frenso is like the year round play ground of california or something like that.
Personally I have a soft spot for their art and greek fest. (lol)
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they have pretty awesome art museam. Its the only one between two parts of the state.
You can tell them you want top culture your self.
Or you could give them a mental typo, forget to add 'girl' to your frind. Just say theresw a friend that you want to see that you've known for a while, mention that she's a girl and they'll feel more comfortable eltting you go. its not that your lying, your just not organizing your words in the correct order. >P