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 Posted: Tue Mar 29, 2011 6:19 pm
I am a masochis, but i have the issue of i enjoy pain to the point that i might die before i ever use a safe word and need a way to learn control and no i dont have the cash for a therapist or psychologist before anyone says to go to a professional.
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Posted: Tue Mar 29, 2011 7:47 pm
I don't know what exactly you're trying to say, here.
Are you saying you have brutal sex?
Are you saying you cut yourself or harm yourself on purpose?
What are you getting at?
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Posted: Tue Mar 29, 2011 7:54 pm
I am meaning i have brutal sex and if i am not careful one of these times i am not going to stop the girl and i am going to die and it will be accidental, but i have also cut myself for pleasure but thats a whole other subject
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Posted: Tue Mar 29, 2011 7:58 pm
Best I can tell you is know the most dangerous parts of your body and both of you educate yourselves on the limits the body can take.
You may be a masochist, but guaranteed you're body isn't and it knows the limits.
If she can see when something is going too far and is willing to stop regardless of your opinion of it being to much or too little, then you have a 10% higher chance of not getting killed.
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Posted: Tue Mar 29, 2011 8:03 pm
I try to avoid the areas where the arteries are but i am afraid of accidents and i have different females so its hard to educate them all. My body also doesnt give the warning signs i can take all kinds of pain and all it is to me is pleasure
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Posted: Tue Mar 29, 2011 8:04 pm
Exactly like DOMOs kender child said, know your limits.
Try channeling your masochism on things considered less harmful to your body, like slapping your legs or something. And you can take up an extreme sport, or a sport where you can get roughed up, like Aggressive inline or skateboarding, soccer, anything. At least it will promote a healthier lifestyle.
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Posted: Tue Mar 29, 2011 8:20 pm
I try but cutting is my fav. I do cut back but i always revert and sports are bad for the simple fact of i feel weird getting enjoyment from other guys
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Posted: Wed Mar 30, 2011 2:13 am
neutral If may opinion mattered, I would say to stop entirely. But you derive pleasure out of this pain, and its such a great pleasure to you that you don't want to stop...which is why I'm at a loss.
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Posted: Wed Mar 30, 2011 6:19 am
majorspiker101 I try but cutting is my fav. I do cut back but i always revert and sports are bad for the simple fact of i feel weird getting enjoyment from other guys So you're just fine with being carved up like a Christmas goose, but receiving accidental (on their part) pleasure from someone that happens to be male is... What? Too weird for you? The narrow-mindedness (especially all things considered) that I perceive in this statement is really rather hindering my desire to help you, but I will say that you should probably stick more with bludgeoning. If you can avoid the torso, neck, and head, you should be alright, so long as you don't arm your partners with maces, flails, and such. The only thing that you really have to worry about with bludgeoning is not breaking any bones. Also, just a little bit of punctuation would make you a whole lot easier to understand. It doesn't take long and I'm not demanding perfect mastery of things like comma usage, but maybe try indicating the ends of sentences with periods. I'm sure that I'm not the only one who would appreciate it.
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Posted: Wed Mar 30, 2011 3:06 pm
majorspiker101 I try but cutting is my fav. I do cut back but i always revert and sports are bad for the simple fact of i feel weird getting enjoyment from other guys hehe. My only advice is to date a doctor or nurse or something who knows how to not kill you.
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Posted: Thu Mar 31, 2011 8:48 pm
Matasoga majorspiker101 I try but cutting is my fav. I do cut back but i always revert and sports are bad for the simple fact of i feel weird getting enjoyment from other guys So you're just fine with being carved up like a Christmas goose, but receiving accidental (on their part) pleasure from someone that happens to be male is... What? Too weird for you? The narrow-mindedness (especially all things considered) that I perceive in this statement is really rather hindering my desire to help you, but I will say that you should probably stick more with bludgeoning. If you can avoid the torso, neck, and head, you should be alright, so long as you don't arm your partners with maces, flails, and such. The only thing that you really have to worry about with bludgeoning is not breaking any bones. Also, just a little bit of punctuation would make you a whole lot easier to understand. It doesn't take long and I'm not demanding perfect mastery of things like comma usage, but maybe try indicating the ends of sentences with periods. I'm sure that I'm not the only one who would appreciate it. It isn't close mindedness. I have been in sports and it felt weird. I only enjoy a woman giving me pleasure, not men. i am open to almost anything once and men just aren't my thing. (happy i wasn't punctuating well cause i was in a hurry only had a little bit on the computer and when i rush i revert to text talk and don't punctuate well.)
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Posted: Fri Apr 01, 2011 8:52 am
There is plenty of ways to feel a lot of pain without endangering yourself. Possibly buy a whip from an adult store or something? I know a lot of people who like pain enjoy getting hit on their back, legs, chest, etc. I'm pretty sure that's safe, because it couldn't break skin enough to cause an excessive amount of bleeding.
But, you could always try to cut back. Your body will know when too much is too much, even if it doesn't show any signals. And, I don't really think that your partners would keep doing something long enough to kill you.
As for the self harm, try to find something other than cutting. Rubber bands can hurt. Try slapping yourself in sensitive areas( back of thighs, inner thighs, etc). Hot wax can hurt, as well as tugging at leg hairs and such. The wax thing only hurts a bit, and for a while, though, but it's safe. And, hair pulling, as long as you don't pull the hairs out, is good.
Jeez, this makes me sound like a sadist or something. :c
No, none of this information is from personal experience during sex or anything. gonk
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Posted: Fri Apr 01, 2011 2:18 pm
my wrists hurt just thinking about it.
i have no advice, just that it sounds kinky and to have fun and remember to reign urself every once in a while and dont get killed
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Posted: Mon Apr 04, 2011 3:07 am
Well, I guess if you don't have the money for a psychiatrist you wouldn't have the money for a professional dominatrix.
Which would have been my recommendation as they are professionals and know the limits.
The best thing is then, not just to know your limits, but for your partner to know your limits as well. Because in the heat of the moment you might not know to stop her/him. You need to only be with people who have good sense, good control, and knows when to stop.
If you dated a professional dom, that would work out really well for you. ~_^
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Posted: Mon Apr 04, 2011 3:10 pm
Thank you everyone. I am cutting back and trying to keep to only the non cutting types of harm still not as good, but i will learn in time.
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