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 Posted: Tue Jul 26, 2011 2:56 pm
ok so i keep having this feeling that i'm a total weirdo. before you agree let me explain. (then you can agree)
a little over a year ago i explained to my boyfriend how i was attarcted to my bestfriend. She had explained to me how she was bi a long time before me and my boyfriend even met after that i developed a crush on her. when i told my boyfriend he said i should tell her and talk to her about it too.
Last christmas he proposed to me and i said yes infront of my family. he was still wanting me to tell my friend how i felt though.
About 5 months ago i broke down and told her. She had the same feelings for me. When i talked it over with my fiance he was ok with me dating her. What sucked was for a long time me and her didnt have much time to spend alone (and our families dont know me and her have a relationship like this)
Whats really the kicker is that the three of us came to a dicision where my fiancee and her are also dating- in a way. just when i'm there.
What i found halarious was when my aunt told me (without me saying anything about my situation) is that her my uncle and one of thier friends is in the same position. XD
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Posted: Tue Jul 26, 2011 3:01 pm
Polyamourous? I say lucky. Good for you.
I always believe there are more than one person for everyone out there. Sometime the person you have and the person you could have are each other's true as well. So good that it is working out so far~
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Posted: Tue Jul 26, 2011 3:18 pm
Damn girl, good on ya! I gotta say that whole situation is crazy luck. I didn't realize how much poly relationships there actually were until I started listening to Dan Savage's podcast haha.
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Posted: Tue Jul 26, 2011 6:46 pm
Roxy Hazard Damn girl, good on ya! I gotta say that whole situation is crazy luck. I didn't realize how much poly relationships there actually were until I started listening to Dan Savage's podcast haha. lol oh when you pay attention there are tons.
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Posted: Wed Jul 27, 2011 12:07 am
sad well that blew up in my face.
must have jinxed it when i posted this. ha. who am i kidding. this wouldnt have worked out anyway. not with the people i love. they are polar opposites that dont see how they are the same to me. crying
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Posted: Wed Jul 27, 2011 7:15 am
Not to rub salt on your wounds or anything, but it's hard enough to please one partner, never mind pleasing more than one, imo.
Just saying.
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Posted: Tue Aug 23, 2011 7:11 am
Triste Not to rub salt on your wounds or anything, but it's hard enough to please one partner, never mind pleasing more than one, imo. Just saying. no your right. Things got way more complicated than they needed to be. I'll be alright. the main ba part of the split is over now and things are back to normal.
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Posted: Wed Aug 24, 2011 7:53 am
well as long as every one in the relationship is okay with it then i would call you lucky
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Posted: Sat Sep 03, 2011 5:24 pm
You lucky? Not sure. I'm sure your fiance is just grinning the days away though razz
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Posted: Sat Sep 03, 2011 5:47 pm
Sorry to hear it didn't work out. I hope it has settled down by now.
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