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 Posted: Sun Jan 16, 2011 12:04 pm
I don't know what to do anymore my mom yells at me more than i can count a day, I'm slowly losing it and don't know what to do anymore. They keep me away from the only friend that can help and i only have three friends in this town. The only one who understands is the one my parents hate and i just don't know what to do!
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Posted: Sun Jan 16, 2011 12:09 pm
well, what do your parents yell at you about, dear? and what issue is it that only this one friend understands you about, and what do your parents dislike about him/her?
and also, why do you have so few friends? have you tried making more friends? are you being ostracized, or are you simply too shy or afraid to socialize with others?
so far this sounds like it could be a lot worse. and I would like to know what your situation is more clearly, so that I can give you advice. if there isn't anything more serious than what you have mentioned already, than it is all fixable with effort on your part.
EDIT: also, this looks like it belongs in the "You" subforum. I'll move it there after you reply to this.
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Posted: Sun Jan 16, 2011 12:18 pm
I go through the same thing a lot. Just ignore your mum. Try to get as much as possible. And know, someday, it will get better
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Posted: Sun Jan 16, 2011 12:21 pm
If you like, you can pm me whenever to just talk about whatever. I'm here to help if you want
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Posted: Sun Jan 16, 2011 2:03 pm
Chieftain Twilight well, what do your parents yell at you about, dear? and what issue is it that only this one friend understands you about, and what do your parents dislike about him/her? and also, why do you have so few friends? have you tried making more friends? are you being ostracized, or are you simply too shy or afraid to socialize with others? so far this sounds like it could be a lot worse. and I would like to know what your situation is more clearly, so that I can give you advice. if there isn't anything more serious than what you have mentioned already, than it is all fixable with effort on your part. EDIT: also, this looks like it belongs in the "You" subforum. I'll move it there after you reply to this. My mom has a mental problem and i get the most of it and i live in a town that if you like something diffrent and have certain friends you are an outsider im not shy i can make a friend anywere but people here cant see the inside of people all they see is you like something diffrent and look ugly. I want to leave this town but we dont have money to move. my mom and dad hate my friend becouse she likes anime and dosnt wash her hair or face and is geting me not taking care of myself but she makes me do everything that imsupposed to do. she is also the reson i get bullyed its cuz im friends with her shes an "outside" in this town. my mom yells at me that its my fault im bullyed and yells at me instead of helping me get through it. Becouse i dont want to be around them i stay in my room only coming out for school dishes and eating other than that im avoiding them in case my mom snaps at me or thros something. she threw my baseball helmet at me and just missed me by an inch. shes been throing things and had to go to the hospital for a month once. Thanks i noticed it after hehe
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Posted: Sun Jan 16, 2011 2:05 pm
Her Silent Cries If you like, you can pm me whenever to just talk about whatever. I'm here to help if you want Thanks
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Posted: Sun Jan 16, 2011 2:22 pm
Zidanefangirl Chieftain Twilight well, what do your parents yell at you about, dear? and what issue is it that only this one friend understands you about, and what do your parents dislike about him/her? and also, why do you have so few friends? have you tried making more friends? are you being ostracized, or are you simply too shy or afraid to socialize with others? so far this sounds like it could be a lot worse. and I would like to know what your situation is more clearly, so that I can give you advice. if there isn't anything more serious than what you have mentioned already, than it is all fixable with effort on your part. EDIT: also, this looks like it belongs in the "You" subforum. I'll move it there after you reply to this. My mom has a mental problem and i get the most of it and i live in a town that if you like something diffrent and have certain friends you are an outsider im not shy i can make a friend anywere but people here cant see the inside of people all they see is you like something diffrent and look ugly. I want to leave this town but we dont have money to move. my mom and dad hate my friend becouse she likes anime and dosnt wash her hair or face and is geting me not taking care of myself but she makes me do everything that imsupposed to do. she is also the reson i get