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BleedingInkXIII

PostPosted: Sun Apr 24, 2011 4:14 pm
Just something that I've been pondering:

Let's say a same sex couple adopts a child. Let's say they're both women. Would the kid them both "mom" or one be called "ma" or "mom 2" or what?

What would you call your same sex parents if you had two dads or two moms?
 
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"Mama (first name)"
 

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PostPosted: Sun Apr 24, 2011 4:38 pm
I have a friends like this. Except one is the birth mother of one girl, and the other woman is the birth mother of the other girl. They call their birth mom "Mom" and the partner by her first name. c:
 
PostPosted: Sun Apr 24, 2011 4:42 pm
Oh~! I read a baby book with something similar to this...(I was shopping for a friend of mine and stumbled across it.)

The book was called "Mommy, Momma, and Me". That's what I'd call my parents if they were both female. There was also one called "Daddy, Dada, and Me" <3


~L
 

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PostPosted: Sun Apr 24, 2011 4:46 pm
Here's a brain twister for you:

In a lot of states in the US, if someone changes gender (trans) and then said person can marry someone who is the same gender they are. The state cannot stop them legally.

Reason:

Many states do not reconize transgender people, so under the eyes of the state, the trans person is still considered their birth gender.  
PostPosted: Sun Apr 24, 2011 4:57 pm
Elton John and his husband David are making it so that Elton is called Dad, and David is called Papa  

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PostPosted: Sun Apr 24, 2011 5:19 pm
Id prefer First names actually, to formal for me talk2hand  
PostPosted: Sun Apr 24, 2011 5:53 pm
I was asking a kid I know who has lesbian mothers. He calls them both "mom" and admitted it could get confusing.

I'd probably use Mom, mommy or dad and daddy.  

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PostPosted: Sun Apr 24, 2011 5:59 pm
My ex-boyfriend has two moms. One is "mom", the other he called by her first name. A couple I know (two guys) who have a kid are "dad" and "papa".  
PostPosted: Sun Apr 24, 2011 8:51 pm
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Here's a brain twister for you:

In a lot of states in the US, if someone changes gender (trans) and then said person can marry someone who is the same gender they are. The state cannot stop them legally.

Reason:

Many states do not reconize transgender people, so under the eyes of the state, the trans person is still considered their birth gender.


Yay for loopholes! biggrin
 

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PostPosted: Sun Apr 24, 2011 8:53 pm
Thanks everyone who answered! :]
 
PostPosted: Mon Apr 25, 2011 1:31 pm
in the L word: "mama B" and "mama T"
in glee: "dad" and "daddy"

there are a lot of different possibilities. it could definitely get fun. :]
 

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PostPosted: Mon Apr 25, 2011 2:20 pm
mom, mother and dad, father  
PostPosted: Mon Apr 25, 2011 2:31 pm
On a more serious note, I think it's more like grandparents.

The parent just picks what they want to be called.  

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PostPosted: Mon Apr 25, 2011 3:30 pm
I'd call them both by their first name or Mother and mom or Father and dad depending on the parents.~  
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