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 Posted: Wed Aug 17, 2011 1:49 pm
So I was talking to my mom on last Saturday about going to a new Therapist (I have gone to one since I was 10 and I am 15 now btw) and she told me she'd look for one, and then the next day she told me about one that was near here, and I asked what she specializes in? My mom's response was "Sexual teen's orientation, depression, self-esteem and other things that have to do with mental disorders" and so I was just curious if you think it is a coincidence, that my mother who doesn't believe me in the fact I am gay, and forces me to date girls, chose a therapist that specializes in teen's sexual orientation.
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Posted: Wed Aug 17, 2011 2:04 pm
Fuuta De La Stella So I was talking to my mom on last Saturday about going to a new Therapist (I have gone to one since I was 10 and I am 15 now btw) and she told me she'd look for one, and then the next day she told me about one that was near here, and I asked what she specializes in? My mom's response was "Sexual teen's orientation, depression, self-esteem and other things that have to do with mental disorders" and so I was just curious if you think it is a coincidence, that my mother who doesn't believe me in the fact I am gay, and forces me to date girls, chose a therapist that specializes in teen's sexual orientation. Well, she doesn't want to admit that her son is gay? Is that right?
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Posted: Wed Aug 17, 2011 2:10 pm
GabrielVilela Fuuta De La Stella So I was talking to my mom on last Saturday about going to a new Therapist (I have gone to one since I was 10 and I am 15 now btw) and she told me she'd look for one, and then the next day she told me about one that was near here, and I asked what she specializes in? My mom's response was "Sexual teen's orientation, depression, self-esteem and other things that have to do with mental disorders" and so I was just curious if you think it is a coincidence, that my mother who doesn't believe me in the fact I am gay, and forces me to date girls, chose a therapist that specializes in teen's sexual orientation. Well, she doesn't want to admit that her son is gay? Is that right? Nah, she doesn't thinks it's a lie I am gay, even though I am 100% out and I have had 2 boyfriends she knows of, one for 6months and the other for a couple of weeks. Then that was a couple of weeks was because he was bi-curious and he figured out he wasn't bi, nor gay.
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Posted: Wed Aug 17, 2011 2:12 pm
Fuuta De La Stella GabrielVilela Fuuta De La Stella So I was talking to my mom on last Saturday about going to a new Therapist (I have gone to one since I was 10 and I am 15 now btw) and she told me she'd look for one, and then the next day she told me about one that was near here, and I asked what she specializes in? My mom's response was "Sexual teen's orientation, depression, self-esteem and other things that have to do with mental disorders" and so I was just curious if you think it is a coincidence, that my mother who doesn't believe me in the fact I am gay, and forces me to date girls, chose a therapist that specializes in teen's sexual orientation. Well, she doesn't want to admit that her son is gay? Is that right? Nah, she doesn't thinks it's a lie I am gay, even though I am 100% out and I have had 2 boyfriends she knows of, one for 6months and the other for a couple of weeks. Then that was a couple of weeks was because he was bi-curious and he figured out he wasn't bi, nor gay. Oh I see. Well...is that a problem for you? Being gay is not a disease or something. That's natural, but maybe, you decided to find a new therapist and your mother already found one, could be a coincidence or not
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Posted: Wed Aug 17, 2011 2:16 pm
GabrielVilela Fuuta De La Stella GabrielVilela Fuuta De La Stella So I was talking to my mom on last Saturday about going to a new Therapist (I have gone to one since I was 10 and I am 15 now btw) and she told me she'd look for one, and then the next day she told me about one that was near here, and I asked what she specializes in? My mom's response was "Sexual teen's orientation, depression, self-esteem and other things that have to do with mental disorders" and so I was just curious if you think it is a coincidence, that my mother who doesn't believe me in the fact I am gay, and forces me to date girls, chose a therapist that specializes in teen's sexual orientation. Well, she doesn't want to admit that her son is gay? Is that right? Nah, she doesn't thinks it's a lie I am gay, even though I am 100% out and I have had 2 boyfriends she knows of, one for 6months and the other for a couple of weeks. Then that was a couple of weeks was because he was bi-curious and he figured out he wasn't bi, nor gay. Oh I see. Well...is that a problem for you? Being gay is not a disease or something. That's natural, but maybe, you decided to find a new therapist and your mother already found one, could be a coincidence or not No it's just that when she tells me to my face I am lying and then goes around and tells everyone else in the ******** family WHEN I WAS GONNA TELL THEM LATER. Then watches all the homophobes in my family get pissed at me and start getting angry at me and she just sits there, and expect me to stop, when I am not lying. She even told me to stop acting when I had a boyfriend and he came over one night and he kissed me good bye. That is the freaking problem, and I hope it's just a coincidence, my last therapist didn't help me at all.
