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_LastOneAlive_89

PostPosted: Sat Jul 30, 2011 2:55 pm


...except everyone in my area is into the freaking super good looking kind of guys and girls....>.>.....

And finding someone who likes you for who you are is pretty much out the window...around here at least...

Any tips? Has this happened to you before?
online dating is also a problem...I am not no one night stand kind of guy...>.>...
PostPosted: Sat Jul 30, 2011 3:10 pm


Go with the flow. Love and be loved. Someone will enter your life eventually, no need to rush it and until that person does, Discover you.

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_LastOneAlive_89

PostPosted: Sat Jul 30, 2011 3:14 pm


TyDaCat
Go with the flow. Love and be loved. Someone will enter your life eventually, no need to rush it and until that person does, Discover you.

Feels like a long time before thatt will happen...I am not saying it wont happen...its just...its freaking one sided at times...

They want freaking PERFECT! gonk
PostPosted: Sat Jul 30, 2011 3:26 pm


Legendary Misfortune
TyDaCat
Go with the flow. Love and be loved. Someone will enter your life eventually, no need to rush it and until that person does, Discover you.

Feels like a long time before thatt will happen...I am not saying it wont happen...its just...its freaking one sided at times...

They want freaking PERFECT! gonk


its like that in a lot of places unfortunately confused
"perfect" people are boring though stare

neko-mata-01


_LastOneAlive_89

PostPosted: Sat Jul 30, 2011 3:27 pm


neko-mata-01
Legendary Misfortune
TyDaCat
Go with the flow. Love and be loved. Someone will enter your life eventually, no need to rush it and until that person does, Discover you.

Feels like a long time before thatt will happen...I am not saying it wont happen...its just...its freaking one sided at times...

They want freaking PERFECT! gonk


its like that in a lot of places unfortunately confused
"perfect" people are boring though stare

are they? i never met one lol

I guess all i can do is wait...it just feels like a long time because i broke up with my past BF two years ago..
PostPosted: Sat Jul 30, 2011 3:32 pm


Legendary Misfortune
neko-mata-01
Legendary Misfortune
TyDaCat
Go with the flow. Love and be loved. Someone will enter your life eventually, no need to rush it and until that person does, Discover you.

Feels like a long time before thatt will happen...I am not saying it wont happen...its just...its freaking one sided at times...

They want freaking PERFECT! gonk


its like that in a lot of places unfortunately confused
"perfect" people are boring though stare

are they? i never met one lol

I guess all i can do is wait...it just feels like a long time because i broke up with my past BF two years ago..


yeah people tend to like perfect people wherever i go (and i do move constantly)
by met one do you mean people that act perfect? if so yeah they tend to be boring imo

neko-mata-01


_LastOneAlive_89

PostPosted: Sat Jul 30, 2011 3:34 pm


neko-mata-01
Legendary Misfortune
neko-mata-01
Legendary Misfortune
TyDaCat
Go with the flow. Love and be loved. Someone will enter your life eventually, no need to rush it and until that person does, Discover you.

Feels like a long time before thatt will happen...I am not saying it wont happen...its just...its freaking one sided at times...

They want freaking PERFECT! gonk


its like that in a lot of places unfortunately confused
"perfect" people are boring though stare

are they? i never met one lol

I guess all i can do is wait...it just feels like a long time because i broke up with my past BF two years ago..


yeah people tend to like perfect people wherever i go (and i do move constantly)
by met one do you mean people that act perfect? if so yeah they tend to be boring imo

aha. My friend thinks i should act more flamboyant...... talk2hand

I like who i am. I aint gonna be some other person just to get guys or girls...although, i am getting to that point somewhat
PostPosted: Sat Jul 30, 2011 4:36 pm


Hm I've noticed that people irl look for perfect based on looks and stuff but meeting online lets you see someone's personality first. ^^

Plus I'd rather just have my best friend than date lol.

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neko-mata-01

PostPosted: Sat Jul 30, 2011 5:29 pm


Legendary Misfortune
neko-mata-01
Legendary Misfortune
neko-mata-01
Legendary Misfortune
TyDaCat
Go with the flow. Love and be loved. Someone will enter your life eventually, no need to rush it and until that person does, Discover you.

Feels like a long time before thatt will happen...I am not saying it wont happen...its just...its freaking one sided at times...

They want freaking PERFECT! gonk


its like that in a lot of places unfortunately confused
"perfect" people are boring though stare

are they? i never met one lol

I guess all i can do is wait...it just feels like a long time because i broke up with my past BF two years ago..


yeah people tend to like perfect people wherever i go (and i do move constantly)
by met one do you mean people that act perfect? if so yeah they tend to be boring imo

aha. My friend thinks i should act more flamboyant...... talk2hand

I like who i am. I aint gonna be some other person just to get guys or girls...although, i am getting to that point somewhat


lol. (personally i'm not attracted to flamboyant guys very much)
imo you should be yourself or ur just going to end up with someone who likes a fake personality confused
but its really up to you wink
PostPosted: Sun Jul 31, 2011 1:39 am


Well, to be perfectly honest, looks ARE a first impression, so if someone doesn't like the way someone else looks, they most likely won't approach them.


Secondly, I'm sure you'll find someone smile Just start talking to people, and I'm sure they'll see the beautiful person you are inside biggrin

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SadaKiyo


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PostPosted: Sun Jul 31, 2011 6:43 am


Legendary Misfortune
...except everyone in my area is into the freaking super good looking kind of guys and girls....>.>.....

And finding someone who likes you for who you are is pretty much out the window...around here at least...

Any tips? Has this happened to you before?
online dating is also a problem...I am not no one night stand kind of guy...>.>...

Just try and get to know people. When people crush on someone it generally isn't because of looks; People tend to find someone they care for a lot to be very attractive, where as other people will find it false. Or that is what I think. ^^
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