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 Posted: Fri Apr 29, 2011 10:57 pm
So if you're dating someone that you know for sure isn't cheating on you but you go from doing everything but sex to nothing at all and not even sleeping in the same room, because "god said not to". how does that make sense and how can one address it?
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Posted: Sat Apr 30, 2011 6:43 am
I'd say talk to your partner about it honestly. If you've been together for awhile and you're more comfortable together, maybe you can be a little more blunt than if it were a new relationship. Either way, it's gotta be asked - such a sudden reversal is curious indeed.
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Posted: Sun May 01, 2011 9:54 pm
I brought it up and the reply was just that "if we had done what was right by HIM in the first place than it wouldn't be this way, and if I was closer to god this wouldn't matter" it just seems to be creating uneeded tension between us when originally we could talk about everything. maybe it's just me?
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Posted: Mon May 02, 2011 7:56 am
This is why religion stinks. It further limits your needs/wants than it needs to. I know people who'd rather die, than have someone's else organ transplanted or take a medicine that will cure them of a serious health risk... it's sad..
Off of my Anti-Religion..
It almost sounds like an excuse.. or some unforeseen fear or something along those lines.
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Posted: Mon May 02, 2011 11:20 am
that's what i thought but i asked about possible commitment issues and it just led to "if we work it's because HE wants it to, not my decision" which makes no sense when you have to commit to the relationship and Making it work..
confused
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Posted: Mon May 02, 2011 4:47 pm
Neil Dark Overlord that's what i thought but i asked about possible commitment issues and it just led to "if we work it's because HE wants it to, not my decision" which makes no sense when you have to commit to the relationship and Making it work.. confused
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Posted: Mon May 02, 2011 5:40 pm
I find it worrisome that it was so sudden. Are you sure there were no indications of something like this happening?
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Posted: Sun May 08, 2011 10:00 pm
no, warnings. just a random text to my phone while i was working about how "what we're doing is wrong and should never happen again". no offence to anyone but isn't it only a sin if you actaully SLEEP together or mess with someone else while you're with them?? I mean, if we've lived together and slept in the same bed for 5 months then all of the sudden "it's wrong". if something was going to happen it would of...i would leave but i have no where to go and i'd rather not reside in the same reisidence if we broke up..
i'm sooooo stressed because of this situation but i'm commited to working trough things.. cry
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Posted: Mon May 09, 2011 1:06 pm
Maybe you should start asking him if everything is alright? Because honestly it sounds like he is just using religion as an excuse to cover something. And no it isn't a sin to sleep next to anybody. confused
So yeah, just try to see if there's something bothering him or anything strange. Best of luck to you! heart
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Posted: Mon May 09, 2011 7:01 pm
chupacabra_nena Maybe you should start asking him if everything is alright? Because honestly it sounds like he is just using religion as an excuse to cover something. And no it isn't a sin to sleep next to anybody. confused So yeah, just try to see if there's something bothering him or anything strange. Best of luck to you! heart thanks, i'll try that tonight, hope it works and thing get straightened out sweatdrop
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Posted: Mon May 09, 2011 7:12 pm
I hope so too. heart
This must be a very frustrating and awkward situation for you. sweatdrop
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Posted: Wed May 11, 2011 9:34 pm
not so much on the awkward part but very frustrating..it actaully caused so much stress that i developed a stomach ulcer... crying sweatdrop
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