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Posted: Wed Aug 17, 2011 2:23 pm
Fuuta De La Stella GabrielVilela Fuuta De La Stella GabrielVilela Fuuta De La Stella So I was talking to my mom on last Saturday about going to a new Therapist (I have gone to one since I was 10 and I am 15 now btw) and she told me she'd look for one, and then the next day she told me about one that was near here, and I asked what she specializes in? My mom's response was "Sexual teen's orientation, depression, self-esteem and other things that have to do with mental disorders" and so I was just curious if you think it is a coincidence, that my mother who doesn't believe me in the fact I am gay, and forces me to date girls, chose a therapist that specializes in teen's sexual orientation. Well, she doesn't want to admit that her son is gay? Is that right? Nah, she doesn't thinks it's a lie I am gay, even though I am 100% out and I have had 2 boyfriends she knows of, one for 6months and the other for a couple of weeks. Then that was a couple of weeks was because he was bi-curious and he figured out he wasn't bi, nor gay. Oh I see. Well...is that a problem for you? Being gay is not a disease or something. That's natural, but maybe, you decided to find a new therapist and your mother already found one, could be a coincidence or not No it's just that when she tells me to my face I am lying and then goes around and tells everyone else in the ******** family WHEN I WAS GONNA TELL THEM LATER. Then watches all the homophobes in my family get pissed at me and start getting angry at me and she just sits there, and expect me to stop, when I am not lying. She even told me to stop acting when I had a boyfriend and he came over one night and he kissed me good bye. That is the freaking problem, and I hope it's just a coincidence, my last therapist didn't help me at all. You're mother have to understand that you're alot happier this way! I know this might hurt but I don't think she expected that one day she would have a gay son, is not wrong having one! Like I always say sexual preferences are small details, it won't change you! You'll keep being the same, doing the same things but alot more happier (once again). Maybe therapists aren't the best solution, maybe talking to psychologist or to your best friend, one of them will listen to you and will help you. I know about psychologists because during one year, I've been working on with one, it truly helps me. It turned that weird and homophobic guy into this open-mind guy I'm right now! One day your mother will have to understand that you're this way, only if you wanna change, you'll. And about your family, the ones that are against gays, ignore them. I know saying it's lot easier then doing but you should try, you'll see who's in your family, loves you. Try to talk with your mother, convince her that you're that way and doing this hurt your feelings.
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Posted: Wed Aug 17, 2011 2:29 pm
GabrielVilela Fuuta De La Stella GabrielVilela Fuuta De La Stella GabrielVilela Fuuta De La Stella So I was talking to my mom on last Saturday about going to a new Therapist (I have gone to one since I was 10 and I am 15 now btw) and she told me she'd look for one, and then the next day she told me about one that was near here, and I asked what she specializes in? My mom's response was "Sexual teen's orientation, depression, self-esteem and other things that have to do with mental disorders" and so I was just curious if you think it is a coincidence, that my mother who doesn't believe me in the fact I am gay, and forces me to date girls, chose a therapist that specializes in teen's sexual orientation. Well, she doesn't want to admit that her son is gay? Is that right? Nah, she doesn't thinks it's a lie I am gay, even though I am 100% out and I have had 2 boyfriends she knows of, one for 6months and the other for a couple of weeks. Then that was a couple of weeks was because he was bi-curious and he figured out he wasn't bi, nor gay. Oh I see. Well...is that a problem for you? Being gay is not a disease or something. That's natural, but maybe, you decided to find a new therapist and your mother already found one, could be a coincidence or not No it's just that when she tells me to my face I am lying and then goes around and tells everyone else in the ******** family WHEN I WAS GONNA TELL THEM LATER. Then watches all the homophobes in my family get pissed at me and start getting angry at me and she just sits there, and expect me to stop, when I am not lying. She even told me to stop acting when I had a boyfriend and he came over one night and he kissed me good bye. That is the freaking problem, and I hope it's just a coincidence, my last therapist didn't help me at all. You're mother have to understand that you're alot happier this way! I know this might hurt but I don't think she expected that one day she would have a gay son, is not wrong having one! Like I always say sexual preferences are small details, it won't change you! You'll keep being the same, doing the same things but alot more happier (once again). Maybe therapists aren't the best solution, maybe talking to psychologist or to your best friend, one of them will listen to you and will help you. I know about psychologists because during one year, I've been working on with one, it truly helps me. It turned that weird and homophobic guy into this open-mind guy I'm right now! One day your mother will have to understand that you're this way, only if you wanna change, you'll. And about your family, the ones that are against gays, ignore them. I know saying it's lot easier then doing but you should try, you'll see who's in your family, loves you. Try to talk with your mother, convince her that you're that way and doing this hurt your feelings. Yea, I know that and I have told her that, and she always just ends up yelling at me and taking this away from me and grounding me. Hell she took away my internet, phone, tv, and Playstation 2 (yes, I still own one, and I play it everyday now) for 3 months because she thought it was those things that made me this way, when I learned I was gay IN THE 5TH GRADE. When I realized I had a mad crush on my best-friend that just moved. Yea, my mom will change when she knows that I am not a virgin and lost it too a dude. Or that I finally puke at the sight of a girls V. Actually I know about them, I go to them a lot as well as Therapists, I am not a very mentally stable person. Oh actually ignoring them won't be hard. I have never liked those people, they are the side of my family that are in the KKK.
