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Colorful Shadows Vice Captain
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 Posted: Wed Jan 19, 2011 5:59 pm
There's this jackass in my school, aka, the "bully". I know, I know, if you want a bully to leave you alone, stand up to it or ignore it. I've tried all of these things. First of all, my name isn't my birth name to him. My name's b***h, and sometimes a**. He says it's a crime for me to be on, and God would be happy if I left this earth and went to Hell. He also calls me a lesbian when I'm around my friends, and believe me, I'm perfectly and happily straight. Another thing he does is tell me I suck at everything and he thinks I should be home schooled. xP. I need some help, the teachers won't do anything about him.
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Posted: Thu Jan 20, 2011 4:08 am
I really feel sorry for your story, guys like those are the real losers, Does he have any friends? And does he bully other people too? Well first thing to know is that revenge is not the answer, even if he really deserves and it may help. I'm not really a Guidance counselor-like person, but You can ask your School's Guidance counselor. You can also talk your Parents about it or ask your friends. But If none of these can help you, You can just probably ignore him. I used to get bullied bullied a lot, but most of them hardly bully me now, well maybe cuz they matured. And also don't make this problem make you depressed.
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Posted: Thu Jan 20, 2011 12:16 pm
He's a GUY bullying a GIRL?! Wow that's mean.....
Sorry Idk how much help I can give as I've never been bullied like you are. You said that teachers aren't doing anything? What have you said to them? Travelguy's right, there should be school counselors available at any time for advice. Do your friends ever stand up for you? I was getting teased about by a guy at school in gr. 7, but soon enough my friends started backing me up and when he said something to any of us we made jokes about his comments back and eventually me and him became a sort of friends! Ignoring them doesn't always work, but DON'T give them the reaction they want. From what I've seen that's almost always what bullies are looking for. A clever retort can be a good idea if you've got a friend nearby to back you up. Hanging out in more public places with friends is good for avoiding a conflict.
I really hope this gets better for you, I know what it's like to get teased, but I also know what it's like for the observers. Don't worry about what he says though, it's not true and likely he's just feeling bad himself and wants to make you feel worse.
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Posted: Fri Jan 21, 2011 12:38 pm
@Travel- Yeah, he has friends, his little accomplices @_@. He bullies my other good friend, too.
@Viper- Mmmhm. My friend stood up for me once, and he backfired back. He's not really mean to one of my three friends, but to the rest of us, he's just plain annoying.
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Colorful Shadows Vice Captain
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Posted: Sat Jan 22, 2011 7:47 pm
Does he tease you like he's happy about it or does he tell you in a serious way?
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Posted: Sat Jan 22, 2011 7:50 pm
Well in my living in school, no one really messes with me. But I do have red hair, so I get teased by new kids trying to be funny. Usually, this problem goes away after administering a counter-troll at the bully. Example for you:
Bully: Hey Lesbian.
You: Wazzup Fagget.
Or
Bully: You suck at life.
You: You suck d**k.
You see where I'm going with this?
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Posted: Fri Jan 28, 2011 6:51 pm
HereI thought it was funny :3 Maybe you can use it.
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Posted: Sat Jan 29, 2011 8:54 pm
Ze Fuzzy Bunny HereI thought it was funny :3 Maybe you can use it. LOVE IT!!!! biggrin I will definatley use these if anyone picks on me or any of my friends ever!! Man do I ever wish I knew these back when I WAS picked on!! smile
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Posted: Sat Jan 29, 2011 9:19 pm
Lol @ the comeback website
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Posted: Sun Feb 06, 2011 8:51 am
@Bunny- Heck, I will use that!
@Deported- Yeah.
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Posted: Sun Feb 06, 2011 11:23 am
Ok, go to a guidance counsilor or just see it this way, if someone is really messing with you so much like that, he probably lives such a terrible, crummy life that he secretly hates himself so he bullys you to try and make himself feel better
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Posted: Sat Feb 26, 2011 5:16 pm
Her Silent Cries Ok, go to a guidance counsilor or just see it this way, if someone is really messing with you so much like that, he probably lives such a terrible, crummy life that he secretly hates himself so he bullys you to try and make himself feel better I've tried that, but you've got a point
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Colorful Shadows Vice Captain
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Posted: Sun Feb 27, 2011 1:04 pm
Colorful Shadows Her Silent Cries Ok, go to a guidance counsilor or just see it this way, if someone is really messing with you so much like that, he probably lives such a terrible, crummy life that he secretly hates himself so he bullys you to try and make himself feel better I've tried that, but you've got a point lookat it this way, is it really worth getting upset over? and if seeing an adult doesnt work, tell your mom, have her call the school and b***h. if that STILL doesn't work, call the school board
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Posted: Mon Feb 28, 2011 9:46 am
Her Silent Cries Colorful Shadows Her Silent Cries Ok, go to a guidance counsilor or just see it this way, if someone is really messing with you so much like that, he probably lives such a terrible, crummy life that he secretly hates himself so he bullys you to try and make himself feel better I've tried that, but you've got a point lookat it this way, is it really worth getting upset over? and if seeing an adult doesnt work, tell your mom, have her call the school and b***h. if that STILL doesn't work, call the school board
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Posted: Mon Feb 28, 2011 2:27 pm
Red_World04 Her Silent Cries Colorful Shadows Her Silent Cries Ok, go to a guidance counsilor or just see it this way, if someone is really messing with you so much like that, he probably lives such a terrible, crummy life that he secretly hates himself so he bullys you to try and make himself feel better I've tried that, but you've got a point lookat it this way, is it really worth getting upset over? and if seeing an adult doesnt work, tell your mom, have her call the school and b***h. if that STILL doesn't work, call the school board Yes. And if not, tell the school board. Isn't there a law that says bullyings illegal or something and EVERYONE who works at a school must report bullying? If you told a teacher and they did nothing, you can report them and they may get into A LOT of trouble
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