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 Posted: Thu Mar 03, 2011 5:25 pm
So at lunch yesterday, I put a note in the pocket of the guy I have a crush on saying "I just wanted to let you know: I have a crush on you Dakota (his name). That's all I wanted to say. ~Riley". Today at lunch, he just walked up to me, smiling saying "Thanks for telling me" and walked away. Of course I hid my immediate sadness and smiled and said "Yeah (:"
He's more of a quiet and shy guy. I don't think he's ever dated anyone either.
Today was just awkward after that...
What does this mean!? I'm not good with guy language >.>
EDIT: So I gave him a note asking if he liked me back, and if he didn't that I understood, and I put my number into it... And he acted like nothing happened... He just ignored it and went on with the conversation, and when he walked away, I don't think he looked at it even though he knew it was there...
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Posted: Thu Mar 03, 2011 5:30 pm
sweatdrop Shy guy, ok here's what you do. Say "******** it" to tradition and ask him out end of story. If you think he likes you too he can't say "no"
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Posted: Thu Mar 03, 2011 5:33 pm
tina138 sweatdrop Shy guy, ok here's what you do. Say "******** it" to tradition and ask him out end of story. If you think he likes you too he can't say "no" I dunno. I kind of do that for every other guy I've dated and I'm tired of it >.> cause they turn out to be wimps that can't do anything.
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Posted: Thu Mar 03, 2011 5:37 pm
Purple Flavered Neon tina138 sweatdrop Shy guy, ok here's what you do. Say "******** it" to tradition and ask him out end of story. If you think he likes you too he can't say "no" I dunno. I kind of do that for every other guy I've dated and I'm tired of it >.> cause they turn out to be wimps that can't do anything. Good point. That brightens a new subject in that area for me. sweatdrop Ok, well I'm out of ideas for the moment. rolleyes Kids these days lol. Well my last attempt at a relationship was about two years ago. So I'm pretty much fulfilling my hobby of derailing threads. 3nodding But I do hope this guy grows a pair of gonads and turns out to be a decent man.
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Posted: Thu Mar 03, 2011 5:43 pm
You could always ask him how he feels? Why are people so afraid of communication? It makes no sense to me. If you want to know if he likes you, ask him. The worst he can say is no, and I promise, though it may sting at first, life will still go on. 3nodding At least then you can know if your feelings are mutual or not.
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Posted: Thu Mar 03, 2011 5:45 pm
Fushigi na Butterfly You could always ask him how he feels? Why are people so afraid of communication? It makes no sense to me. If you want to know if he likes you, ask him. The worst he can say is no, and I promise, though it may sting at first, life will still go on. 3nodding At least then you can know if your feelings are mutual or not. Just walk up to him and ask? In front of everyone?... >.>;;
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Posted: Thu Mar 03, 2011 5:47 pm
I think he might like you but be too shy to do anything about it. 3nodding
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Posted: Thu Mar 03, 2011 5:47 pm
Purple Flavered Neon Fushigi na Butterfly You could always ask him how he feels? Why are people so afraid of communication? It makes no sense to me. If you want to know if he likes you, ask him. The worst he can say is no, and I promise, though it may sting at first, life will still go on. 3nodding At least then you can know if your feelings are mutual or not. Just walk up to him and ask? In front of everyone?... >.>;;
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Posted: Thu Mar 03, 2011 5:48 pm
Fushigi na Butterfly Purple Flavered Neon Fushigi na Butterfly You could always ask him how he feels? Why are people so afraid of communication? It makes no sense to me. If you want to know if he likes you, ask him. The worst he can say is no, and I promise, though it may sting at first, life will still go on. 3nodding At least then you can know if your feelings are mutual or not. Just walk up to him and ask? In front of everyone?... >.>;; I think I'll write another note. ^_^
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Posted: Thu Mar 03, 2011 6:00 pm
You've my opinion already but I wish you luck with him. biggrin
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Posted: Thu Mar 03, 2011 6:55 pm
The fact that he said, "thanks for telling me," kind of makes it sound like he's not interested. But if he really wasn't interested, it seems like he wouldn't bother saying anything at all. So that is a bit confusing!
But the only way to know for sure whether he's interested or not is by asking him. Anything else will just be a guess. I'd probably recommend asking in person or over the phone. But if you'd really rather write a note, at least say something more than just "Do you like me?" Because that would just make you sound like you're 10 years old or something. Instead maybe you could give him your number or ask him if he wants to hang out sometime.
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Posted: Sat Mar 05, 2011 1:09 am
Saying 'thanks for letting me know.' means that he's interested. Why else? If he wasn't he'd make an a** of himself to not look (avoid eye to eye contact) at you or talk to you.
You threw in the line. He's nibbling at the bait.
Show your flare and don't be afraid to walk right up to him and just talk about something petty. (like the how you like how tall tree's are or how you lost a pair of shoes in ninth grade and you have a great longing to find them even though the wouldn't fit. Just talking.)
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Posted: Sat Mar 05, 2011 7:10 am
edited the first post to get more of the story so you guys can help me out ^^
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Posted: Sat Mar 05, 2011 9:51 am
When you say he didn't look at it what do you mean exactly? Did you actually hand it to him and he didn't open it right then? Or was it just sitting there with his name on it and he ignored it? Did he take the note with him? Or did he browse through it, seem uninterested, and leave it behind?
If it was just sitting there, it's possible that he was waiting for you to give it to him rather than just grabbing it off your desk.
If he took the note with him, it's possible he'll call you later. Maybe he was just too shy to read it thoroughly and talk about it face to face.
But if he browsed through it and left it behind, then I would say he does not sound interested. It's possible that he's trying to sort of ignore it, hoping that you'll get the hint and stop bringing it up so that things don't get awkward and you two can still be friends.
So if the note was just sitting there with his name on it and he didn't pick it up, you can try actually giving it to him. If he took the note with him, you can wait a day or two and see if he calls. If he read the note but did not take it, I'd say he's probably not interested and wants you to stop bringing it up.
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Posted: Sat Mar 05, 2011 10:14 am
LorienLlewellyn When you say he didn't look at it what do you mean exactly? Did you actually hand it to him and he didn't open it right then? Or was it just sitting there with his name on it and he ignored it? Did he take the note with him? Or did he browse through it, seem uninterested, and leave it behind? If it was just sitting there, it's possible that he was waiting for you to give it to him rather than just grabbing it off your desk. If he took the note with him, it's possible he'll call you later. Maybe he was just too shy to read it thoroughly and talk about it face to face. But if he browsed through it and left it behind, then I would say he does not sound interested. It's possible that he's trying to sort of ignore it, hoping that you'll get the hint and stop bringing it up so that things don't get awkward and you two can still be friends. So if the note was just sitting there with his name on it and he didn't pick it up, you can try actually giving it to him. If he took the note with him, you can wait a day or two and see if he calls. If he read the note but did not take it, I'd say he's probably not interested and wants you to stop bringing it up. I had my friend put it in his pocket (it was lunch time) and everyone was like "Dude there's something in your pocket" and he pulled it out, I don't think he opened it, and then put it back in his pocket. And I still haven't gotten a text or a call >.>
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