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 Posted: Mon Apr 11, 2011 3:37 pm
Long story short, fighting bothers me like especially physical violence. does any one have advice on how to cope with it?
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Posted: Mon Apr 11, 2011 3:47 pm
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Posted: Mon Apr 11, 2011 3:49 pm
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Posted: Mon Apr 11, 2011 3:55 pm
i don't think you can ever entirely avoid violence in a corrupt world like this. if you really are bothered by it, the only thing i can think of is ignore it. i don't think the violence will stop... ever, so it will be useless to try and put a total stop to it.
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Posted: Mon Apr 11, 2011 4:06 pm
Well what happned was I'm staying over at a friends house, and her bro got jealous cuz me and her bf were spending the night and he claimed that we didn't hang out with him when he had sat on the computer all day, then his dad went to go talk to him and he flips out and tried to punch him
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Posted: Mon Apr 11, 2011 4:08 pm
Is the physical act of fighting that scares you or its aftermath?
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Posted: Mon Apr 11, 2011 4:10 pm
The physical and then I suffer an aftermath like effect, like i get really sad an depressed just because it bothers me and it can last for a few hours
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Posted: Mon Apr 11, 2011 4:32 pm
gemo_2007 The physical and then I suffer an aftermath like effect I know I suffer an intimidation fear when something like this arises. Luckily I have been able to avoid anything physical. neutral Honestly, you shouldn't let these things bother you too much. Its just useless stress. Some confrontations are unavoidable and were bound to happen. People may/will get hurt but they will heal. Coping...Lets see...I guess it mostly depends on how close you were to the person you had the disagreement with. If its a stranger then it should be no problem. Someone whom you consider family...well that's a different story. In some cases, if you aren't wanting to burn any bridges, its a good idea to apologize, even if it isn't your fault. That will create a window for peace talks. Least from my experience.
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Posted: Mon Apr 11, 2011 4:36 pm
He apologized but if its gonna happen over and over I'm not accepting his apology but i won't stay mad for long i never do it's the depression that lasts
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Posted: Mon Apr 11, 2011 4:47 pm
Has it happened on more than one occasion?
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Posted: Mon Apr 11, 2011 4:50 pm
ya like last year only he flipped on his older brother and they kept trying to squish eachother inbetween a bedroom door.
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Posted: Mon Apr 11, 2011 4:51 pm
i'm not sure what to say, there are probably plenty of people who can't stand violence, i'm not really freaked out by it if its like fantasy, or when i have no choice but to fight, like if you have to to protect the people you love, but when it comes down to family fighting and stuff like that i don't like it hurts my head, and i just angry. but this is about you. just try to ignore it, take in a deep breath and remind yourself that everyone is different and that this is just a small storm that will pass over, and try to smile, cause one smile goes a long way.
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Posted: Mon Apr 11, 2011 4:55 pm
I tried to talk to him before but he just ignored me and ran off, and it hurts more to know that i was useless
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Posted: Sun Apr 17, 2011 5:05 pm
gemo_2007 Well what happned was I'm staying over at a friends house, and her bro got jealous cuz me and her bf were spending the night and he claimed that we didn't hang out with him when he had sat on the computer all day, then his dad went to go talk to him and he flips out and tried to punch him How old is the brother? And the brother tried punching the dad?
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Posted: Mon Apr 18, 2011 7:06 pm
I believe he is like 14 or 15 most likely 15 and yes he tried hitting his dad
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