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 Posted: Thu Sep 08, 2011 10:24 pm
Me and my boyfriend are under a LOT of stress. There is a possibility he could get kicked out of his house (we are both living with our parents) and we are very very very nervous and a complete wreck. It's really complicated, and it sums up to the fact that his mom hates me for being a pagan. It's really complicated, if you want more details please PM me =]
I was telling him that I wanted to find some ideas on a ritual for my moontime and he asked me to a ritual for him to bring him comfort and possibly some luck during this stressful time. Can someone help me with some ideas for this? I have never written my own ritual/spell but because he means so much to me I want to write this myself, I just need some ideas. We are also looking on how to bring calming energies into the atmosphere and peace of mind to ourselves. Any ideas would be helpful, thank you so much!
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Posted: Fri Sep 09, 2011 12:36 am
Hm... Let me see... Use Orange candles, as the color is used to overcome challenges, happiness and helps to seal a spell.
Um... Cloves and Cinnemon offer protection, so try infusing with those. It might taste icky, but if you do a feeding ritual with your boyfriend, it might help.
Uh... One that I used recently was nice. Take a pile of coins, of any value, and light the candles. Then, I repeat the below chant until I feel satasfied, medetating on not just good fortune, but that the three fold law be set in motion.
"Let fortuned winds blow my way
All that's evil please allay
All that's good and all that's bane
Give in turn, but for my gain."
Then, give away the coins, preferably in a donation box or some such.
Also, a small package of alfalfa kept in a cupboard in the home can bring good luck, so I'm told.
Over all, just trust that no matter what happens, there is an order to the chaos. Meditate, try and see through the haze. Flesh, stone, wood, money. They're all just things. Everything is connected by energy, and everything else is an illusion.
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Posted: Fri Sep 09, 2011 9:06 am
This may only work for me, because I've weird that way...
But I find this monologue to be very comforting when I'm feeling stressed, depressed, restless, hopeless, self-pitying, etc. regardless of the cause. This can be applied to so many different aspects of life.
By was of actual USEFUL advice, however, is your BF's mother kicking hom out of her house because he is dating you and you are pagan or for another reason? If you are the reason then the three of you should sit down together and try to have a calm discussion about the issue. Ask her why she does not want her son dating a pagan girl (I assume you're female) and why she feels kicking him out of the house is a solution to this.
Also, may I ask how old your BF is? If he is under 18 and she kicks him out I do believe there are legal ways that he can retaliate.
I understand his desire to seek magical aid in this difficult time in his life. But I am a firm believer in resolving problems constructively instead of just doing things to make yourself feel better and then ignoring the problem. As I already suggested, the three of you, you, him and his mother, should all sit down and have a calm (as calm as possible, I understand this is a tense situation and feelings have already been rubbed raw) conversation. Try to resolve the issues peaceably.
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Posted: Fri Sep 09, 2011 11:25 am
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