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PostPosted: Sat Feb 12, 2011 1:29 am


This isn't even really about me. It's my friend, and I know she'd kill me if she ever found out about me posting here.

She is one of the smartest, prettiest, funniest, most amazing all around people I've ever met.
And she hates herself.

I've tried to talk her through things. Every day there's something knew. She cuts herself, attempted suicide, won't tell anyone what's wrong if she's upset. Her mom & I have tried to have her talk to a guidance counselor, get some help. And she just won't. She can't get over little things, and she knows. She says she doesn't want to be sad, but she won't try to get help or do anything. She makes herself feel worthless. She sends nude pictures to boys even if she doesn't want to. She lets them do things with her. Not sex, but, you know. I just want her to be happy, and love herself. But I can't do anything. I've tried, I stress so much everyday worrying about her. This isn't just hurting her anymore, it's her friends, her family. I just don't know what to do..
PostPosted: Sat Feb 12, 2011 10:25 am


This is something only she understands, I'd imagine.
She probably feels that way for a reason and this isn't something just anyone can give advice about because she's at the point where she is so far gone, she'd need a real life changing event to bring her out of this.

Best thing I can say is love her, not as a lover but you know. sweatdrop

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PostPosted: Sat Feb 12, 2011 10:43 am


User Image i think you should just keep encouraging her by telling her good things. User Image
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