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 Posted: Mon Jan 17, 2011 8:40 am
on your computer/wherever, if you had a girlfriend?
As in actual regular girls, not models or anything.
Unless you're a cheating ********, then of course you would. But...other reasons?
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Posted: Mon Jan 17, 2011 12:37 pm
It depends on what you mean.
Are you talking about n***s? In which case, sure. Why not? It's porn, it's hot.
Are you talking like... just having a folder full of pictures of my friend Kallie on the beach and at Target? Well, I mean, if I took them it'd make sense for me to have them. It'd be a little weird if they just had like a folder of pictures downloaded from Facebook or something, though.
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Posted: Mon Jan 17, 2011 2:05 pm
Not n***s, just...scantily clad.
You think it's okay to have n***s of other girls while you have a girlfriend? You don't think that's weird or wrong at all?
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Posted: Mon Jan 17, 2011 9:05 pm
Porn is porn, it has a purpose, beyond that purpose it is entirely.
I've had pictures of female friends from the beach or just that they sent me since I hadn't seen them in a while, and my thoughts were more along the lines of
YAY FRIEND
Basically what I'm saying is scantily clad does not always equal bad intent and it's only weird if you or he make it so.
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Posted: Mon Jan 17, 2011 11:44 pm
marzipancakes Not n***s, just...scantily clad. You think it's okay to have n***s of other girls while you have a girlfriend? You don't think that's weird or wrong at all? I don't think it's wrong at all. Porn isn't cheating in my head, it's just an aid for a release. I know Ani watched porn and was never bothered by that. It's not unhealthy. If your significant other is actively going out and getting dirty/scantily clad pictures from his friends then that is a bit of a different story.
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Posted: Tue Jan 18, 2011 5:08 am
Porn is porn. Most of the stuff I have is "regular" girls/amateurs. How is it any different from professional stuff? It's not. I'm not going to suddenly purge my porn folder because I have a girlfriend. I would suggest that it's more of an insecurity on the part of the girlfriend, just because I have porn doesn't mean I don't still love her and want to do things with her. She can't always be around, sooo..
EDIT: Though, yeah, if it's other girls I personally know yeah that's weird.
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Posted: Tue Jan 18, 2011 3:21 pm
Hahaha and what we have here is another perfect example of how differently males and females think :p
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Posted: Tue Jan 18, 2011 5:03 pm
but i'm a girl and i think it's fine. neutral
porn stars are just random girls too essentially. except men usually prefer to look at women who look more like someone they could actually sleep with.
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Posted: Wed Jan 19, 2011 3:13 am
marzipancakes Hahaha and what we have here is another perfect example of how Mary being sexist and possibly insecure.
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Posted: Wed Jan 19, 2011 6:36 am
I just think it's funny/interesting how differently the two think! it's not sexist, it's a fact. Maybe some think the same in some areas, like Lydia's case, but there will always be some difference.
And yeah, I have like a billion insecurities. -shrug-
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Posted: Wed Jan 19, 2011 11:26 am
I still don't get why it'd be preferable for a dude to look at models. They're still women, they're still people. Are you saying it's better to objectify models?
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Posted: Wed Jan 19, 2011 12:49 pm
Because what would you rather find while dating a guy;
Find a picture of some random model chick from a bikini calender ?
Find a scandalous photo of a girl who you know in real life and who he knows as well ?
Finding the first thing would never bring up thoughts of cheating, etc; at least for me it would not. Finding the second one would make you question why he has it, when he got it, and generally just make you suspicious etc etc.
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Posted: Wed Jan 19, 2011 1:03 pm
Streetlight Fights Because what would you rather find while dating a guy; Find a picture of some random model chick from a bikini calender ? Find a scandalous photo of a girl who you know in real life and who he knows as well ? Finding the first thing would never bring up thoughts of cheating, etc; at least for me it would not. Finding the second one would make you question why he has it, when he got it, and generally just make you suspicious etc etc. but the second scenario was never in the equation... he doesn't know the girls, they're still just models for all intents and purposes.
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Posted: Wed Jan 19, 2011 2:58 pm
marzipancakes I just think it's funny/interesting how differently the two think! it's not sexist, it's a fact. Maybe some think the same in some areas, like Lydia's case, but there will always be some difference. And yeah, I have like a billion insecurities. -shrug- You are claiming gender as a cause for thought process, thus SEXISM
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Posted: Wed Jan 19, 2011 3:47 pm
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