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Rain_Hime

PostPosted: Sat Jan 28, 2006 1:02 pm


my friend has told me she's cyber sexing this guy online she's know for two years. what do i tell her? confused whee
PostPosted: Sat Jan 28, 2006 1:31 pm


Does she really know the guy?Like did she actually see who he is or had a conversation with him on the phone or something ? (not saying she should do that) but if not then tell her that he could be an old guy who has nothing to do instead of just sitting on the comp and doing that kind of stuff with young girls like your friend , because seriously..thats just sick. If she tells you that she saw a pic of him...that doesnt change it because either he could get any pic of a cute hot guy and say that it is him , so i guess you need to tell your friend about what if...that or that...etc , iam sure she will start to think about it and maybe stop ?

Also i think this should go to the Advice forum , iam sure a Mod would move this later on. sweatdrop

XxArikaxX


Guacamole-kun

PostPosted: Sat Jan 28, 2006 4:52 pm


XxArikaxX
Does she really know the guy?Like did she actually see who he is or had a conversation with him on the phone or something ? (not saying she should do that) but if not then tell her that he could be an old guy who has nothing to do instead of just sitting on the comp and doing that kind of stuff with young girls like your friend , because seriously..thats just sick. If she tells you that she saw a pic of him...that doesnt change it because either he could get any pic of a cute hot guy and say that it is him , so i guess you need to tell your friend about what if...that or that...etc , iam sure she will start to think about it and maybe stop ?

Also i think this should go to the Advice forum , iam sure a Mod would move this later on. sweatdrop


She could tell him to take a pic of himself doing something really specific... you know, like standing on his head, reading Harry Potter, and eating a pie while wearing plaid pajamas. ^____~ If he does it, it either means that he's not faking his identity, or that he's really good with Photoshop.

...but I don't really have advice for the actual cybering problem, because I'm, uuh... not really against it. XD; I think cybering is kinda silly, (though not as silly as phone sex...) but not really all that bad.
PostPosted: Sat Jan 28, 2006 5:06 pm


This is a hard thing. First of all you need to let the friend know how you feel about the whole thing. Let the friend know that you are concerned. Be honest. But still show love. Don't give ultimatums. Love the friend as a child of God even if they don't change.

jamesthelittle


William Che King

PostPosted: Sun Jan 29, 2006 5:03 pm


Tell her that...he could turn out to be a 40 yr old married man. For a stronger effect, say it happened to you.
PostPosted: Tue Jan 31, 2006 2:04 pm


just let her cyber him online but do not let her cyber him offline. if u cetch my drift--i hope u do!

wvgirl


ioioouiouiouio

PostPosted: Tue Jan 31, 2006 2:46 pm


Is your friend christian?

if so, then let her know that what she's doing is adultry and a sin.

If not, then let her know you disaprove. There's not much else you can do.
PostPosted: Tue Jan 31, 2006 9:30 pm


Moved to the advice subforum. heart

Grayed
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