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 Posted: Thu Mar 17, 2011 2:56 am
I dunno guys, whadda ya think? Does it even exist?
I always considered myself quite a believer in Love. But lately, I just feel like I have very little faith in it. It's literally been years, probably at least 5 or so, since I last actually used the words "I love you" in a relationship. It's probably only been like half a year since I last thought of saying those words again, but that's probably the first time I thought of doing so since last saying it. Yeah that's not vague at all, we all know who that is, I'm just trying to give the actual time-frame, ok?
Maybe I'm just disappointed that this kind of thing doesn't seem to come as easily as it seemed to when I was younger. Then again... none of that did ever last, obviously. And I guess that's what I get for learning about love from old 60's songs... That tends to be a hard love to find.
I just wanna find that love that lasts. I dunno if love can be, or is a permanent thing, but I wanna find one that will at least last a good while.
I'm sorry dudes I dunno what the ******** I'm talking about, I'm high, it's late/early, I'm tired... just had to unload a bit lol
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Posted: Thu Mar 17, 2011 6:28 pm
I obviously can't say where you can find it, since it's different for all of us, but I hope you do some day, so you can feel how it is to you NOW. sad
Good luck man, you're a great looking guy with a chill personality -- you have nothing to worry about.
It'll happen when the right moment hits!
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Posted: Thu Mar 17, 2011 7:49 pm
To believe in love doesn't mean that it has to have expectations, but that you feel it and never expect it to hit you when it chooses to. We find love where we are most vulnerable and where we don't expect it. I'm rather positive it will come to you.
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Posted: Fri Mar 18, 2011 1:53 am
Thanks ladies 3nodding
Yeah I've just been in a major slump lately, plus I think my bio-clock has been ticking a bit lately. Thanks for the kind words, I really do appreciate it biggrin
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Posted: Tue Mar 22, 2011 1:20 pm
I didn't think I would ever experience it, ever.
I mean I feel like it could be categorized almost,
Where you're with someone for awhile and you learn / fall in love slowly
Versus you meet someone, and you just know right away, yep they're the one.
Before Jeremy I was never in a relationship that last long enough to get into the I love yous.
I dunno I think it all really depends.
Also totes back in the day when I would be whiny like I WILL NEVER GET A BF NO ONE WILL LIKE ME
Once I let that go well then I had a line up of 10 boyfriends in my life after that >>
It'll happen, dude.
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Posted: Wed Mar 23, 2011 11:45 am
Pretty much what everyone said. You're not going to expect it at all either. I loved a couple people I dated, but not like Anjel. I knew right away, like Raven said. He's the first person I've ever been in love with, etc. Don't worry. just wait. It will come to you. C:
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Posted: Thu Jun 09, 2011 9:05 am
I knew right away the first time I met Cait. I mean, I knew I loved her a couple months before that, but when I actually met her, I knew there was something intense there.
Same with my ex sorta. The difference is when I first met Erin, I didn't know her at all. I just saw her and felt this weird connection/attraction, and it never went away.
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Posted: Thu Jun 09, 2011 2:21 pm
Love is hard to define in the first place. No two people will necessarily agree on what love genuinely constitutes. If we are speaking of a romantic love, of attachment to a significant other, then yeah, I believe that exists. I've felt it multiple times. I suppose that if I had an ultimate goal by the end of my life, it would be to have someone that I felt real romantic feelings for share the same thing with me. That's pretty much what I would consider my Happily Ever After situation.
Though I would say that having feelings for another can be bad, if they don't return them or you don't like that person. I recall as a younger kid in junior high having this crush on a specific girl. My heart would skip a beat whenever she was around, you know, all that fun stuff. But I hated her as a person. She was stuck up, juvenile, stupid, and all manner of other negative things. But for some reason, I really liked her. Biological attraction can outweigh personal attraction sometimes, I guess.
Everyone else I've ever felt any feelings for, however, were people that I genuinely admired in terms of personality. I suppose being older, I feel like I'm more attracted to someone based upon their behavioral quirks and little individual eccentricities than just a simple biological reaction. But I suppose that's debatable.
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Posted: Sun Jun 19, 2011 4:12 am
It refers to something that was experienced by the people who call it that. If you choose to define it in some way outside of what you have experienced then what you call love might not exist.
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