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 Posted: Sun Dec 19, 2010 3:12 am
I am in love with a girl name Kira...but she doesn't see how much I love her, she sleeps around, cheats on me, and lies to me. I give her gold and help her out with whatever she needs but she always does to me. Recently she had cheated on me with someone I already knew she was with before. On top of that she did it again with another dude that I know. I need help...I don't want to leave her...because I want to trust her. She is supposed to be moving here with me but the people she knows keeps telling me that she's not worth it or that she uses people or she isn't even going to bother to set foot in the same area as me. Someone please help me. Not only that but my ex recently stepped back into my life...the one I left to be with Kira...I slowly realized that I loved her again, my ex that is...and now I am confused...
crying crying crying crying crying crying crying crying
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Posted: Sun Dec 19, 2010 9:53 pm
I have a hard time understanding problems like yours mostly because I am not very tolerant of people. If my boyfriend cheated on me multiple times, no matter how much I loved him, he'd be out of my life the next day. I know for a fact that I don't deserve to be treated like that.
I've had friends with similar problems as you and the only advice I was able to give them was that they deserved better. There are just some things that you shouldn't have to forgive and cheating is one of them. I've come to learn that people who cheat don't change.
Perhaps, you shouldn't have this girl move in with you. As for your ex, I hope she didn't treat you the same way.
I'm not sure if this was helpful at all. sad Good luck. I hope someone has better advice than me!
-Lindsey-
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Posted: Sat Dec 25, 2010 3:20 pm
if kira is cheating on you and you are doing all kinds of nice stuff for her then she is just using you. Stop being nice and don't mess with her any more. It's never going to happen. If you care for your ex you have to put kira out of your mind for good and hope that your ex will take you back.
I'm sorry to have to tell you this (assuming that you broke up with your ex just for the sake of another) but if you ex came to me and asked for advice about you... considering that you left her for another woman... I would tell her never to take you back.
Basically... People break up for REASONS... and unless those reasons are completely void now... then there is NOT ANY REASON to get back together again.
Bottom line is...
You ex has no reason to trust you again... you left her once and you could do it again. You cannot leave people on a yo-yo string, it hurts too much. Kira is using you... don't let her play you for a fool. Find love some place else and enjoy being young... don't squander your precious time in a bunch of drama.
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Posted: Tue Dec 28, 2010 11:38 am
Tama Hoshi if kira is cheating on you and you are doing all kinds of nice stuff for her then she is just using you. Stop being nice and don't mess with her any more. It's never going to happen. If you care for your ex you have to put kira out of your mind for good and hope that your ex will take you back. I'm sorry to have to tell you this (assuming that you broke up with your ex just for the sake of another) but if you ex came to me and asked for advice about you... considering that you left her for another woman... I would tell her never to take you back. Basically... People break up for REASONS... and unless those reasons are completely void now... then there is NOT ANY REASON to get back together again. Bottom line is... You ex has no reason to trust you again... you left her once and you could do it again. You cannot leave people on a yo-yo string, it hurts too much. Kira is using you... don't let her play you for a fool. Find love some place else and enjoy being young... don't squander your precious time in a bunch of drama. Agreed.
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Posted: Wed Jan 05, 2011 10:06 pm
heart i think its about you move on plus there are many other people out there that can treat you way better than kira
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Posted: Sat Mar 26, 2011 4:17 am
Yea, i now must comment on this, maybe she is scared to be in a commeted relationship i mean it happens with some girls, because there scared they might get hurt.
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Posted: Wed Mar 30, 2011 4:06 pm
X-Rainbow Crystal Storm-X Yea, i now must comment on this, maybe she is scared to be in a commeted relationship i mean it happens with some girls, because there scared they might get hurt.
There's no excuse for cheating. Cheaters are one of two things. Cowards, or greedy assholes. If a girl can't look her man in the eye and tell him she doesn't love him anymore, she's a coward. If she's just in it for the benefits, and still wants other men... well, that's just greed. I can't think of any situation where cheating is acceptable, or understandable.
The same thing applies to men. If more people would either grow some balls or get over themselves, less people would get hurt.
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Posted: Thu Mar 31, 2011 5:59 am
Not true! maybe she had mixed emotions, like she was confused, but that dosent give the boy a reason to go have sex with someone else when they have no proof that the girl was cheating, then again if the girl wasent cheating the guy would still fool around, in other words the guy is COWERD
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Posted: Thu Mar 31, 2011 3:05 pm
X-Rainbow Crystal Storm-X Not true! maybe she had mixed emotions, like she was confused, but that dosent give the boy a reason to go have sex with someone else when they have no proof that the girl was cheating, then again if the girl wasent cheating the guy would still fool around, in other words the guy is COWERD
Excuses. Mixed emotions? Confusion?! If that's all it takes to make cheating ok, I'd just rather not be in a relationship.
I definitely said that the same thing applies to men as well. Oh and it's "coward."
Fact: Cheating is never EVER ok.
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Posted: Thu Mar 31, 2011 4:06 pm
Yea, cheating is never ok, maybe if she was treated right she wouldent have done it.
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Posted: Mon Apr 04, 2011 7:01 pm
X-Rainbow Crystal Storm-X Yea, cheating is never ok, maybe if she was treated right she wouldent have done it. Doesn't matter. That's just another excuse. People CHOOSE how they react to certain situations. If my boyfriend was mistreating or cheating on me, I'd dump his a**. I wouldn't cheat on him back. That's got to be the dumbest thing I've ever heard. It's like elementary school. You hit me so I'll hit you back. Where is the logic?! Break up and move on. If he cheats, then you cheat, you are JUST as bad as he is. NO excuses. NO reasons.
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Posted: Fri Apr 08, 2011 4:11 am
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Posted: Mon Apr 18, 2011 11:29 pm
Thank you everyone for the advice, but how it ended was simply like this, Kira cheated on me again, and I left her. Though I had been waiting for her for a month, she ended up cheating on me with the same dude I was told she stopped talking to. One of her friends contacted me one day after I had moved on with a girl named Yuki in which I loved with all of my being. Apparently her friend claimed that Kira was going insane last time they saw her in school kicking, screaming, still claiming she loved me, so they gave me her number and we spoke for awhile. She apparently has STD's now, a child in which was taken away and a husband. When she popped back into my life I seen her as just filth or dirt under my shoe, and now she is no different and she hasn't changed. Right now I am single bascially and trying to get over some problems I am having with my personal self. I wish to make the person I am online and the person I am irl connect.
Also I had quit this site awhile back, I just came on to check in on things.
If anyone wishes to contact me please feel free to do so. My profile should have my information
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Posted: Tue Apr 19, 2011 4:35 am
Yes, sometimes babys are alot to handle, but no need to tell everyone she has a disease, in witch your a rude person if you do.
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Posted: Tue Apr 19, 2011 7:20 pm
Oo Vanilla Pretzels Oo Yes, sometimes babys are alot to handle, but no need to tell everyone she has a disease, in witch your a rude person if you do. That only means that the mother should stop being nosey, and stop trying to defend what she knows is wrong, on top of having Alex, and Kevin contacting me. If this happens and it's been months now, MONTHS then perhaps that mother is more of a child instead of a mother, perhaps she is not fit to be a mother, perhaps she is no different then the liar everyone knows her to be. I know this, and I know this well, if these things do not stop, I will be sure to handle it on my own.
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