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Let's see... There's like 4 people involved here. (no last names will be given)

1 Mary
2 Todd
3 Alisha
4 Me

Now for a little description:

1 Mary: Im crazy about her... The way she looks at me, the things she says... just everything about her... (She Likes me too biggrin )

2 Todd: Hes got to be the laziest a** I know cuz without me he woulda failed 100 times over! 40% average in "IB"

3 Alisha: She's Mary's "Girlfriend" ATM... She hates me cuz a few months ago at a dance she danced with me (slow) then later claimed that I tried to dirty dance with her

4 Me: Other than Mary, Music is my life... But I do great in school too (85% average and I'm in International Bacceleaureate (Can't Spell) or "IB")


Well to sum it up:

Todd Likes Mary
I like Mary
Alisha Likes Mary
Mary likes Me alot and Alisha, not so much (lucky Mary eh!)

Mary hates Todd cuz she hates possessive guys and Todd said he was the "AlphaMale", that and other things he's done that I'm not getting into. I swear I'm gunna punch him in the face for it... She doesn't wanna break up with Alisha cuz she doesn't want to hurt her... But she REALLY wants to go out with me...

2 things:

1 How to I keep from killing Todd?
2 What do I tell Mary?

Uh lol... you've got a pretty simple situation there. Mary doesn't like Todd, so no competition there. Alisha is a girl so the chances of her getting with Mary is slim to none (when we take how Mary feels for her into account). And between you and her.. the feelings are mutual.

All things considered, you'll just need to tell Mary what you feel and take it from there. When you and Mary get together, Todd will burn and die with jealousy. twisted

If possible, you might want to put some distance between yourself and Todd. Otherwise you might want to confront him about the issues you have with him.

As for Mary, in truth it is her decision to make. If she comes to you seeking advice on the matter or seems distraunt/upset, you will need to be honest with her and remember the following.

1. A relationship cannot be a happy one if based on false pretenses, if the heart does not linger with the person that the relationship is with it is as good as over.

2. To have feelings for more than one person can be devestating not only to the person who feels them for more than one person but both parties of which the feelings are felt toward.

3. In the long run...someone will get hurt.

However, I do not recommend you tell Mary that she should end her relationship with her GF, for that is a decision she alone can make.

If Mary hates Todd, then you have no problems. Free will, man, free will.

If she likes you a lot, then obviously go for it.

To stop from killing Tod just try to not spend as much time with him. If you're not around him you won't want to kill him as much.

As for Mary, just talk to her and let her know how you feel and let her decide. She has to follow her heart for herself. Noone else can make that decision for her.

go for it. if you both really like eachother then you shouldn't just sit back and watch someone else take your dream away. if you don't u may regret it later and that'll just suck

good luck heart