You are the apple...
So I've been friends with this girl since junior high. We dated our sophomore year of high school, but that only lasted through that year. We've still been friends even since then, and now we're going into our second year of college.
Through this time, we've fooled around on occasion, but its never really been anything serious (besides the time we dated, of course).
Last year, while she was kinda-sorta seeing a guy (it wasnt official at the time), she and i fooled around a couple times and I left a hickey a little too far up on her shoulder. The guy noticed it and has never trusted me since. The two of them officially got together shortly after this.
I've met the guy on a few occasions and think he's a really cool guy. Hes a music lover, can get along with most anybody, and is a total nerd. He even has a Mandalorian symbol tattooed on his arm with some other various Star Wars and LOTR symbols around it. So yeah, he's pretty awesome and seems to have no real trouble being around me.
However, when I talk to my friend, she's always saying how he doesnt trust me with her and how he really doesnt like her and i hanging out. Even she now doesnt really like being alone with me "given our past".
She and I were planning on having a Harry Potter movie marathon over a few days before we go to the midnight premiere of the last movie. I found out tonight that he's coming along. Now, I can usually fight through an awkward situation and still act cool, but with this, I know there's still going to be that underlying tension and I just hate the whole situation in general.
My question to you, Burn, is what should I do about this guy? I've thought about talking to him, but I have no idea what to say. I need help on how to deal with this whole thing, I dont want to lose one of my best friends just because her boyfriend gets really jealous and doesnt particularly like me....
TL;DR My friend and I have had a sexual past before and just before she got with her current boyfriend, we had a fling again. Boyfriend found out and doesnt trust me, even though I have no problem with him or them in general. What can I do to make future situations together less awkward and what can I say to him if I ever get to talk to him?
So I've been friends with this girl since junior high. We dated our sophomore year of high school, but that only lasted through that year. We've still been friends even since then, and now we're going into our second year of college.
Through this time, we've fooled around on occasion, but its never really been anything serious (besides the time we dated, of course).
Last year, while she was kinda-sorta seeing a guy (it wasnt official at the time), she and i fooled around a couple times and I left a hickey a little too far up on her shoulder. The guy noticed it and has never trusted me since. The two of them officially got together shortly after this.
I've met the guy on a few occasions and think he's a really cool guy. Hes a music lover, can get along with most anybody, and is a total nerd. He even has a Mandalorian symbol tattooed on his arm with some other various Star Wars and LOTR symbols around it. So yeah, he's pretty awesome and seems to have no real trouble being around me.
However, when I talk to my friend, she's always saying how he doesnt trust me with her and how he really doesnt like her and i hanging out. Even she now doesnt really like being alone with me "given our past".
She and I were planning on having a Harry Potter movie marathon over a few days before we go to the midnight premiere of the last movie. I found out tonight that he's coming along. Now, I can usually fight through an awkward situation and still act cool, but with this, I know there's still going to be that underlying tension and I just hate the whole situation in general.
My question to you, Burn, is what should I do about this guy? I've thought about talking to him, but I have no idea what to say. I need help on how to deal with this whole thing, I dont want to lose one of my best friends just because her boyfriend gets really jealous and doesnt particularly like me....
TL;DR My friend and I have had a sexual past before and just before she got with her current boyfriend, we had a fling again. Boyfriend found out and doesnt trust me, even though I have no problem with him or them in general. What can I do to make future situations together less awkward and what can I say to him if I ever get to talk to him?
and I am your core.
