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Gabrielle_AnimalLuver Crew
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 Posted: Thu Apr 14, 2011 6:08 pm
I dunno, lately I been thinking that I'm incapable of having a relationship. It's not because I haven't had a date in over a year. It's not because at 23 I haven't had a single long term relationship. I think about it because I'm just not interested in anyone. My friend's boyfriend keeps bugging me about this guy friend of mine. We have EVERYTHING in common, I spend more time with him than anyone else, he makes me laugh, but I'm just not into him in that way. And I say that I want guys to see me, but the second a guy hits on me, I get really freaked out, and want to like hide.
And in the rare event I am interested in a guy, I generally scare him off in record time.
I know I'm too picky, but, I can't change that about myself. At this point I'm just trying to get use to being single. And trying not to feel lonely. And mostly I don't, but some nights I really miss having someone
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Posted: Thu Apr 14, 2011 8:45 pm
I'm sure you'll find someone one day. Even if you don't, it's not like you need a man in your life to complete you (aside from cowboy of course xp ). But I wouldn't worry about it. You just haven't found the right person yet. And at 23 years old, you have plenty of time to find them.
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Posted: Sat Apr 16, 2011 8:19 pm
It will happen, 23 is not ancient. Most people don't find anyone worth being around until much later in life. Why waste your time if you're not interested in anyone? Eventually you will be, just like you have before.
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Posted: Sun Apr 17, 2011 6:49 am
There's a difference between not being relationship material and just not being internally ready. At 23, you have a long time to find your love. A lot of people don't find theirs until they're in their 30's and maybe 40's. Don't let that scare you. When you're ready, you'll find someone. Until then, snuggle Cowboy on those lonely nights and don't think about what could be and has been, but what YOU have done lately that proves yourself as great. Wether it be pass a test or guide Cowboy through an incredibly difficult routine, use it. Tell yourself what all those guys have missed out on. And don't forget- a fur baby is the best stress reliever in the world smile
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Posted: Tue Apr 26, 2011 5:15 am
i know this is an older topic since the last post was on the 17th
but why not give online dating a try? just a quick try and if you dont like it you never have to go to that website again or return any emails or phone calls
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Posted: Fri May 06, 2011 9:08 pm
i actually did not have a serious relationship myself until i was 23. i wasn't terribly interested in dating when i was a teenager, and at about the point i got in a serious relationship, i was becoming more comfortable with being single. i've heard you attract more people when you're confident, (i've heard it's when you're in a relationship, but i think it could apply if you're fine being single and not desperatly seeking someone, whether through your own devices or meddling matchmakers), because confidence is sexy, and if you're somehow desperate for a relationship to make others happy or you don't want to be alone, you turn people off. guess there really is 'a stink of desperation'
and about guys, most people are 'picky' as a detterent for staying away from guys they know are bad for them, and if you really don't like someone, or they don't like you, you'll find ANYTHING to avoid them, and when you truly liked someone, you'll reevaluate what you really want, and go from there
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