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 Posted: Sat Jan 29, 2011 7:12 am
It's become so pathetic, ladies...
I'm not sure if any of you remember a post I made awhile back about a few
of my friends being bullies and I wasn't sure what to do anymore. Well
anyway, I left that group and I've moved on and made new friends. But these
8 girls that I left have just not been able to grow up and act mature about it,
instead they are trying to ruin my life. D: Constantly sending pathetic messages
to me, calling me names when they walk past, spreading rumors about me.
It's got to the point where I just can't handle it anymore. That's why I've
barely been online lately. I'm just trying so hard to deal with everything and
still try get use to being a senior at school. Sigh. Sorry for letting you
down girls, I'm really trying. <3
Will always love you. [:
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Posted: Sat Jan 29, 2011 7:33 am
Sorry to hear about this hun!
*hugs*
When I was in high school, I had basically the same issue.
I just ignored everything. Knowing I had nothing to prove to these people.
And knowing that everything they said about me wasn't true.
True friends know the real you, and if they care about you,
they'll ignore it too.
I truly hope things get better. Have you considered talking
to a school councilor about it? Most schools have a zero tolerance for bullying.
Of any kind, physical, verbal, even online.
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Posted: Sat Jan 29, 2011 9:41 am
It doesn't really get to me, you know? So I'm leaving the
school out of it for now. My parents have already spoken to one of the
girls parents which caused even more drama, so I think taking it to the
school will just make them hate me more and make my life even more
hell. Although, if they say one more thing to me or crack at me, my
parents will take it to the school and end it once and for all.
But you see, the funny thing is that that whole group thinks that
they are popular, when in actual fact, they aren't. [: They are just the
scary bullies of the school. Can't believe I was ever part of it. D:
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Posted: Sat Jan 29, 2011 9:53 am
Insecurities will often make people do things like that, bullying and such.
Just gotta be tough and never let it get to you. :]
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Posted: Sat Jan 29, 2011 10:18 am
Ugh... I'm sorry >.<
I hope everything works out 3nodding
And if it doesn't I'll come down there and make it work twisted jk jk xD
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Posted: Sat Jan 29, 2011 1:59 pm
That sounds like a pain to deal with :[
I hope they stop acting like idiots & that things get better for you!
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Posted: Sat Jan 29, 2011 2:44 pm
Take all the time you need to sort things out, Roxy :]
We'll always be here for you. Hope everything works out <3
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Posted: Sun Jan 30, 2011 12:56 am
Wow, I thought seniors were more mature than that. wink But you know what? Its just high school, and its almost over. Once you graduate you might never even see them again. None of this stuff will matter in 10 years, maybe even 2 years. Stick it out till the end, and remember you always have other great friends to help you through it. Delete them from your facebook, dont read their emails, and focus on enjoying the last year till college (:
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Posted: Sun Jan 30, 2011 1:20 pm
Eh don't worry about it. As soon as your senior year is over you'll most likely never see those people again. You'll rarely think of them, they'll go out into the real world and get a rude awakening about what it's really like out there and you'll go on and be a better person for it.
If you're having major issues with them, try asking some of your other friends to help you, back you up. Quell those false rumors, but if they do start to threaten you I suggest you to go to a teacher or counselor you trust.
If not just ignore them, they're idiots anyways, they'll learn that the hard way soon.
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Posted: Sun Jan 30, 2011 4:56 pm
Okay, this may be manly of me to say, but when someone really irritates me, i just grab the 2x4 outta the back of my truck and go b***h huntin.
Or if worse comes to worse, write things about them in the bathroom stalls that are either true, or not true but every girl in the school would be totally okay with talking about wink
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Posted: Sun Jan 30, 2011 5:03 pm
 Want me to kick them with my Stilettos? J/K If they wont leave you alone... And since they are spreading rumors and junk... Why don't you tell the principle or a campus cop? I had a similar issue when I was a freshman. Those girls would stop at nothing, but what did make them stop was me going to the principle with my mother and telling them I WILL press charges if the bull s**t doesn't stop. I never had another problem with them after that.
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Posted: Mon Jan 31, 2011 1:15 pm
aw im sorry just think ur senior so u will be going to college and wont have to deal w them anymore
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Posted: Mon Jan 31, 2011 1:54 pm
Screw them! Whenever anyone called me names or anything, I'd just smile, say thank you, and keeping walking. Let them know it doesn't bother you. Be like, "Thanks, may I have another?"
If worse comes to worse, beat the hell outta them >D
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Posted: Tue Feb 01, 2011 8:59 pm
Delegara Okay, this may be manly of me to say, but when someone really irritates me, i just grab the 2x4 outta the back of my truck and go b***h huntin. Or if worse comes to worse, write things about them in the bathroom stalls that are either true, or not true but every girl in the school would be totally okay with talking about wink But stooping to their level never proves anything. It just adds fuel to their fire. Then, the bullies realize they're getting to you, making it worse. The longer I am out of school, the more I realize that kids are vicious creatures and sadly, a lot don't seem to grow out of it. Like another poster said, they'll make it out into the real world and get a rude awakening.
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Posted: Wed Feb 02, 2011 11:28 am
It's sad how people are so insecure about themselves as to pick on others.
As long as it doesn't get you down, it will be fine. Just have the most fun you
can before you graduate!
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