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evilperson123

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Posted: Sat Feb 26, 2011 1:05 am

How would you ask out a girl you've known for a while and you've gotten comfortable with. She's on my mom's soccer team, but she goes to a different school than I do. Last year I played soccer with her on the jv team at the same school she still attends, my mom was just a teacher then. I only see her at soccer games now, but I have yet to be able to arrive soon enough to watch one of her games because I can't drive and she plays before the boys team.(which my mom is the head coach of, we come to watch most the boys games but not the girls because she doesn't do as much with them) How should I ask her to be my gf?

Posted: Sat Feb 26, 2011 1:15 am

I think the first thing you should do is talk to you're mother and tell her you want to watch the girl's games and ask if she will take you earlier. You should ease into her life again by being supportive and outwardly friendly. Get to actually talking to her more regularly then just see how things play out. If they bode well....then ask here a hypothetical question "what do you think would happen if we were a couple?" or more boldly "what would you say if I asked you out?"

But who am I to give advice being the 'un-dateable' according to so many...I stopped trying to be bold myself.... Hope it works for you.....

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evilperson123

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Posted: Sat Feb 26, 2011 1:16 am

haha, thx anyone have anymore advice?

Posted: Sat Feb 26, 2011 2:15 am

Sink your teeth into forever...

I agree with Dolphina.
But another thing you can do is ask her if she wants to hang out sometime. If so, then pretend it's a friendship date. see how that goes. then eventually you can ask her "Would you like to go on a date with me?" or something.. 3nodding

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Posted: Sat Feb 26, 2011 1:21 pm

You are the apple...

I agree with both of them. However, id substitute Dolphina's "hypothetical question" situation, with Kase's "hanging out" idea. Hypotheticals rarely end well in my experience, simply because if you ask about such a thing hypothetically, the other person will be suspicious of its validity.

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