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 Posted: Tue Mar 08, 2011 6:22 pm
My boyfriend and I were having unprotected sex 3 nights ago (this week is the most likely week for me to get pregnant.) We were going pretty...intensely (sorry for TMI. heh. sweatdrop ) and he said during so that he thought he "busted" but I was really into it xD and told him not to stop, so we continued, and afterward said he didnt know if he came, precame or if it was me, but he just felt fluid. Is it possible for him to not know? I mean we've been going out 4 years so I'm pretty sure if he actually knew he would tell me, it just sounded wierd that that he said he didnt know.
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Posted: Tue Mar 08, 2011 7:22 pm
Yes, it's possible. A person might have an orgasm that's so weak that they're not entirely sure it happened or they might ejaculate without having an orgasm.
If you're not trying to get pregnant, you should be using at least one reliable form of birth control. The pull out method is not considered reliable.
If you are trying to get pregnant, make sure you are taking your prenatal vitamins, eating right, and seeing an ob-gyn.
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Posted: Tue Mar 08, 2011 7:46 pm
We're not trying. Hes not ready, but I want a baby. I'm only 20 but I had a miscarriage when I was 17 with the same boyfriend and ever since I've wanted a baby. If I'm pregnant, I won't be upset. I'd be ecstatic. My boyfriend, on the other hand...not so much. lol.
I'm supposed to be on bc but my insurance got messed up this month and we've been using the pull out method for 2 years now. (bad,i know)
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Posted: Tue Mar 08, 2011 8:54 pm
Wanting a baby and actually being ready to care for a child are two very different things. If you're not fully ready to provide for a child, then rushing into motherhood would be selfish. It would be more about what you want rather than about what's best for your child. Not to mention that if you already know your boyfriend isn't ready, it really wouldn't be fair to try to push fatherhood on him.
So you need to get a real form of birth control. You can get free or low cost birth control at clinics like Family Planning or Planned Parenthood, and you can get condoms at many stores (don't forget, if you can't afford condoms, then you probably can't afford a baby). So lack of insurance or insurance glitches are no excuse for having unprotected sex. And if for some reason you can't get to the clinic or to the store, you shouldn't be having sex. I know it can be hard to say no sometimes, but that's part of what makes sex such a big responsibility. You have to be safe about it or not have it all. If you can't control yourself at all, then you're not ready for sex to begin with.
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Posted: Wed Mar 09, 2011 8:22 am
Yeah, I have a neice and stuff because, the whole pull out crap and stuff. My brother and his girlfriend were and still pretty much druggies. They both went to prison to like 2 months after she was born and came back two years later in august. I know you two probably aren't as stupid as them, but, my point is they weren't ready nor had no were near a ability to support her and still don't. Currently my mother and I take care her. Since, my dad works like 24/7 <_< and my brother and his ex wife now are just trash.
Taking care of a kid means no more life. You will have no life, you are the babies b***h 24/7. Ridiculous way to put it but, 100% true. Lorien pretty much said it all though.
Just adding another point of view, less professional one but, pretty straight forward. Also, it will cause a huge hole in your relationship if he isn't ready. He will avoid you and will get in fights with you from the stress. Even if he is a Saint you can not take care of a kid and be able to maintain a relationship with someone who was not ready. I mean if it's too late though guess you gotta hope to god it will work out and he is going to have to get a job that can support a family.
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Posted: Wed Mar 09, 2011 1:43 pm
Everyone else has already beat the pullout method-dead horse, so I won't go over that again.
Re: the possible lack of an orgasm, I would think it's possible for him to be mistaken. Women can be mistaken, so I don't see why men can't either. Maybe it was just a really weak orgasm? Maybe you had more vaginal lubrication than usual and it built up to the point where it felt like fluid?
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