bullyed its cuz im friends with her shes an "outside" in this town. my mom yells at me that its my fault im bullyed and yells at me instead of helping me get through it. Becouse i dont want to be around them i stay in my room only coming out for school dishes and eating other than that im avoiding them in case my mom snaps at me or thros something. she threw my baseball helmet at me and just missed me by an inch. shes been throing things and had to go to the hospital for a month once. Thanks i noticed it after hehe hm... now I can imagine that other authority figures u could turn to for help would be equally problematic. it sounds like the entire town you live in has a very narrow culture, and most everyone shares teh same general viewpoint. just in case, I would first contact your schools Guidance Councilor, and see if they have any advice concerning your situation. also, try to see if there is a Support Group you can attend anywhere in town or on campus. keep us updated here, and I will see what advice to give from the updates. another thing I suggest is that you try to look for work. I know that the economy is bad right now, but finding a job that pays even under-the-table could help you speed up the process of bettering your situation or moving to a healthier social environment. don't tell anyone what your motivations for this are. just show the willingness to work and earn your pay. that caused the least conflict, and you will find that eerything will work out more smoothly for you if you keep up that face. one key piece of advice when working toward getting out of a hostile situation, is to blend in, and try to look like you know what you're doing. it's one of the most basic survival techniques.
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Posted: Sun Jan 16, 2011 2:57 pm
Chieftain Twilight Zidanefangirl Chieftain Twilight well, what do your parents yell at you about, dear? and what issue is it that only this one friend understands you about, and what do your parents dislike about him/her? and also, why do you have so few friends? have you tried making more friends? are you being ostracized, or are you simply too shy or afraid to socialize with others? so far this sounds like it could be a lot worse. and I would like to know what your situation is more clearly, so that I can give you advice. if there isn't anything more serious than what you have mentioned already, than it is all fixable with effort on your part. EDIT: also, this looks like it belongs in the "You" subforum. I'll move it there after you reply to this. My mom has a mental problem and i get the most of it and i live in a town that if you like something diffrent and have certain friends you are an outsider im not shy i can make a friend anywere but people here cant see the inside of people all they see is you like something diffrent and look ugly. I want to leave this town but we dont have money to move. my mom and dad hate my friend becouse she likes anime and dosnt wash her hair or face and is geting me not taking care of myself but she makes me do everything that imsupposed to do. she is also the reson i get bullyed its cuz im friends with her shes an "outside" in this town. my mom yells at me that its my fault im bullyed and yells at me instead of helping me get through it. Becouse i dont want to be around them i stay in my room only coming out for school dishes and eating other than that im avoiding them in case my mom snaps at me or thros something. she threw my baseball helmet at me and just missed me by an inch. shes been throing things and had to go to the hospital for a month once. Thanks i noticed it after hehe hm... now I can imagine that other authority figures u could turn to for help would be equally problematic. it sounds like the entire town you live in has a very narrow culture, and most everyone shares teh same general viewpoint. just in case, I would first contact your schools Guidance Councilor, and see if they have any advice concerning your situation. also, try to see if there is a Support Group you can attend anywhere in town or on campus. keep us updated here, and I will see what advice to give from the updates. another thing I suggest is that you try to look for work. I know that the economy is bad right now, but finding a job that pays even under-the-table could help you speed up the process of bettering your situation or moving to a healthier social environment. don't tell anyone what your motivations for this are. just show the willingness to work and earn your pay. that caused the least conflict, and you will find that eerything will work out more smoothly for you if you keep up that face. one key piece of advice when working toward getting out of a hostile situation, is to blend in, and try to look like you know what you're doing. it's one of the most basic survival techniques. Thanks and i have talked to the guidance counsiler and she is helping me to get better she is saying that ishould talk to my mom more get her and my dad to eat with us and watch movies together and everything and don't worry i will.