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Posted: Wed Aug 17, 2011 2:35 pm
Fuuta De La Stella GabrielVilela Fuuta De La Stella GabrielVilela Fuuta De La Stella Nah, she doesn't thinks it's a lie I am gay, even though I am 100% out and I have had 2 boyfriends she knows of, one for 6months and the other for a couple of weeks. Then that was a couple of weeks was because he was bi-curious and he figured out he wasn't bi, nor gay. Oh I see. Well...is that a problem for you? Being gay is not a disease or something. That's natural, but maybe, you decided to find a new therapist and your mother already found one, could be a coincidence or not No it's just that when she tells me to my face I am lying and then goes around and tells everyone else in the ******** family WHEN I WAS GONNA TELL THEM LATER. Then watches all the homophobes in my family get pissed at me and start getting angry at me and she just sits there, and expect me to stop, when I am not lying. She even told me to stop acting when I had a boyfriend and he came over one night and he kissed me good bye. That is the freaking problem, and I hope it's just a coincidence, my last therapist didn't help me at all. You're mother have to understand that you're alot happier this way! I know this might hurt but I don't think she expected that one day she would have a gay son, is not wrong having one! Like I always say sexual preferences are small details, it won't change you! You'll keep being the same, doing the same things but alot more happier (once again). Maybe therapists aren't the best solution, maybe talking to psychologist or to your best friend, one of them will listen to you and will help you. I know about psychologists because during one year, I've been working on with one, it truly helps me. It turned that weird and homophobic guy into this open-mind guy I'm right now! One day your mother will have to understand that you're this way, only if you wanna change, you'll. And about your family, the ones that are against gays, ignore them. I know saying it's lot easier then doing but you should try, you'll see who's in your family, loves you. Try to talk with your mother, convince her that you're that way and doing this hurt your feelings. Yea, I know that and I have told her that, and she always just ends up yelling at me and taking this away from me and grounding me. Hell she took away my internet, phone, tv, and Playstation 2 (yes, I still own one, and I play it everyday now) for 3 months because she thought it was those things that made me this way, when I learned I was gay IN THE 5TH GRADE. When I realized I had a mad crush on my best-friend that just moved. Yea, my mom will change when she knows that I am not a virgin and lost it too a dude. Or that I finally puke at the sight of a girls V. Actually I know about them, I go to them a lot as well as Therapists, I am not a very mentally stable person. Oh actually ignoring them won't be hard. I have never liked those people, they are the side of my family that are in the KKK. I believe that saying that you lost your virginity to a dude, won't help. And taking away your things, won't change you, you're that way!(and I have a Play Station 2 too haha).If you say that you puke at the sight of a girls V, won't help too, she'll think if you do this, it will help you turn into "straight again". Being gay is normal, she have to understand this! It seems the one who truly needs a therapist is your mother, sorry to say this, but as a mom, well she would be shocked about this but later on she would understand. You discovered you were gay on the 5th grade and that's a few years ago. Soon or later she will understand, as long you're happy, everything will be fine. Try to convince her, everyday, that you're gay, no matter was she decides to do, it won't change you. Try saying little/innocent things, and (maybe) doing this, she would understand you and notice how bad she was acting with you.
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Posted: Wed Aug 17, 2011 2:55 pm
I hope I didn't offend you with something I said. I apologize for something I said that you considered offending.
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