes I go by the mirrior and think. "wow im looking sexy today." I feel sexy too. Some days when i have slept all day and haven't taken a shower, then I don't feel sexy. sweatdrop That's exactly how I feel. There are days when I look at myself and say "Hey...I'm looking pretty damn spiffy today!" and other days when I just stare at the mirror and go "Bleh...me no likey". Oh...and about the shower thing...there are times when I'm so busy with taking care of the girls that I don't get to shower every day like normal and I definitely feel less attractive, but I could be covered in dirt and my hubby would still think I'm sexy...sometimes I think he's got something wrong in his head lol razz
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Posted: Tue Aug 17, 2004 5:57 pm
vampyre I don't feel sexy until Jack starts calling me 'hottie' and telling me I'm sexy. I want to lose a bit of weight before the wedding (what woman wouldn't?!) but he doesn't want me skinny and I love him for it. As far as what I see in myself? Well... I'm funny, creative, artistic, smart, friendly, kind, giving, caring, loving... supportive... I don't really see a whole lot about myself, short of my health (I have several very minor medical conditions) and my job situation that I don't like. eek Okay... am I weird or what? i tell her she's sexy and cute and stuff cause she IS! otherwise, i wouldn't get so turned on by being around her. xp xd heart and no i dont want her to be skinny. losing a bit of weight would be healthy, but i don't want her to lose her soft cuddliness ... or her huge gazonkas (j/k) mrgreen .
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Posted: Tue Aug 17, 2004 6:00 pm
haha that was honesty from a loved one at its best. xd
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Posted: Tue Aug 17, 2004 6:11 pm
I third the motion. Like TearsofRavens and TessenX said it is certain times when I don't feel sexy (not bathing and wearing unappealing clothes). I also have small bouts of low self-esteem. I fear that I am not attractive to those I am attracted to. I have the habit of looking at other girls at times and saying off handed comments to my bf, like "You think she's attractive don't you?" or "You probably like that girl. She's thin and attractive." This doesn't mean that I don't think I'm sexy or I think I'm ugly. I have moments and situations where I don't think I'm as pretty as others. Luckily though, I grew up in a fat positive family because all of us are overweight and I have many "overweight" friends. So those moments (although sometimes severe) are few and far between.
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Posted: Tue Aug 17, 2004 6:14 pm
Jinnari I third the motion. Like TearsofRavens and TessenX said it is certain times when I don't feel sexy (not bathing and wearing unappealing clothes). I also have small bouts of low self-esteem. I fear that I am not attractive to those I am attracted to. I have the habit of looking at other girls at times and saying off handed comments to my bf, like "You think she's attractive don't you?" or "You probably like that girl. She's thin and attractive." This doesn't mean that I don't think I'm sexy or I think I'm ugly. I have moments and situations where I don't think I'm as pretty as others. Luckily though, I grew up in a fat positive family because all of us are overweight and I have many "overweight" friends. So those moments (although sometimes severe) are few and far between. i have those as well self esteem bouts now and then as well, and currently for some reasons. xp but im not a girl so ill bow out of this conversation now xp
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Posted: Tue Aug 17, 2004 6:18 pm
Jinnari I third the motion. Like TearsofRavens and TessenX said it is certain times when I don't feel sexy (not bathing and wearing unappealing clothes). I also have small bouts of low self-esteem. I fear that I am not attractive to those I am attracted to. I have the habit of looking at other girls at times and saying off handed comments to my bf, like "You think she's attractive don't you?" or "You probably like that girl. She's thin and attractive." This doesn't mean that I don't think I'm sexy or I think I'm ugly. I have moments and situations where I don't think I'm as pretty as others. Luckily though, I grew up in a fat positive family because all of us are overweight and I have many "overweight" friends. So those moments (although sometimes severe) are few and far between. Nodds** I know what you mean. But for some reason i dont have low self-esteem anymore. I may look at myself in the mirror once in awhile and feel down a bit. But after awhile i feel good again. And i have noticed recently that has brought my self-esteem way up. More guys in RL are flirting with me more then before and it feels kinda good ^.^
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Posted: Tue Aug 17, 2004 6:59 pm
Jinnari I third the motion. Like TearsofRavens and TessenX said it is certain times when I don't feel sexy (not bathing and wearing unappealing clothes). I also have small bouts of low self-esteem. I fear that I am not attractive to those I am attracted to. I have the habit of looking at other girls at times and saying off handed comments to my bf, like "You think she's attractive don't you?" or "You probably like that girl. She's thin and attractive." This doesn't mean that I don't think I'm sexy or I think I'm ugly. I have moments and situations where I don't think I'm as pretty as others. Luckily though, I grew up in a fat positive family because all of us are overweight and I have many "overweight" friends. So those moments (although sometimes severe) are few and far between. You see that is my problem. EVERYONE in my family (extended or not, (in exception to the older people)) Are super model looking. My mom and dad and brother are really pretty and thin. My moms highest weight was 130 gonk They try and be nice to me but none of them know whats it's like. They will say hurtful things without ever reailizeing it. They also think chubbyness is some sort of horrible disease. sweatdrop BTW I just went to weight watchers and lost 4 lbs. Go me!
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Posted: Tue Aug 17, 2004 8:54 pm
I'm going to attempt not to cast my shadow of negativity over this thread.
Being positive, ready? Okay, here goes.
What I see in myself... I can be funny, although it's usually when I'm mad. My friends think it's funny, and I don't, usually.
I'm good at Tomb Raider. Okay, I kick a** at Tomb Raider.
That was two. No more self-glorification for me for a little while.
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Posted: Tue Aug 17, 2004 8:59 pm
I think I'm sexy...and not only by body. I like my personality, and I actually like some of my flaws. Well, I don't like them, but I can live with them.
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Posted: Tue Aug 17, 2004 9:51 pm
kristinesque I'm going to attempt not to cast my shadow of negativity over this thread.
Being positive, ready? Okay, here goes.
What I see in myself... I can be funny, although it's usually when I'm mad. My friends think it's funny, and I don't, usually.
I'm good at Tomb Raider. Okay, I kick a** at Tomb Raider.
That was two. No more self-glorification for me for a little while. Heh. I'm sure there is more. Plus that tomb raider asskickingness is a big up. Ha... I can't get past the demo on one of my dreamcast demo discs sweatdrop
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