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 Posted: Mon Dec 20, 2010 10:43 pm
So I got pretty damn close to having sex with someone not too long ago. The circumstances kind of forced us to leave it at making out, but now that I've had time to think a few things over, I've come to realize that I'm insecure and am in need of some third-party advice. There are two things that really stick out in my mind:
1. I have no idea what I'm doing. I hadn't even kissed anyone until a couple of months ago, and that was the first time I'd ever gone anywhere beyond making out with someone. This level of uncertainty scares me.
2. It might sound ridiculous, but I'm at something of an impasse when it comes to deciding whether or not I should shave/get a bikini wax. Is there some standard when it comes to pubic hair on a woman? I'd imagine shaving/waxing would make oral a lot easier, but I'd like to get some input on this before going to the effort required for that kind of hair removal.
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Posted: Mon Dec 20, 2010 11:07 pm
Do whatever the ******** YOU want.
It's your decision to have sex or not, with who you want, when you want and where. It doesn't matter if you're a virgin in the first place, there's nothing at all wrong with it in any way shape or form.
When you first have sex, it'll be awkward anyways, don't worry about not knowing what to do. It will come instinctively to you.
As for your cooter I would say make sure it is trimmed at least. It's just polite.
tl;dr chillax breh.
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Posted: Mon Dec 20, 2010 11:23 pm
Some guys like shaving, but I hate it. neutral IF HE IS A MAN HE'LL DEAL WITH IT. But I trim just so it isn't ridic down there.
Also it is totally okay to be a virgin. First times are awkward. Anyone with experience knows this.
You'll be totally fine girl.
PM me if you wanna talk~
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Posted: Tue Dec 21, 2010 2:58 am
first of all, the length of your experience has nothing to do with the power of your sexiness. NEVER trip about that. you are a sexy, untouched, beautiful piece of a**. you are a goddess of purity. work that untouched booty.
also, the whole pube situation is up to you. if you don't feel like waxing, don't wax. if the guy you're with bitches about it, he can go ******** himself and try waxing his own balls.
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Posted: Sun Dec 26, 2010 9:13 pm
There is nothing wrong with virginity. I didn't give it up till the night I got married. People think it's cute when they find out LOL. I think "yay! I didn't have to get a bunch of blood tests to get my marriage license!"
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Posted: Mon Dec 27, 2010 1:03 pm
If it's the right person, none of this is going to matter. My first time was hilarious. We giggled and cuddled through the whole thing because neither of us really knew what we were doing. Sex doesn't have to be SRS BUSINESS. And if you're with somebody who has had sex before, you can just ask if there's anything they like and try that.
And as far as pubic hair goes, I mean, I just keep everything trim with one of those electric trimmers guys use on their beards. It gets your hair nice and short, you can't cut yourself, you don't get razor burn, and takes like all of two minutes. But if you like natural, be natural, and if somebody cares about that badly, don't ******** them. XD
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