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I am my father 's only son, he wants grandchildren, wants see me married to nice young lady. He thinks it is selfish of me for being gay. I have no romantic or sexual attraction towards females at all. I am 100% gay always have been since I was 12 or 11, I did used like girls when I was younger, then I started like guys allot more when one started to flirt with me. I was curious young boy then and bit nerdy, did research on gays, found it interesting, etc lol, I save you the long story. But very quickly I lost all interest of dating girls or having girlfriend. There is no turning back either. My father and other members my family wants me have children.

That will not happen and I do even want children. Do feel a little bad for letting my father down, but it is not my fault for being gay. It is just who I am and I cannot just suddenly start liking females.I havn t told everyone in my family that I am gay. However all my friends and most my cousins know. I do not keep secret either. My father has done so much for me and supported me in almost everything, but for me being gay. Anyway else have similar situations like this, parents wanting you have straight marriage knowing that you are gay, thinking they can talk you into changing your ways.

You could always adopt if yu wanted to,