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Posted: Sun Jan 16, 2011 4:11 pm
Zidanefangirl Chieftain Twilight Zidanefangirl Chieftain Twilight well, what do your parents yell at you about, dear? and what issue is it that only this one friend understands you about, and what do your parents dislike about him/her? and also, why do you have so few friends? have you tried making more friends? are you being ostracized, or are you simply too shy or afraid to socialize with others? so far this sounds like it could be a lot worse. and I would like to know what your situation is more clearly, so that I can give you advice. if there isn't anything more serious than what you have mentioned already, than it is all fixable with effort on your part. EDIT: also, this looks like it belongs in the "You" subforum. I'll move it there after you reply to this. My mom has a mental problem and i get the most of it and i live in a town that if you like something diffrent and have certain friends you are an outsider im not shy i can make a friend anywere but people here cant see the inside of people all they see is you like something diffrent and look ugly. I want to leave this town but we dont have money to move. my mom and dad hate my friend becouse she likes anime and dosnt wash her hair or face and is geting me not taking care of myself but she makes me do everything that imsupposed to do. she is also the reson i get bullyed its cuz im friends with her shes an "outside" in this town. my mom yells at me that its my fault im bullyed and yells at me instead of helping me get through it. Becouse i dont want to be around them i stay in my room only coming out for school dishes and eating other than that im avoiding them in case my mom snaps at me or thros something. she threw my baseball helmet at me and just missed me by an inch. shes been throing things and had to go to the hospital for a month once. Thanks i noticed it after hehe hm... now I can imagine that other authority figures u could turn to for help would be equally problematic. it sounds like the entire town you live in has a very narrow culture, and most everyone shares teh same general viewpoint. just in case, I would first contact your schools Guidance Councilor, and see if they have any advice concerning your situation. also, try to see if there is a Support Group you can attend anywhere in town or on campus. keep us updated here, and I will see what advice to give from the updates. another thing I suggest is that you try to look for work. I know that the economy is bad right now, but finding a job that pays even under-the-table could help you speed up the process of bettering your situation or moving to a healthier social environment. don't tell anyone what your motivations for this are. just show the willingness to work and earn your pay. that caused the least conflict, and you will find that eerything will work out more smoothly for you if you keep up that face. one key piece of advice when working toward getting out of a hostile situation, is to blend in, and try to look like you know what you're doing. it's one of the most basic survival techniques. Thanks and i have talked to the guidance counsiler and she is helping me to get better she is saying that ishould talk to my mom more get her and my dad to eat with us and watch movies together and everything and don't worry i will. :nods.: I'll be keeping my eye on this thread. smile if you have any questions, feel free to PM me.
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Posted: Mon Jan 17, 2011 6:25 am
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Posted: Tue Jan 18, 2011 5:21 pm
Today we had supper together as a family it was weird we have only ate supper together when we have people over. My mom yelled at my little brother and i said one thing about school and other than that it was quiet. I also had a bad day at school i freaked out on lots of people and a little girl freaked out on me when i asked if i could get through to the washroom to wash my hands. I also went to skating and found out i had to walk home becouse it was hochey. I did not have a good day!
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Posted: Sat Jan 22, 2011 12:05 pm
Zidanefangirl Her Silent Cries If you like, you can pm me whenever to just talk about whatever. I'm here to help if you want Thanks You're welcome. I'm here to help in any way I can 3nodding How about this, before you go to bed at night, make a list of three things you were thankful for (such as maybe someone held open the door for you at the library). There's at least three things a day. The more possitive your thinking is, the easier this will be. Whenever you feel upset, write down exactly how you're feeling. Keep writing until you simply cannot anymore. Let the words flow
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Posted: Sat Jan 22, 2011 8:57 pm
That is a perfect idea and ill try it maybe it will work!
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Posted: Sat Jan 22, 2011 8:58 pm
Heres a good thing i went to the city with my mom and we had some time together i was so happy it has been ages since it was just me and my mom!
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