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If you are trying to say that you are watching pornography for a learning tool I would highly suggest trying to find another way of going about it. Pornography is usualy an over done film used to excite people by doing things that are usually taboo or too wild for the usual couple. If you are trying to get tips from this you may overwhelm your partner with over the top sexual acts shown in pornographic films. Although this is only my oppinion of pornography and its effect on the views of sex. Maybe you could pick up a book or research on the net for a guide to sex.

Hopefuly I did not misread your post and just left you with useless information. biggrin

You have to remember that the first time will usually be disappointing. Not becuase you or anyone else is less than a man or a woman or whatever you may think. No. You learn from experience.

Someone else asked what sex entails. Basically, the p***s is to be inserted into the v****a. If you don't know where that is, ask your partner. If you're uncomfortable, I can try and help you explain.

Don't worry about doing everything at once. Keep it simple the first time. If you're nervous, talk to your partner - communication is the key. If she's new to it as well, then maybe you guys need to do some homework. There are sites on the net (I will find some if you PM me) and there are also books.

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NO NO NO HAHAHA HARDLY!....haha o that was good.......no you misunderstand me miss, i know well enough about sex and what is entailed on the internet and magazines; my friends trya nd get me to look at the stuff, not because im bi or gay or anythign , its simply because i don't like to look at it, i guess you could call me something of a feminist...but a contradictory one at that. because as much as i feel as though it discriminates agaisnt women and how it demeans the nature of ..that ....event, and feeling that WERE once supposed to go with it, i still find that i really cant say much because womens rights say they have freedom to do what ever job they please... so yeah..

but no i don't use pornography as any sort of resource. i insure you.







i think that could be a possibility...now all thats lkeft to do is get it past the bloody rents with out them finding it, and grounding me for enternity.






yeah thats one thign as well, another reason i dont seem to want to and still do , is because no matter where i am i never NEVER feel safe. not even in my own chambers. i'm very ...how shoudl i say this...life paranoid i guess you could say..i don't take lightly to people and my body (* stare shows how much i got beat up as a kid..funny huh stare *) i just, ...uh..how do i say this..........
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.......i guess you could say, i don't really like being around people that close to me, and getting intimate, even if we're in a room and the door and windows are locked(by conwincidence of couse and yes i knwo its spelled wrong). i just never feel safe...its just a natural thing for me.......another large thing...kinda big factor why i was left out of the dating spree in ounger years was because i was about the shyest litle boy you coudl fidn when it came to girl..that changed a bit over the years, but i still am very shy so i guess that could be why i feel confused......