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So my friend is a douche.

YA I've been friends with him since 5th grade and I've known him since 3rd. I feel like I know everything about him and we really are good friends. We even dated for awhile last year and it didn't effect us at all. I don't know What the hell is up with him but he totally turned into a perv this year. I don't know why but when all the other guys started becoming idiots, he didn't and kinda stayed as my normal friend. But this year, he caught up to them and is dating my best friend. I really don't care that hes dating my friend. I helped him achive it. But all of a sudden hes such a douche and wants only to get in her pants. I find this a major problem because she is so conservative. She has never had a missing assignment, never sweared, never been scolded by a teacher except for writing too long of an answer. She doesn't have a clue that hes a pervert because she has never dated before and thinks its normal. Hes just going too far. They have been dating for only 2 weeks which I find even more disgusting. Not only has that been his longest relationship ever, but this is also the 7th girl hes dated this year alone. I feel like I dont even know him anymore. I am actually an expert at human behavior because of the medical books I read when I am bored, but I've never EVER seen the normal change that all guys go through come so quick to him. It's wierd and unnerving for me. Don't say its normal. I pay attention to peoples behaviors and I know. The problem is I DONT know what to do. This time I want your input. Help?

So my friend and are dating now and It's not really that awkward. My other friend (Calling her L) says that it might not be awkward for me but it will be really awkward for him. Now "him" (Calling him M) and I have been friends since 5th grade. Weve had this little group of the four of us, 2 of which were having issues as stated in the last post. So they then started pressuring us to date saying we wer perfect for each other andthat crap. They layed off in January and we started dating in the middle of March. Now M hasnt texted me in 2 weeks and when I try to talk to him about stuff he always changes the topic. I really like him and this is an issue for me. Also, I asked my friends to keep it a secret because I didn't want to be in the center of the latest gossip and now M threatens to tell people whenever I wont tell him anything. As I said I really do like him and dont want to hurt our relationship as friends but at the same time I need to break up with him after a week because he doesnt respect me enough. I cant stand to hurt his feelings but I need to break up with him. Is there anyway I can talk to him without breaking up with him? Again I REALLY dont want to break up with him.